First date went well, how long to wait to text back?

dir3ct0r_0f_ · 2019-11-15T23:31:48+00:00

The fact that you’re asking this shows your missing the point all together.

somejerseydude · 2019-11-15T23:32:36+00:00

Nothing wrong with a day after text. Just don’t get wrapped up in a long or boring conversation.

Try to keep texting for logistics only.

FrozenTreeStump · 2019-11-16T00:50:41+00:00

Personally I’d wait until the next day or even 2 days.

“I want to see you again. Meet me Tuesday at “bar” around 6”

Make sure the “bar” (coffee shop, park, whatever) is close to your place or hers

Shoot your shot

kclanton80 · 2019-11-16T02:09:16+00:00

I would wait a week. Give her an opportunity to hit you up first. give her an opportunity to wonder if you really like her...

give her an opportunity to see that you have things going on in your life and she is not your number one priority.

Men are always seeking to give women comfort and reassure them that they're interested. This actually has the opposite effect and turns women off. They want a man who is a challenge. They want a man that has options.

You worried about texting her back because you're scared you won't hold her interest if you don't. If she is really feeling you you can afford to be patient and she won't go anywhere.

Let that tension build some... It's all part of the game. She needs to know one kiss did not win you over and make you fall head over heels for her. wait a week or so then text her simply to set up another date. No chatting, no catching up,no telling her how much fun you had,just to set up another date.

The uncertainty is what builds the attraction. Let that attraction build some.... let the situation breathe like a bottle of wine

Title	First date went well, how long to wait to text back?
Author	caP1taL1sm_420
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Comments	15
Date	November 15, 2019 11:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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