Second date with this girl who I know from a meditation group. When we first met I tried to keep things a bit light hearted and fun but she was really uptight. She announced almost immediately that she had to leave at 830pm (1 hour) and basically we needed to hurry up and order dinner.
When we're ordering drinks and dinner and the barmaid tells us how much it will be, she looks at me and says "oh, do you want us to pay separate", to which I reply "unless you're shouting " she looked at me stone cold and said "no, I'm not offering to pay". This pissed me off a bit because A. It was her idea to get food, I would have been happy with a beer and B. She's a doctor and probably earns a fair bit more.
We sat down and started chatting and it's like everything I said she can either outdo with her own experiences or she is this much better now complete person.
At one point she tells me how she has a huge number of friends, I asked her "are you a narcissist?". By that point I had become tired of her grandiose view of her own self and what a complete person she believed she was.
Anyway she started tearing up after the narcissist comment, made a big deal about how nobody had ever said that to her before, and left.
All in all a terrible date.
Was that an awful thing you ask? I didn't actually mean for it to be hurtful, just kind of said what was on my mind.