Whenever I initiate, my girl will either enthusiastically go along with my advances, or she'll sometimes just comply with some starfish sex. I'd definitely prefer her enthusiasm, but really I'd just like to fuck her and I'll still take that if she submits to it.
Unfortunately, just semi-recently I've found out that me still fucking her during star-fish really upsets her and makes her self-reportedly feel used and uncared for. She claims to have lost comfort with me as of late and all I've been getting lately is starfish sex.
So my question is, would never initiating on my part, and allowing her to only ever initiate be a smart move (given that she actually initiates at some point)? I want more than starfish, and yeah I'd like to keep her comfort with me as she's outright said she's lost a good degree of it lately.
I probably shouldn't have done this, but I did verbally agree with her to not initiate for a few weeks and only allow her to do it when she's pining for it. Hopefully she does (it'll show her true attraction towards me). Anyhow, what do you guys think, would doing this be a wise way for men who remain attractive (if that is me) to stop having issues over sex? Would it be a bad idea if I did this beyond a few weeks? Just looking for some input here.
I have of course been lifting, my frame still needs some work, have been lifting 11 years now before I ever found TRP. Am working on improvement in all areas of my life.
So far I've got nothing from posting here. Responses are all: "DO THE WORK" "FAGGOT" "SHE ISN'T ATTRACTED TO YOU" "FRAME FRAME FRAME" "RREEEEEEEEEEE"
Great help guys. Frame. Isn't attracted to me. Cool shit. Anything else?