According to /r/sex, a lot of women like when men lift. Who knew?

Serious time.

You talk a ton of shit. That’s fine. A lot of guys here talk a ton of shit. Guys like Red, Rian, SK, Perseaus, HoA, etc. The list goes on. This place is full of them.

You want to know the difference between those guys and you? They have earned it. They have spent more than 22 days in the trenches and worked on their shit. They have spent the time, blood, sweat, and tears to become better men. They are the real deal.

Here’s your problem. You are a faker. You are a chameleon and not a particularly good or successful one. You probably have a history of drifting from group to group socially, fitting in at first, before fucking it all up and getting kicked out.

You found this place 3 weeks ago and have dozens, maybe hundreds, of posts in that time across this and other subs. You are clearly in the newbie Rambo phase and are like a damn bull in a china shop. Well, maybe more like a chihuahua in a china shop in your case.

Why? Because you aren’t a real person. You have zero frame. You have zero depth. You don’t know what frame really is. You are weak and see assholes and assume that they are strong so you mimic them. Your bluster comes from a place of insecurity, fear, and self loathing so you self destruct everything in your life. You naturally push people away.

Your relationships are likely a mess across the board because you find ways to consistently sabotage them. Why? Because of a lot of reasons, most of which come down to the fact that you are a shitty person, you recognize you are a shitty person, and thus when others don’t see that quickly enough, you do shitty things because that’s what you think you deserve. Being shitty is your native language.

Here’s the deal. My wife is stronger than you. Who gives a fuck. There are chicks out there that deadlift more than just about anyone in this group. Who the fuck cares? https://youtu.be/Lrcwaa3qgLo

The number doesn’t matter. It’s just a fucking number.

So why talk about it then? Well, we talk about it here because those numbers reflect who you have been and what you have done to get here. They are a lagging indicator of you as a person, at least in a very key area.

So yeah, you are weak as fuck. You bench 85lb. My 13 year old does more than that for reps. Who cares? You can get better. You can get stronger. Keep working. You can be better. But it takes consistent work. The work isn’t even hard. Doing it consistently though for months and years? That’s the hard part.

The thing that stands out here is that you are talking shit when you have no platform to stand on. You have no frame, no substance, and no background to do so. Normally that wouldn’t be a big deal except that it comes from the very root of your problem.

Your problem, fundamentally, is that you don’t like yourself because you are a shitty person. That truth colors and degrades / poisons everything in your life.

So what? So fucking change it. It’s on you. It’s your fault you are a shitty person. Maybe your parents played a role. Maybe your youth basketball coach fucked you behind the bleachers. I’m sure there are shitty things that have helped mold you. But it’s your choice to stay that way. You own today. You own tomorrow and every day after that. Which means that if you stay shitty, that’s 100% on you.

You can take the time to read this shit, reflect on it, and maybe improve a bit. Recognize some flaws and areas to grow.

Or you could keep talking about my cock, my balls, and my wife’s vagina.

Your call. I don’t care except to this extent that this place has been incredibly helpful for me for years so I like to give back.