So my wife has been bringing up strip clubs a lot recently... This was prompted by her telling me that a friend of hers mentioned that she would be going to a strip club with her husband while in Vegas. My wife seems to have an obsession on the topic ever since because she has brought it up repeatedly, and once acted guilty saying "does it make me a bad wife that I don't want to go to a strip club with you?" Claiming jealousy and self confidence issues are the likely rooted cause... My opinion has always been consistent, I think it would be hot to see my wife having fun with another woman and I would be open to an FFM but only if it was a team endeavor, not one-sided, requiring her enthusiasm and insistence. Wife has always claimed to be purely straight, never experimented with females, and claims this is still the case. However she also claimed to not be into bdsm when we first started dating and now she is a kinky bad girl lol. She asked me my opinion on strip clubs, told her I'm not a big fan of paying to see fake tits and generally am not attracted to the type of woman who would be a stripper but that it would be hot to see wife get a lap dance. Wife didn't seem upset about that response but didn't escalate either... then yesterday she texts me a YouTube video of a Halloween themed poledance... I'm like "you seem to be obsessed with strippers lately, do you like this video?" And she turned it around and asked 'i just thought it was funny and coincidental to our discussions recently", not really saying anything new...
So basically I am confused lol. I'm wondering if this seems like my wife is curious and wants to try going to a strip club together. Would she keep bringing it up otherwise? She is always the one bringing it up, not me. Is this a red flag or something that can enhance our marriage? How should I proceed?
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