I've never been a true red piller but I agree with a lot of the philosophy. Anyway, this pissed me off and I just wanted to share my story, what are your thoughts?

its_going_down_ · 2019-11-03T01:30:55+00:00

Because you look for that beautiful special little sunflower

frognads · 2019-11-03T01:31:09+00:00

Don't ask don't tell. If she's not LTR material then just ejaculate(into a condom) and evacuate.

Turns out most girls are whores, so instead of worrying about being noble and shit try having some fun.

"You don't want her to be a whore, you want her to be YOUR whore"

dyinghairfollicles · 2019-11-03T05:41:27+00:00

You're bothered because of two things:

You're annoyed because she revealed herself to be a slut, and this slut didn't immediately open her legs for you and instead tried to make you wait a little bit more, when she most definitely fucks on the first date with other guys. Now you question your manhood and SMV. How can a slut try to play me like this?
You're also annoyed because you didn't think all women would be sluts. That maybe there still exists that special girl somewhere out there. But the realization that they are ALL indeed sluts is giving you a cognitive dissonance. Reality as you knew it, was in fact, not real. All Women Are Like This. AWALT. This truth is making you uncomfortable.

This is the process of swallowing the red pill. Welcome to the real world, Neo.

JameisBong · 2019-11-03T09:26:10+00:00

Lol wait until you hear about triple digit notch counts. Stop trying to save thots,fuck her until she's bored and becomes someone else's problem.

MR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2019-11-03T05:16:21+00:00

Lol if you think 30+ is a lot for a woman you have another big red pill to swallow

You turned down sex because you are insecure. Learn to enjoy fucking whores, it's fun.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-11-03T13:00:14+00:00

Assume all women are sluts and see if they prove otherwise.

Too many bluepillers assume the exact opposite and when the truth is revealed, it’s like the whole world falls on them.

Treat all guns like they are loaded NOT unloaded.

AWALT.

Reprimanded_Duck · 2019-11-03T04:22:20+00:00

It’s a sad truth that real love doesn’t exist. It never has. I don’t know what else to say. Maybe in our dreams it does, but in this life it is cold and empty. Our thirst for belonging or to be loved cannot be filled. To be content and happy is a privilege only the ignorant are afforded in this short life.

I almost wish I’d never had this realization. But it is the price of the Red Pill.

boy_named_su · 2019-11-03T02:25:16+00:00

Devil's Threeway is a deal-breaker for an LTR. could a plated her, but I respect your stand

Apfeltee · 2019-11-03T09:54:04+00:00

Never ask a question you don’t want to know the answer for. I feel your problem but just like the others say, it doesn’t matter. That’s why I never really talk about sexual experiences of the past, because I don’t care and I don’t want to know.

Flamethrowa21 · 2019-11-03T01:40:24+00:00

If you sleep around like crazy, I genuinely don't trust you to not cheat on me if we're in a relationship.

Just cuz she holds out on having sex with you doesn't mean she won't cheat.

urbanfoh · 2019-11-03T04:02:12+00:00

Ime thats completely fine. You have principles which are more important to you than sex. And if someone disgusts you it is natural to not sleep with them, isn't it?

Why does it disgust you? Because you have firm values and see other people disregarding them. It's that simple.

Thats a thing I don't understand about this sub. They preach about "we are the price" but at the same time every attractive girl should get the privilige of our dicks lmao.

[deleted] · 2019-11-03T09:11:16+00:00

Because you think she is special. Because you think special exists. Because you'd like to believe special exists. Because you'd rather lie to yourself and be content than face the truth and be happy and free.

kellykebab · 2019-11-03T11:15:23+00:00

Why does this stuff bother me so much though?

Because you have a normal disgust response and are probably oriented towards monogamy more than a lot of people.

thebadguy89 · 2019-11-03T04:01:42+00:00

We're not equal if I've slept with a bunch of girls and you've slept with a bunch of guys. It's not some feat to open your legs.

That's a really fucking good way of putting it. Girls complain about being slut-shamed while guys with high N-counts are mostly accepted, even admired in society. The difference is as a chick you can get sex like going to a soup kitchen, while the guy has to at least go through some effort to get laid.

RockSoy · 2019-11-03T03:07:42+00:00

Awesome job for having dignity OP. Wish more men were like you

IAmEnlightened · 2019-11-03T12:35:11+00:00

She said she would still hook up with you. Why didn’t you just fuck her and chuck her?

Also, she wasn’t holding out because your special. Her saying she isn’t going to sleep with you is just LMR / ASD, you just didn’t push past it. On the second evening you already had her pants off so she already knows you both know the deal, and has no issues talking about a threesome she had.

Your just a dumb fuck that needs to understand how the world works a bit better and you will be fine. Sounds like you already do ok, you just need to stop trying to find a unicorn and fuck these sluts.

PrettyHateSmooshing · 2019-11-03T05:43:30+00:00

can you pull the way you broke her last minute resistance and should have segued back to that pussy. at least fuck her. It's just about hunting man take the game.

SpinPlates · 2019-11-03T11:21:04+00:00

I ask if she's ever had a threesome and she says yeah, "but with two guys so it wasn't like weird"

Lmao I've actually had this exact same conversation with a girl a recently. We got on the topic of threesomes (I've only had MFF) and she tells me shed shes only had MMF encounters.

It doesn't matter how hot she is or how great we "click" together. If a girl is getting double teamed she is not worth my time beyond a quick fuck.

Why does this stuff bother me so much though?

Because you were rasied on Disney stories and nuclear family units with white picket fences and true love that lived happily ever after.

Men love romantically, women love situationally

holzpuppet · 2019-11-03T12:13:06+00:00

Bro, why don’t you take a look at the book „Sex God Method“ and try to focus on honing your sex skills with that girl? Instead of crying about the CC and moralizing her sexual strategy? I mean what’s more constructive?

Foolishoe · 2019-11-03T14:44:21+00:00

She's not that into you. You wouldn't care if she was a huge slut if she gave it up the first time you touched hands.

OH WELL, KEEP LOOKING FOR SLUTS THAT WANT YOU RIGHT AWAY THOSE ARE THE BEST.

second-last-mohican · 2019-11-03T02:13:17+00:00

Maybe you're attracting sluts?

OilyB · 2019-11-03T11:56:28+00:00

It bothers you probably because, yes, she'll drop her panties. But she won't drop her panties for you. You don't have what it takes to make her dropping her panties for you irresistible. She's used to much more animalistic, overwhelming physical attraction, which to her, you lack.

This is always a painful pill to swallow. But it's a daily occurrence. We're not all the same amount attractive to every woman. You just need to find the girl with the same traits, just with the right set of physical attraction needs: the ones that fit your exact profile.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-11-03T12:07:18+00:00

It looks like you just had an epiphany during the act. This epiphany is something you hadn't processed or come to terms with before, so it knocked you back a bit. That's fine. Sometimes reality hits us hard when we still have blue-pill expectations.

Truth is, now you've had the epiphany that many girls are slutting it up, what do you with it from here?

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-11-03T14:15:50+00:00

It’s never that she wants to hold out for you.

I was talking to a girl the other day and I though she seemed cool. She works, goes to school and takes care of her father.

She went on to tell me that her “ex” friend was a huge slut that talks to 5 guys at a time. I thought to myself- sounds like a normal girl to me BUT being friends with a girl like this is certainly a red flag that I will not foolishly overlook.

For a while I was disgusted by it. I tried not to show it. I’ve fucked this girl raw, and she’s friends with someone like THAT? I need to re-evaluate my evaluation process.

Distractingyou · 2019-11-03T06:46:51+00:00

I think you are asking us if you waste it an opportunity to fuck and i think yes looking for that special unicorn wont get you to no where.

RalphStone · 2019-11-03T13:45:43+00:00

it bothers you because of "cognitive dissonance", stage 1 and 2 after swallowing Red Pill

eg.: on the surface you are aware that AWALT but subconsciously you hope snowflakes exist.

SM_174 · 2019-11-03T13:50:37+00:00

I feel like this girl is lying about the threesome.

BusterVadge · 2019-11-03T14:28:43+00:00

Remember that scene where neo woke up outside of the matrix? He was pretty upset too! Reality bothers people when they've been fed a lie all their lives.

oldertybasterd · 2019-11-03T14:46:58+00:00

Keep spinning plates. Eventually you’ll grow out of it as you experience more girls and realize there’s no special snowflake

OrlandoBloom6969 · 2019-11-03T15:48:07+00:00

Lol @ 30+ men. You've been decieved.

ogkushinjapan · 2019-11-03T16:04:37+00:00

Seems like you’re at the tail end of the redpill rage. Sooner you’ll realize pussy is pussy and just smash and dash while having fun.

[deleted] · 2019-11-03T16:06:26+00:00

Why is this shit on top?

Lateralanouncer · 2019-11-04T03:16:23+00:00

Wake up bro. The sexual revolution happened years ago, then smart phones, tinder etc have changed the sexual strategy of woman. Therefore us men have to change. Like it or hate it. They can have as many alpha fucks cocks as they want and they do. No babies, no social stigma. Just cock after cock.

[deleted] · 2019-11-04T10:55:06+00:00

This single interaction with this chick should finally make you a "true" red piller, right? Or you can go back to trying to analyze situations like this and get your brain hamstering just like chicks' brains. Manage risk. Maintain frame always. Reality is still reality even if you wish for it to be different.

4egonTargaryen · 2019-11-03T12:42:51+00:00

It bothers you because you’re immature. Some advice from a normal person is don’t take advice from the incels on this sub

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-11-03T15:26:24+00:00

Would make a fun plate, drop your ego theres a whole fun world out there.

nowayhowsay · 2019-11-03T19:39:55+00:00

When girls want to take things slow with a guy it's usually because she doesn't only want him for sex. She likes you, and can imagine a long term relationship with you.

JoeBuckYourslf · 2019-11-03T19:44:10+00:00

You couldn’t finish the deal and made excuses that she’s a whore and came here for validation.

Pussy.

Throw4way4all · 2019-11-04T21:39:06+00:00

cos it feels insulting that she slutted it up with those other guys but made you wait.

implying she doesn't find you as attractive as she found them.

the fact she doesn't find you as attractive as the other guys bothers you because part of your confidence and self esteem is based on other peoples' opinion of you.

so when you know she fucks other guys fast but not you, it's like she's saying "you're not good enough".

and that bothers you because deep down, YOU also think that you might not be not good enough so it's hitting on a deep rooted insecurity of yours.

but the key to understand here is that just because SHE didn't think you're good enough to fuck straight away, doesn't mean you're not good enough. in fact no one else's opinion but YOURS is relevant in answering the question of "are you good enough?". if you think you are, then you are. but if you don't think you are, then you'll subconcisouly always give a fuck what people think of you because you don't like yourself so you need others to like you so atleast you have some feeling that you are worthy.

you're lucky in that you have one of those super analytical minds that wnats to understand all these little tiny details like why this random bitch not fucking you as fast as other guys bothers you more than it should. most guys would just be like "uhh.. feel bad.. ummm.. don't know.. fuck ok". but you're taking initiative and trying to get to the bottom of this and i'm just like you btw as you could probably tell.

anyway point is, that's my theory on why it bothers you so much when it really doesn't matter at all. it triggered something inside you. and it's most likely the thing i said because i been there and many people have been there.

and no amount of lifting, fucking or whatever is gonna fix it. it's a self esteem thing, it's a mindset thing.

accept this fact: "there's no reason I'm not enough".

once you've got that, other people's opinions become irrelevant.

bit of a rant but this one hit close to home so it was worth going deep (pardon the pun).

p.s. someone else in the thread mentioned that this hoe made you "question your manhood" by not fucking you as fast as other guys and he's right. but the key thing is that your manhood should not even be dependent on any woman/man/dog/cat/god/satans opinion of you.

BankruptGreek · 2019-11-09T02:14:08+00:00

I never understood the notion of, this is harder therefor it is better, does everyone listen to polirythmic and microtonal music ? No they don't, but they are harder than your average song. But then why are girls bad if they sleep around, it makes them feel good just like guys so why shouldn't they do it, if a guy could find girls easily because of his looks he would do it as well. Period.

I really hope you open your eyes, read what you wrote. Especially your reaction to her telling you she had a threesome. Becuase to me it's absolute mental illness, I am not exaggerating, seriously.. wake up.

LilLoserFreny · 2019-11-03T11:34:51+00:00

Lmao we need to have a talk on this sub on women and their body counts. You’re in for a surprise if you honestly believe that 30 plus bodies is a disgusting number for a woman. Shit, I agree but here’s the thing. Most women have far exceeded that number by the time they are 21.

I’m actually being generous too with this assessment. From my estimates, most women have had that many men by the time they are 16 years of age. The problem is most of your guys listen far too much about what women say and take it as truth. I’ve been lucky enough to have most women be (somewhat) truthful about their body counts with me (even though I didn’t asked and couldn’t give a fuck). It’s really eye opening the first few times. I’ve met plenty of 20 year olds who have an estimated 50-100 bodies.

At first I thought these women were outliers but as I encountered more and more, all from different backgrounds and personalities, I realized the truth. AWALT and you’ll be hard pressed to find a woman with even a sub 10 body count after the age of 18. Y’all need to accept reality or have your eyes opened. It’s only going to get worse with the younger generations. I’m 21 right now and it is already pretty bad.

WIA20XX · 2019-11-03T03:37:19+00:00

Why does this stuff bother me so much though?

You answered your own question.

I've never been a true red piller.

It's okay, the philosophy is not for everyone.

Andgelyo · 2019-11-03T11:30:35+00:00

Lmao haha damnnnn

Don’t catch feelings bruh, I think that’s why you got caught off guard

Title	I've never been a true red piller but I agree with a lot of the philosophy. Anyway, this pissed me off and I just wanted to share my story, what are your thoughts?
Author	Throw4way4all
Upvotes	131
Comments	111
Date	03 November 2019 01:19 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/293781
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