We had planned to go up and visit friends (another married couple) in another state this weekend but all of a sudden my wife wants to stay home but is insisting that I still go. I told her it would be weird if I went without her but she is insisting that I still go ... Her reasoning for wanting to stay is vague excuses about being tired and needing to run errands and catch-up on work.

Is this a shit test? is she up to something? How should I navigate this?