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Do girls actually have an easier time in college?

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November 2, 2019
60 upvotes

If so how do you not be angry about it?


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Title Do girls actually have an easier time in college?
Author ashblossomcherries
Upvotes 60
Comments 125
Date 02 November 2019 02:44 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/293714
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dql3pf/do_girls_actually_have_an_easier_time_in_college/
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[–]__TheDon__95 points96 points  (4 children) | Copy

Women have an easier time in life in general, not just college.

85% of custody battles are won by women. 97% of work fatalities are men. Men are almost 4 times as likely to commit suicide more than women.

Women are treated like a protect class by everyone.

I can go on forever of how they have it easier, but you get the point.

The key is to understand how their brain works, and then play with them how you like. It is a much healthier and more fun option than resenting them.

[–]mickenrorty18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

8x more likely for suicide during divorce when children are involved

[–]newls4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I also read somewhere that 98% of all life insurance policies are taken out by men. The figures might not actually be that high but it certainly reflects men's responsibility to look after those who depend on them. Only a minority of very wealthy women, I'd wager, actually care about where their money goes after they're gone.

[–]BlackVale1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've read the sidebar. Have any other material that would add on to understanding how their brain works?

[–]mustache_ride_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

and then play with them how you like. It is a much healthier and more fun option

In 2019 where the courts, media and public opinion think you're the devil and women are infallible, you beautiful retards amaze me how over-confident you are. A bitch can flip the switch after a date and say you raped her and you are going to jail if you don't have a camera/text/emall proof. Due process is a joke now.

[–]Time_Animal_231 points232 points  (47 children) | Copy

Girls

  1. Are unlikely to be socially isolated
  2. Are unlikely to be romantically isolate.
  3. Are more collaborative
  4. Are happy to meet expectations. Women don't want to make anything or expand on ideas. They read the assignment and fullfil it.
  5. Take easier classes, by far, overall

[–]Ballosaurus96 points97 points  (7 children) | Copy

Exactly. No reason to resent them for it or be upset, that’s just how it goes.

Work hard, take risks, succeed in your mission, and you’ll be much more satisfied overall

[–]Snowaey27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

Facts, complaining wont help your situation, just accept things as they are and make the best of it.

[–]RockSoy35 points36 points  (4 children) | Copy

Resentment is natural to an extent. Tired of this false turn the other cheek bullshit people push. However said resentment should be channeled in ways that yield positive results for yourself, not just wallow in anger

[–]endertheend[🍰] 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Its not "FALSE" turn the Other cheek bullshit. When you Turn the other cheek, you whole head moves and faces towards what you need to be focusing on, i.e. lifting studying getting career in order making connections game finding and working on your mission.

In other words. . .not wasting time.

If you're doing what you need to be doing, you wont have time for "Resentment" That feeling is an indication that you're not working as hard as you could be.

[–]RockSoy2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Resentment and anger are some of the best motivators. My desire for self improvement is powered by resentment and some of the great men in history were motivated by resentment,

[–]TatManTat-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

They're also pretty self-destructive as sources for motivation.

The "great men" you might list are the truly crazy cunts who can persevere through all that shit, use it and actually still be productive.

You need to ask yourself whether you are truly that 1 in a million individual that can actually utilise it.

Somehow I doubt it tbh.

[–]RockSoy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Plenty of normal everyday people are driven by a chip on their shoulder. You just don’t realize it because they don’t broadcast it to the world. Some of the hardest working people in the gym are those who were mocked for being too skinny or fat at one point. Some of the shrewdest businessmen/investors are those who grew up poor and felt inadequate. Some of the sharpest people in academia are those who were bullied growing up

[–]dtyler861 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Then fast forward to your thirties. The ones that partied hardest and had it easiest are alone, sad, Bartending and you’re finally mature enough that you’re indifferent to how easy they had it, now you’re succeeding and their loneliness is less amusing as it is interesting; you see college girls behaving the way they did when you were in college and are aware what’s in store for them.

[–]UsernameIWontRegret31 points32 points  (10 children) | Copy

Studies have also shown their work is graded far more generously than that of boys.

[–]power_cleaner3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

Interesting because the nicest and most lenient professors I’ve had are women.

Almost every male professor I’ve had has been a complete dick.

[–]UsernameIWontRegret14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Funny, opposite is true for me.

[–]DownBy15TDGoFor29 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Really? I find women always have something to prove so they grade harshly whereas men are chill about grading.

[–]power_cleaner3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not in my case. I had surgery last semester, my two male professors were assholes and failed me for missing two weeks. The three women gave me I’s and gave me a ton of time to finish.

Most male professors I’ve had or currently have are cocky assholes and women are super nice, helpful and friendly.

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[–]power_cleaner1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah I know a girl got me fired from my first on campus college job freshman year after two weeks.

[–]thesquarerootof10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lol, same thing happened to my friend...

[–]Jay_x_Playboy0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

And curriculum is tailored towards their interests, at least in High school. Remember having to read Romeo and Juliet? What high school aged boy is going to be interested in that?

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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Funny, bitches think it glorifies love, except it doesn't.

It's actually kinda red pilled.

[–]thesquarerootof17 points8 points  (11 children) | Copy

Take easier classes, by far, overall

Yep, I'm a computer engineering major and so there were very very few women. When I walk around campus and see the business majors and such, I would get so envious because there are so many hot chicks in those majors.

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[–]thesquarerootof12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Engineering/compsci majors typically make way more than the business guys in the endgame

Exactly ! I'm a computer engineering major and I graduate this semester. I have taken data structures, calc 1-3, uni phys 1-2, and all the hard ass classes. PM me if you you're stuck on a problem or anything bro.

[–]DocPBJ0070 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Do engineering comp sci majors really make more than the Business guys?

[–]QueenSlapFight5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Way more. Entry level computer hardware engineers get an offer of around 71k. Business majors are around 50k. Beyond that, some of the later career titles they cite as being high earners for business majors (project management) are often time guys with an engineering background moving over to management. You want an engineer leading an engineering project, not a business major who has no clue how engineering works.

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[–]Hungboy69694201 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Started above 60k as a business major in the southeast. In a big city, you can make much more

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[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

MIS pays quite well. Most other business majors start between 45-55k like you mentioned. We do better cause our technical skills are more in demand

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Generally. Unless the business guy is a great salesmen. Then you'll never touch him and he'll be the star of the show, you'll be the nerd behind a computer all day

[–]mayoayox2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Point 4 was my problem in school. I always wanted to overachieve, but then I would get so worked up and intimidated by what I wanted an assignment to look like that I just wouldn't even do it at all.

[–]nowayhowsay5 points6 points  (11 children) | Copy

"Women don't want to make anything or expand on ideas" haha what? I guess it's a generalization but it cmon, "make anything? " wtf

[–]FlyingSexistPig17 points18 points  (7 children) | Copy

What projects have you seen a college girl complete, entirely on their own without someone else telling them what to do or feeding them ideas?

[–]back_into_the_pile16 points17 points  (5 children) | Copy

I hated doing projects with women. In my senior year I had to take this GLOBUS sim as 30% of my grade and if you win you don't have to take the final. I got paired with 2 chicks. I will refer to them singular because these whores were carbon copy idiots. After the first "2 years" I realized she didn't give a shit. I thought that she would give me free reign but she tried to fight me. SMH, "lets move our economic firepower from market stabilization from marketing to social/environment/workerrights to market stabilization". Nah, dumb cunt started complaining about blacks and minorities. Normally I just stop talking but this is my FUCKING GRADE BRO. Stupid bitch said, "but thats not fair to the workers." Like, bitch, the workers are code. Do you want to have to take the final or do you want to win? But no, it was push and shove until she FUCKING EMAILED THE PROFESOR ABOUT ME (we were in 2nd place but I deadass broke out excel sheets and figured out that short term growth was more highly valued than long term growth so the game plan was to win marginally and then crucify the rest of the class when they woke up(end of term grades)). Thankfully I had a great relationship with him. Dude even emailed me "claiming" they wanted to change some of the code because of me. (I think its bullshit considering we were only 12 worldwide.)

TLDR:Women are great, but when it comes to critical thinking........yeah

[–]PandaLitter2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Did you win the game though?

[–]back_into_the_pile1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hell yeah man. I really like to win. Won it for each of my Roomates the next semester as well and created a cheat sheet for anyone who asked. I wasn’t self aware enough to use it to my advantage at the time.

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[–]PandaLitter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What?

[–]urbanfoh2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

And when they add any content it is mostly bland, boring and unoriginal.

[–]rn78892 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What two professions are loudest, most underpaid, bitch the most, and are lead entirely by women? Nurses and teachers. I can confirm. I am a nurse.

I work daily with women’s logic and reasoning. I can’t speak for teachers, but in my profession most of the “stress” you hear about is arbitrary and only the result of bullshit tasks that simply shouldn’t exist. The problems with these professions will always be because nobody will willing to come up with better ideas and stick to them.

We literally take obvious problems and make them worse while calling it a success (it feels good/yay! We did something!). They just have no ability to use original thought or think outside the box to solve problems. They simply just bitch about it while proudly complete every arbitrary task because policy said so. Never questioning if the task should even exist in the first place. It’s amazing.

[–]nowayhowsay0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They don't sound great. You find smarter women in better professions.

[–]Time_Animal_5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

They follow instructions, they don't make anything themselves.

[–]dutchgguy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This so much

[–]DownBy15TDGoFor20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Are happy to meet expectations. Women don't want to make anything or expand on ideas. They read the assignment and fullfil it.

This is so true...women are actually good in school and in most jobs because of this.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper74 points75 points  (49 children) | Copy

All hatred is based on fear (sometimes rational and sensible, sometimes not).

The way to stop hating women is to learn game and thereby achieve power over them. Then you will no longer fear them.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (44 children) | Copy

Does it?

I hate shitty rap music that's all about everyone flexing on each other. Does that actually mean I fear it in some autistic way?

[–]c4toyourdoornobeef5 points6 points  (32 children) | Copy

everyone flexes

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (30 children) | Copy

Yeah, but I hate fake-flex. Literally any dude with minimal talent can put up a rap song on soundcloud about fake-flexing on others, and if it gets popular, suddenly dumb broads think "he's made it" and that he has a high SMV. Yeah yeah "SMV is relative" and shit, but man...dudes who are actually "succeeding" in life by real metrics meanwhile get less puss thrown at them. This is definitely a "why the world isn't the way I want it to be" type comment, essentially useless. Doesn't make me think it's less stupid for it.

It's stupid, I hate it, but it makes sense from a bitch perspective, which makes me hate it even more. Degeneracy.

Life is like playing a stupid video game, except if you don't enjoy it - too bad. You might enjoy a mini game or two, but you can't quit. You're always playing no matter if you want it or not, so if you're one of the people who doesn't enjoy it? Too bad for you, cause no one gives a shit.

[–]c4toyourdoornobeef4 points5 points  (25 children) | Copy

Status is a large part of smv

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (24 children) | Copy

Yes, and I'm saying I hate how shitty fake-flex rappers get status because dumb broads and drunk afc's like fake-flex rappers these days.

Degenerate culture.

[–]beamandylan3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Sounds like you hate that these "fake-flexxers" have more status (SMV) than you do. If it makes you so upset why don't you improve your own SMV rather than complain about theirs on the internet. If it doesn't make you upset, why the fuck does it matter?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sounds like you hate that these "fake-flexxers" have more status (SMV) than you do.

Exactly, I'm not denying that one bit. I hate that you can get more status by being a degenerate than a decent human being. I believe that's a very valid reason to be angry at the world for it being not the way I want it to be, even if it does me no favors. I hate the realization that if you ever actually do a good thing, no one will give a shit, and if you don't abuse the tendencies of human nature, then someone else will, and they'll be applauded for it, and you - laughed at.

If it makes you so upset why don't you improve your own SMV

I am increasing my SMV. I'm the most popular guy in my uni course. Doesn't mean I can't hate how the world works.

You're like one of those stupid people who say "If you don't like the movie so much, then make a better one yourself!!1!

It's kinda like this -

You ever played World of Warcraft? Well, even if you haven't, you might get it.

Recently, WoW Classic was released, the original version of the game - a version, that a lot of people loved and grew up with. The reason why it was such a huge deal was because many people were fed up with the direction that "modern WoW" was going. Now, the people who did not enjoy "modern WoW" could go back and play the version of WoW they once loved.

See the parallels with Life? Only the difference being that if you hated modern WoW, you could just play a different game, a game that you actually like... except you can't quit life - you're always playing and competing.

It would be like if you hated everything about modern WoW, but had to play it. Sure, you could maybe enjoy a mini-game or two, since you'd have to find a way to enjoy the experience after all, but you'd hate the fact that things aren't different and that you can't change shit or escape it. After all, there are people who do really enjoy modern WoW as well, but what if you are one of those people who don't and couldn't quit it? Well shit, too bad for you.

Now look, I'm not a tradcon either. I don't believe that life was better before. I just in general feel shitty about the fact that the world is shittier than I once realised, and for me - it's hard to stay positive when thinking about all the shit that's happening around me.

Yeah, I've gotten better. Gained better female recognition, living a healthier lifestyle than ever before, went from being a skinny 24/7 gamer degenerate to being the fittest guy in ~80 people in my Uni, so top 3% physique wise~ - and yet... becoming "Better" at life has only made me even angrier of the state of western society.

Raising your SMV does not mean you'll be out of the anger phase at all.

I doubt my mindset will change even if I make millions and bang 5 plates in a week, I'm still gonna be thinking how stupid these sluts are, how useless people spend their time, how much consumerism is around me with no other goal than that, good dudes getting laughed at because they don't conform to the degeneracy that's happening around them, my goals in the end being pointless because I'm gonna die anyway, how I have no real freedom because brother government is constantly able to take it away at any moment in time, even if I'm innocent etc.

I'm at a point where I might brain-wash myself to enjoy all the shit, kinda like Cypher in Matrix. Turning a blind eye and not thinking about the truth is easier. What's the point of having my own thoughts and views on the world if they don't contribute to me being happy.

Even if I am potentially right with every opinion that I have, who the fuck cares? Truth sucks dick for the most part anyway, and if the world doesn't care about the truth - then what purpose does it serve? No purpose at all.

[–]beamandylan1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

The fact that you put so much time into this reply proves my point, man. Did my comment offend you so much to write a short novel?

I understand where you're coming from, but the modern world, like retail WoW or the Matrix works the way it does and you can't change that. It sounds like you're making great steps in the right direction (better than me if you're telling the truth) but I wouldn't trip so much about the girls going for these hooligans. If you're such an alpha you can pull women with higher SMV themselves.

I'm not trying to be an ass, just don't be so upset about it because the way the world works is out of your control.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The fact that you put so much time into this reply proves my point, man.

...I proved your point by stating that I agree with your point in my previous comment.

Like come on, I even literally wrote these exact words - "Exactly, I'm not denying that one bit" when it come to acknowledging your point, which was +- me hating "fake flex" culture and being disgusted that degenerates get higher SMV these days than good people.

Don't push an agenda just because you want to. You can do better than that.

wouldn't trip so much about the girls going for these hooligans

That's not really the issue, is it. It's the mentality and the behavior that's bothering me. Human nature itself is bothering me, likely because of my uncalibrated expectations. I feel like If I'm going to accept human nature for what it is, then I also accept that I can't change anything, and hey - maybe I don't have to, but I want to.

I don't want to see good people around me wasting their time, drinking and abusing substances, society as people going downhill. You read about parents mutilating their 6 year old boy into a girl, how do I stay happy about it and go laughing about my day and thinking that everything is great? How do I not want to change something? The fact that I can't, that I'll likely never have the power other than being maybe a good presence or an example for others just bugs me.

You mention that "the Matrix works the way it does and you can't change that" - then why does TRP exist? Clearly, some people are trying to change shit. I want to change shit, but I feel like there's realistically not much I can do, and for me to do so as an individual only gets harder by the day since group organisations are getting more and more powerful, so in the end - I just feel helpless.

At that point, It really might just be better to forget my own values and ego and just do what "works" no matter how shitty I feel about it. Maybe one day the less I'll think about the logical aspects of what I'm doing is objectively shitty, the better I'll be able to enjoy it. I hope.

[–]c4toyourdoornobeef0 points1 point  (19 children) | Copy

who are these fake flexers you refer to?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (18 children) | Copy

Mostly reffering to some of my own country's artists, if you want a link, I'll give you one.

If we are talking about american music, take any artist that did not have anything going for them financially or emotionally, except for maybe some hedonistic activities and depression. If they did have things going for them either financially etc, and just used music as a way to gain quick profit etc, then I can somewhat even respect that, but most of these dudes really do live that lifestyle without "abusing it", they just "happen" to get popular and go from there.

Somewhat examples (likely not the best, though) - XXXTentacion, Lil Peep etc. Literally emotional degenerates that had many problems that died because of them. Liked by depressed bitches and edgelords and zoomers.

What do they have to flex about? Being degenerates? I'm not denying that emotional bitches will eat it up, but I consider that a fake flex. You haven't achieved shit, not anything worthwhile at least. In fact, likely made society worse and more people depressed with your shitty ass fake flex music despite what their fans would tell you.

[–]c4toyourdoornobeef1 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy

I’ve never heard Peep’s music but i’ve heard X’s, I don’t rate him at all but I never felt like he flexed. He was just talking depression and love and shit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy

"look at me, fuck on me yah"

Even just one line... from one of his most mainstream songs... how is that not flexing?

Even if it isn't, I hate the fact that shitty ass messages that talk about depression and drug abuse get popular. Inb4 retards say "but him rapping about depression helped me cure mine, so relatable and emotional, rip X!!1! .

Clearly not, since suicide rates have increased by 40% in the last 30 years and substance abuse has increased two-fold even in the last two decades.

Overall, this type of shitty music is a net minus to a society and only leads more people to depression and shitty hedonistic lifestyles. Fuck, forget the "Society" part, just humanity in general. It's a net minus for the advancement of the human race.

[–]-DeadLock0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I had the same problem. The trick is to stop associating with people who value degeneracy

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

That's a fair comment.

Finding these people, and associating with them / making friends with them... I would genuinely like to know where these people exist, because I sure as hell can't find many hot chicks that aren't degenerates or living the party lifestyle.

[–]30DaystoSolstice0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You sound like a bitch. Don't hate on other man's come up. Work on your own.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I can work on my own and hate someone else's for completely objective reasons, thank you very much.

[–]endertheend[🍰] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

then stfu and get to work idiot!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fair.

Working at least keeps my mind from thinking of all this shit.

[–]TheCondor96-4 points-3 points  (10 children) | Copy

Yes, why do you hate black guys? Did one fuck your girlfriend with his statistically bigger dick?

Feel free to not like rap, but damn man if you Hate it you got a problem. Like why give a fuck about rap at all?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

Not talking about black guys specifically. There are plenty of fake-flex shitty ass white rappers too.

Feel free to not like rap, but damn man if you Hate it you got a problem.

Why? Just because you say so? Good one bro.

Like why give a fuck about rap at all?

Why? Because I have to hear that shitty ass garbage every time I go out to any somewhat popular club. I hate the type of people it attracts (hedonistic lifestyle), literally have not met a girl who listens to hip hop who isn't a slut. It ruins my mood and aura when I have to hear the same shit I hated 4 years ago still today. It's just not my thing, and while you could say I could go to places where I listen to the music that I actually like... well yeah, but if every normie around me listens to degenerate rap music while I listen to techno - no one will ever come to an event that I actually want to go to, and worse yet - I live in a country where no one even listens to techno and events happen rarely.

Maybe I hate the night life more than I do modern rap music, but modern rap music is definitely a big factor in me having a bad aura at those type of events.

[–]-DeadLock2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy

Stop going to those kinds of clubs, period. I started going to a club that doesnt play that degenerate shit and its so easy for me to get high quality women there because they go there to escape degenerates.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Stop going to those kinds of clubs, period

I'm not, only when my chaps from Uni are. It's not even about going to "these type of clubs", but more so maybe the people I associate myself with the most at the uni.

Every time I go out with these dudes and ~hot chicks, they get incredibly drunk etc. But what options do I have here? I have to do with the people I've gotten in my Uni course, it's not like there's even time to make friends with people in other courses if I wanted to.

But you do make a good point - I have, in general, realized that going to these clubs is giving me no satisfaction at all and that I'm not giving a good vibe, in fact, decreasing my SMV for sure because I'm not "a part of the scene" as they are, especially because I'm not on the same "wave" when I'm the only one completely sober and everyone else is close to being blackout drunk. I'm considering either going out solo from now on to places that I actually would like to go to, or only do day game.

People also find it incredibly surprising when I don't drink or smoke since I'm the "popular" guy in my course, and I've even heard rumors that some hot broads at one of our uni parties were mad at me because they thought I was "staying sober just to try and get with them" lmao.

Apparently it's inconceivable to them that a person can not drink at all and have a great ass time. It's so stupid that in this day and time, people look down on you for not indulging in the same hedonistic activities that they do. It's almost as if... could it be? Their egos feel like they are being attacked / judged by you being different and actually living a solid life.

Fucked up, honestly.

[–]-DeadLock0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You just arent associating with "your" people. Join a toastmasters club at your uni. I hear you dude, I felt the same in uni but maybe could still let loose a little more than you, but not often. It does get better, but you have to make steps to associate with the kind of people you want to be around. There are plenty of girls who hate hip hop and degeneracy, dont kid yourself, but it does seem hard to conceive when you're around it so often.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

There are plenty of girls who hate hip hop and degeneracy, dont kid yourself, but it does seem hard to conceive when you're around it so often.

Yeah, of course, but It's definitely a minority, a strong one too. Hot chicks generally tend to flock together, and they tend to live more hedonistic lifestyles than uglier women.

Like shit, this isn't even about finding a unicorn. It's more so finding hot chicks with shit actually going on in their lives who aren't hedonistic, while at the same time promiscuous enough where you only want to plate them, and not LTR them.

... you know what, that does kinda sound like a unicorn too, just a different kind. Eh.

[–]-DeadLock0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Its not true, not every hot girl is a club going thot. It sounds like you like the hiphop thots. Lots of hot girls are goals driven too

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

not every hot girl is a club going thot

... well yeah, I said so, didn't I? doesn't change the fact that it's a minority.

You would agree that you tend to see the "slut" look daily more often than the "classy, going things going for her, minimal makeup" look, right? And even that look 50% of them are sluts just keeping up with appearances, just don't look the part.

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I go to underground techno shows solo all the time. Very few people enjoy it

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, it's a shame.

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Make friends at the club, it's not hard and what I've done over the years. Plus traveling to new cities is always interesting. I was in Paris over the summer and met a bunch of people from around Europe. Great experience

[–]masterpiece005 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

thereby achieve power over them.

Which no male their age can, complete different smv ball game.

[–]urbanfoh4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

All hatred is based on fear (sometimes rational and sensible, sometimes not).

Just because it sounds nice does not make it true.

A lot of people (especially in this sub) hate weakness for instance. You yourself wrote an alltime post to show that we despise weak people who bitch about their problems on asktrp. In that instance fear has nothing to do with it.

[–]dontbeanasshole7776 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

This makes sense. You don't fear what you've conquered.

[–]mustache_ride_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

All hatred is based on fear

Plenty of hatred is due to double-standards and justice torture. Zero fear involved.

[–]Truedemocracy518 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy

In college and in general girls have it easier but guys can have it better

Learned this very early. If you’re a girl you have built in social equity. You can get into any party you want and be treated well. As a guy you aren’t getting in unless you’re in a fraternity or a known athlete. If you aren’t either of those and went to State U then your parties sucked

As a girl you’ll instantly have friends , be socialized , get invited to things. As a guy you or your group needs to make that stuff happen

But easier is not better my friend

[–]mickenrorty7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Men are forged, it’s just the harsh reality of it.

We wouldn’t have a lot of companies we see today had men had an easy ride

[–]cannacorn11928 points29 points  (4 children) | Copy

Obviously. Girls are in college getting worthless degrees and sucking every Chad off in Omega Apple Pi. But good things don't come easy. Girls peak in college and soon afterwards become manic and depressed once their attractiveness fades. With men, our best has yet to come. Work hard and you will be rewarded.

[–]thesquarerootof12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Omega Apple Pi.

I was really laughing hard at this, lol....

[–]Sweetune0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Actually manic depression onset’s in men earlier than women. Usually for men it’s their late teens and women it’s usually mid 20s

[–]cannacorn1190 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Actually I don't give a fuck. I never said men don't get manic, I said women get manic after college, hence, in their mid-twenties. Go away

[–]frognads16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

It has nothing to do with you. Move on and do better.

[–]beachbbqlover34 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy

> Do girls actually have an easier time in college?

Define easier. The coursework? No. Teacher's biases? Yes, for those that are. Socially? Yes. Sexually? Well, it is what it is.

> If so how do you not be angry about it?

Get over yourself. We are all bald monkeys on a wet rock in space and life isn't fair. You try to be a decent person, try to get what you can and leave things better for those after you. Since you start from behind, your role is to struggle to get ahead, and this is what drives the cogs of the machine.

Our role is to prepare all of these college sluts for life as adults. To do that, we need to teach them certain life skills, like proper eye contact. You also set the stage for whether she's going to be fun and hot or go the way of the Trigglypuff, and make everyone's lives miserable for decades to come.

Good luck?

[–]RockSoy17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Our role is to prepare ourselves for life as adults

[–]sir_noobicus4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Pretty much. A girl in my class once asked for a hw assignment to be graded early before an exam in the next class. This caused my prof to go on a rant which caused the girl to start sniffling and crying. My prof was instantly sympathetic and postponed the exam.

If a guy did that shit he’d probably be ridiculed. It’s just the way life is.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Do girls actually have an easier time in college?

If they are average or better, yes, until their arrival at the WallSPLAT! After that, no. And from my own observation they have a difficult time (or at least more difficult than men do) handling stress in the workplace which is why they are better suited to support roles.

If so how do you not be angry about it?

You don't. Instead, you thank God/nature/aliens that you were born MALE and therefore can handle all the bullshit that life throws at you, crush it, a do and dare great things.

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[–]Warren_Bateman3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think this is why M to F trans has gotten so popular.

[–]443610661 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you feel any power when an unattractive woman does the same for you? I don’t envy them at all - they envy the more beautiful women among them who can get better chads then the ones they’re getting

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[–]30DaystoSolstice6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Youg women are never single. They always in some kind of situationship: A long distance relationship, that one ex, a friend who's more than a friend, a friend she keeps on reserve, an older dude who spends a lot of money on her, jake from tinder, brian who lives around the corner...you get the picture. If you want to score, you gotta work your way in the rotation. Don't ask stupid question, don't go tru her phone. Don't put her in a situation where she has to acknowledge the other dudes. If you got it, she'll add you to the rotation. "That dude from reddit"If you really got it, she might put the other guys on break. But the moment you fuck up, she'll fall back to that one ex. Cold world.

[–]thesquarerootof11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

jake from tinder

hahahaha, this was funny. Shit though, everything you said is right though...

[–]endertheend[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Girls only have boyfriends when your smv is too low.

Think about that for a few days.

[–]DAOcomment22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Easier is a curse.

Pressure makes diamonds.

The difficulty is a gift. Even living under the pressure to be great, you don't want the pressure, you want it easy, you don't want to be great. You would remain a tickled baby your entire life if allowed to. But you're not allowed to. You must go through the pressure and transform into something greater. That is actually the gift.

Stop seeking to be comfortable and getting angry at people who have it easy. So disgusting.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If so how do you not be angry about it?

Some people have it easier: super bright people, handsome people, rich people, girls.

Some have it harder: the poor, the stupid, the disadvantaged from shit hole countries, the sick.

You're always somewhere in the middle, quit comparing yourself to others.

If it makes you feel any better: you can grow better every year as a man from 20 to 50 and get better with girls all that time without problems. Girls have an easy ride till 30 which they fritter away being lazy, then get cats.

[–]Zero-Milk2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. Women have an easier time with most things in life. However, because of this, many (I'd argue most) are left with underdeveloped life skills and a general lack of experience that can only be attained through struggle.

In my admittedly anecdotal experience, most of the women I've met in my life regularly defer decision-making to the people around them, and often collapse when faced with issues which require critical thinking or skilled labor, thereby subconsciously admitting their lack of qualifications to do these things for themselves. If the net result is incompetence, what have you to be envious of?

Of course this doesn't apply for every woman in the world, but it does account for a large enough sample size of the western female population to suggest the existence of a wider issue. Personally, I would never trade my own struggles that led to growth and development for an easy ride through life. But that's just me.

[–]mortalcoil12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do rich people have an easier time in basically everything?

Do men have an easier time walking around by themselves?

Do women have an easier time in family court?

Do dogs with good owners have an easier life than you?

Do tall men statistically get elected more and are found more attractive?

Do short men statistically live longer?

Is the grass always greener on the other side?

Should you be angry at other people's benefits while ignoring their problems?

Is this anger or jealousy?

Should you be jealous about things you can't change?

Stop being jealous of other people. Everybody's got problems. Live the best life you can. Having a "the grass is always greener" attitude will lead to nothing but unhappiness.

[–]FlyingSexistPig5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes. Life as a girl in college is 100% life on easy mode.

Everyone wants to help you succeed. Nobody expects you to do anything other than what you're told to do.

[–]thesquarerootof17 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. Life as a girl in college is 100% life on easy mode.

Everyone wants to help you succeed

True story:

I'm an engineering major and we had a Latina girl in a lot of our classes that was cool and a lot of us were friends with her, but she was clearly not cut out for engineering. We have a sophomore "weed out class" that a lot of people fail and drop out of. This class is taught by this professor that is a hard ass but he really made you learn the material really well. This girl failed the class three times and in our program, if you fail a class 2-3 times, you get booted out of the program.

Somehow after she failed the third time, she convinced the dean or something to let her pass and she did and she graduated now already. We know damn well if that was a White male that failed that many times, they would have been kicked out of the engineering college.

I also noticed that the few women in our engineering classes are able to get internships and such easier because companies have to fill a diversity quota. Since there are not a lot of women (especially minority women) in engineering, they get a pussy pass to the finish line. They really do...

[–]bigdudecfc1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

First off why are you angry at all second it's not easier per say but the dynamics are a reference to what the world represents before you step in it considering most don't have an idea what their smv is or will be down the road.

Use the toolbox for it is don't complain about the GAME just play to your strengths and keep the weaknesses in check.

[–]maddisser1011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Being angry isn't going to make your life easier at all.

[–]masterpiece001 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

They fucking and dating guys 30+ whom are high smv.
They using Under 30 college guys for approval/attention, time whoring them and never fucking 20 -30 year old guys.

They have their student loans paid off in 3 years or less, guys spend the rest of their life paying back student loans.

Can use their female sex prowess to score good grades/graduate.
Girls get most of the employment offers after their degree and higher wages after college. Guys do not and end up unemployed or in unrelated field.

Answer is a hard yes.

[–]ghostcel20181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They have life on tutorial mode with cheats enabled. There.

[–]SleazeballG1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can't be a man and not have hardship in your life. Honestly, the harder the adversities you overcome, the better the man you will be.

So, nothing to be mad about, leave complaining and bitching to women

[–]carterrockhouse0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Probably, but that shouldn't be any of your concern. Even if every thing is hands down easier for girls, that means dick squat for you! You dont know the variables in other people's life!

What you can do is focus on you. Dont worry about anyone else, Male or female, and if they have it "easier" than you. Life isnt fair! You take the hand you're delt and you make the fucking most of it! Or you fold, whine like a little bitch claiming that she had a better hand than you! Wasnt my fault I Lost and had it so hard! Even bad hands can win in poker, you just have to play it better!

[–]PatrickIIDX0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Go into the trades. You will make more money and pay less student loans unlike the girls. Also, don't date girls who brag about their master's degree. They are likely too far into debt and too career focused.

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol when I was working my way through college In retail, there was a girl who had the same job as me w a master's. She would try and use it to feel better than you, but all you had to do was bring up that we work the same job and she'd almost cry.

[–]AV_Empire0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do girls actually have an easier time in college?

Yes, they do.

how do you not be angry about it?

Something that's helped me through the anger phase is realizing AND accepting that 1.) I don't matter much, and 2.) AWALT, even your mother, even your sister.

AWALT (even your mother, even your sister)

I recently visited my sister, her husband and their two daughters. And it kinda clicked. My sister was smart and found a good family with connections in the medical industry. She was grand-mothered into a great nursing career by her mother in law while her betabux husband grinded his way into a great engineering career. They both make 6 figures but man, my sister doesn't even let this dude drive their Tesla. He helped her out of her student loan debt. He paid for their $50,000 wedding with the money he made from investing in the stock market. At the end of the day, she got a DAMN good deal, but they both recently hit their 30's and maybe it's none of my business, but damn, she's had this thing locked down for a while, and it was very easy for her to get there because of who she associated with. But I can see the wall hitting her while her husband still looks the same.

You Don't Matter Much (pride will get you in trouble)

I started college a bit late. I went through my various addictions phase and am pulling my life together at 25, realizing I'm not shit and that's okay for now but not forever. So I'm in my sophomore year of college and I can say with absolute certainty that yes, girls have it much easier. My first semester I behaved like the validation-seeking Alpha Male 1.0 that I was (refer to The Unchained Man by Caleb Jones) and my grades actually suffered because of it. I was threatened that I would be kicked out of my English class because my attitude made other students feel intimidated. However, there was a girl in this class that behaved similarly to me, expressing her opinions and provoking controversial conversations and she was praised by the teacher for her bravery and intellect, while I was shamed.

Transmuting Anger into Amused Mastery

I was pretty pissed about this, but held my cards close, taking the L. The next semester, I kept my mouth shut more and learned to laugh away the bullshit in my down time. It's a divine comedy! By making it appear I'm only doing what's required to my peers, it gets their hamsters going. Wanna know the funniest part? I'm doing a lot better in my classes because of it. So how do you curb the anger? Laugh at the ridiculousness of the whole thing. It's a fucking clown show. Enjoy it, knowing that while you are a part of it, you don't have to be constricted by it's laws. Being overly competitive in an environment with women will not help you succeed in an age of political correctness and "equality". As much as it sucks, that's the game. Use that knowledge to your advantage by converting your anger to humor.

[–]IXseed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They do, but the idea that anyone has an even playing field in college doesn't exist.

A hot girl. An ugly girl. An athlete on scholarship. A valedictorian. Rich kid who's parents paid to get in. Some smuck off the street. They all have diff difficulty in college. It's how life is in general. Nothing is fair.

You have 2 options. You can be angry and bitch about those who have it easier and go nowhere yourself or go out, get yours and slay.

What are you gonna do?

[–]newls0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I only realised this recently, but success in university studies depends a lot on your ability to collaborate with others and ask for help. I was a loner in college and prided myself in my own ability, and so had to do all of my work by myself. Women in general are far more likely to collaborate and ask for help, and thus it follows that they're more likely to receive higher grades.

You should not be discouraged by this. Success in university doesn't correlate terribly well with overall life satisfaction, at least in my experience. Men find meaning through struggle and those with determination will grasp their way to the top. Be pleased by your struggle, it is a privilege. Women will always be helped, and that is as much a curse as it is a blessing.

[–]Spaghetti17760 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yea, they pick shitty majors and don’t make any money though. They also rarely invest money.

[–]RedPillAlphaBigCock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

they have things that are harder and some things easier - both genders have good and bad aspects

[–]OfficerWade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Girls have it easy? Since when does ANYONE have it easy. Look, man. A women who is virtuous is virtuous.

[–]ChiefFuckingBull0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being angry is for LIBERALS and BETA MALES. if school sucks GET OVER IT or DON'T GO, start a business. Life is easier for women in a whole lot of ways. but God gave you a pair of nuts and some extra hair on your body to deal with the harsh conditions



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