Anyone been to Thailand or Philippines?

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November 20, 2019
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Someone on a post I made suggested going to these places.

So I set my tinder location to Pattaya and I was bombarded with 3x the matches I get in American. Girls asking me questions like “when will you be here?” and “let’s meet”.

Albeit some were ladyboys and a few escorts but the majority were what seemed liked honest young women who are into American guys.

Has anyone been and what was you experience like? Maybe some tips on which locations to visit.


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Title Anyone been to Thailand or Philippines?
Author Whycantwealltwerk
Upvotes 68
Comments 144
Date 20 November 2019 01:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
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[–][deleted]  (47 children) | Copy

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[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 13 points14 points  (19 children) | Copy

Thank you. Also would you recommend Thailand over Philippines ?

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[–]alpha_in_progress0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No issues with like ,a language barrier or anything like that?

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (13 children) | Copy

Girls in the Philipines are easier and speak better English. If you like Spanish looking girls you'll like them more, but I think there are even more ladyboys in PH than there are in TH (at least that's what Tinder tells me) and they're more likely to want to lock you down for babies and shit. Also a ton more single moms. Girls are much more horny and DTF on Tinder.

If you like Asian girls more, Thailand is the place to be. More variety, English not as good but so many tourists that you can get by, but better economy and not really 3rd world anymore, atleast in the major cities. Better for sleeping with other tourists, too. I think the quality of girls here is much higher. More reserved online, but easy to bring them home after a date and drinks.

[–]smgtn3 points4 points  (12 children) | Copy

What about what the other guy said that 9 out of 10 Thailand chicks on Tinder will only go out with you for money? Not that it's a major problem, but for me it kind of kills the vibe, like buying fish at a store instead of catching it yourself.

[–]reddick111 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you are a fat balding white guy then obviously the only girls you will get are the ones you pay for.

If you follow trp then you will find that girls are the same around the world. The same rules apply. But in Thailand you are automatically +2 or +3 your normal SMV.

I had like 500 matches in Bangkok in a few days and it was too hard to filter through them all. I ended up meeting a few. They were normal girls with jobs or students. I didn't pay for any of the dates. We paid separately or split it by paying for the next place. One girl paid for my $50 dinner (which is expensive in Thailand).

In fact I've met more than a few people who have met rich girls who pay for the guy.

[–]smgtn2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you are a fat balding white guy then obviously the only girls you will get are the ones you pay for.

I'm late 30s, 183 cm tall, been lifting for over 10 years. I already do reasonably well in the west, so if half of what these guys are saying is true, I should do well in SE Asia.

One girl paid for my $50 dinner (which is expensive in Thailand).

So much for Thailand being cheap, looks like not anymore.

[–]reddick16 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah it's not as "cheap" as these people make it out to be, at least when I traveled there. Lunch is still going to be around $5 a person. A cheap but decent no-name hotel was $50 a night. Beer is easily over $1 a can in the convenience store. In the "hip" nightlife area, cocktails go for $10 or more. Plus you will always get the foreigner price.

Cheaper would be a way to put it. 2/3 or at least 1/2 the price of western countries.

Vietnam I would say is actually cheap. $.30 beers and $2 meals. $30 a night hotels.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (8 children) | Copy

He's exaggerating. Or maybe he just fucked prostitutes on walking street. I dated college girls and chicks with real jobs. The biggest money grubber I dated was the celebrity chick that wanted to be spoiled and pampered (but then the other celebrity chick I would just hook up with would always take me out and pay for everything).

They might see you as being wealthier than Thai guys, but most normal chicks aren't saying give me 3000 baht to sleep with you. Dates can be so cheap there that money isn't really an issue. I'd go to local bars and clubs rather than places that cater to foreigners, which are usually shit holes. I'd save the expensive hotel bars and restaurants for hanging out with my best friends.

[–]smgtn3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy

How paranoid should one be about STDs in Thailand? Is it like, don't kiss them, always wear a condom and don't even let her suck you off without one level of paranoid? Also Tinder vs daygame, which one is better over there?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

I never day gamed there because I was a pussy bluepill boy, but when I'd get drunk enough I could approach girls in the club. It's usually a little tough because clubs aren't what they are in the west. I could imagine day gaming might be okay, as every once in a while I would get girls approaching me, but it was very very rare. Everyone gets sardined in and everyone gets a table that they dance around with a friend... The foreign friendly areas like Nana and Kaosan Road have more western like dance clubs, but the girls there are trashy and more likely to be hookers which is why I would only go if my non-trashy friends were going as a group.

Wear a condom for penetration. As long as you aren't fucking hookers, kissing and oral never got me herpes or anything. Really depends where you're picking up girls. Kaosan, Nana, hooker roads like patpong and soi cowboy (or in Pattaya and the island girls), absolutely always be safe and wash up well and examine that pussy before you do anything.

The good Thai clubs are in Ekamai and Thong Lor where you'll meet college girls and maybe only 1% of the people are foreigners. RCA is a good place where maybe 5-10% foreign and 90% Thai so a nice middle ground and some good clubs to choose from. You shouldn't meet many ladyboys or hookers here and most of the girls will be safer.

I never did any of the island shit, so I can't talk to that. Basically, if you see a lot of foreigners, be more cautious.

Following those rules, I never felt afraid of touching a girl. Media blows up the bad stuff, but that's a lot of hooking, ladyboys and gays getting AIDs and shit, which is more expected from unprotected sex and anal.

[–]smgtn0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Would you say it's worth it going there for only a week or so, or do you need more time to game there?

[–]SerialATA_Killer7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Imagine traveling around the world just to get laid. It's an amazing new place for you with things far more interesting and more cool than trashy tinder pussy. It's cheap as fuck too. Look up snorkeling or cliff diving, driving through mountains on a scooter, visiting the most beautiful beaches in the world....

But I won't be a dick and not answer your question too. You need more than a week. Think about it, how many lays can you fit into 1 week after jet lag and figuring out how to feed yourself. In that time, you'll maybe score 2 lays, 3 if you're solid, and then go home. Do yourself a favor and stay for a few weeks.

[–]jaznex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get on Tinder+ and start planning meetups. Put the dates you'll be in Thailand on your profile. I'd stay two weeks because 1 week just won't feel like enough.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

always wear a condom

Remember babies are sexually transmitted too. There was literally a story on here a few weeks ago about a dude who got some Phillipino chick prego. Never underestimate the lure of locking you down.

[–]smgtn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Obvious is obvious, which is why you double bag and incinerate it right after you're done 😆

[–]futianze8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

I stayed in Koh Samui at a party hostel like that 2 years ago. Got laid at least once a day on that island.

My favorite example was our last day on Koh Samui, my group started drinking at the bar at 11am and 2 hours later I had a sexy Norwegian sucking me off in my room. She had friends, I had friends, everyone hooked up.

Worst part is, her dad had a mansion on the island and she and her friends were staying there for a week. That was our last day tho so we went for the night which was a literal movie with more party and sex olympics until 6am. We woke up at 8 hungover as fuck with everyone sprawled out, random shit floating in the pool and all around the deck, windows open from the night but now the room was a swamp from the Thai heat bc of course we didn't have the mental dedication to put the AC on. We dipped for Chiang Mai as degenerate greaseballs. One of my favorite photos is of my friend after we boarded that morning, his face looked like a giant conflicting battle of death and ecstasy.

Anyway, we could've had that day and night played out over the whole week on Koh Samui, my group and her group in her daddy's mansion for a week, but we had a tight budget and had to stick to the itinerary. I learned a tough lesson that day about wealth and being able to not give a fuck.

She said they just got the mansion, and it did look new (dirt around the construction). Probably not the first or the last group of guys they had over tho lmao. We made the most out of our turn. I still think about what that week could've been a decent amount.

Gearing up for my next trip back.

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[–]futianze1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ya I hope more people see your comment and my story. Thailand is a crazy place with near perfect branding as a tropical international tourism hotspot where the unwritten rule is savage partying and sexcapades (islands especially), although there are some downsides to that like human trafficking.

[–]holyrasta6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn now I want o go to Thailand.

[–]trpadvice13 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

When you say you get laid a lot. Is it only by thai or asian girls?

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[–]i-am-the-prize0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When I did my Europe trip in late 20's, the Aussies were raging drinkers, partiers, and DTF.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

How's the crime and tourist predation in the places you recommended?

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[–]Orfeu_da_Conceicao2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you want to fuck plenty of 8s and 9s, for free, go to the backpacker spots like Krabi, Koh Phi Phi, Koh Phangan. Stay in party hostel chains like Slumber Party, Bodega or Blanco. They literally build their business model on drunk sluttyness.

Thailand bound

[–]ChadChadson191 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Not OP but in the places you talk about, is it mostly Asian girls or white tourist girls?

[–]reddick15 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

In those places it's going to be other white tourists. It's a long way to go to fuck some white girls imo.

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[–]smgtn1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

and all of them warn me that thai girls very often have syphilis. It's one of the main STDs amongst the thai population.

OK, that is a bit of a dealbreaker 😆 Any idea of alternatives with less syphilis? Philippines maybe?

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[–]smgtn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Generally in the expat and travelers scene though, guys who go for local girls are looked down on as creeps.

As in by who? Tourists? Why would anyone give a fuck about that?

If you're into white girls too then banging locals will drastically reduce your SMV.

I'm into hot girls, ethnicity not a major factor 😎 But also, why would anyone go half way around the world to fuck white chicks that you see everyday already? Are they somehow less bitchy and put out more in Thailand or something?

[–]sehns0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's not really true. If you've got a high class thai girl who speaks perfect english and is educated and well put together nobody of any worth is looking down on you. A bar girl covered in tattoos and wearing cut off jean shorts? Yeah, different story.

[–]ChadChadson190 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck it, fucking drunk hot white girls is enough fun for me lol.

[–]sanji_970 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Are there a lot of white girls in Thailand? Like attractive ones?

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[–]i-am-the-prize2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

sounds awful! (now where is my passport...)

[–]sanji_970 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol, your comment made me laugh in class.

[–]sanji_970 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'll go one day, just waiting for my Semester to be over.

[–]its-mystery0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Is this true just for Americans?

[–]conk200036 points37 points  (1 child) | Copy

Just watch for Adam's apples and long ring fingers.

[–]anycolouryoulike993 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

hahahahaha

[–]jrr6415sun25 points26 points  (4 children) | Copy

I’ve been to the Philippines for work. They treat Americans like movie stars there, even if you don’t have money they just view them as higher class.

[–]volvostupidshit26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy

They see you as walking ATMs.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

so what

[–]volvostupidshit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Play it to your advantage.

[–]jrr6415sun0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think it's more the status

[–]VaN__Darkholme68 points69 points  (10 children) | Copy

They are hunting for that green card

[–]holyrasta19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

Op wants easy mode xD

[–]basilisk_girth5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Man, this isn’t a place to judge people, let people do what they want to get better access to women (sex).

[–]holyrasta5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not like that. It was just a comment. Like shooting fish in a barrel.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

horseshit. thailand is not a third world country.

[–]basilisk_girth5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

This. Malaysia, Thailand and Singapore are not shitholes, there is a reason those countries have strong passports, women there just have a strong preference for white men. Some even say “if you’re not pretty or cool you can’t get a white guy”, they are the ones that put in the work not you.

[–]ldamien657 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

Well Singapore no, Malaysia and Thailand are def on a significantly lower level.

[–]tomacer1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Singapore is arguably more of a first world country than even America. They have the #1 strongest passport in the world, more than America. Entry without visa into the largest amount of countries of any.

Not to mention the government is the richest ACTUAL CASH on hand government in the world. That place is insane, it's like a simulation. The women there are beautiful as well, it attracts high class backpackers/white travellers, and the asians are similar to dubai in that they are cultured, from wealth, have larger tits, and for the most part gorgeous faces - as well as being very submissive when met with a strong man.

[–]ldamien650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I actually live in Singapore (a little over two years). Yes to everything but the local women. They’re very primitive and most really aren’t that attractive. The white women who come here for their careers or studies, for some odd reason, are typically far more attractive. It’s a strange paradox because when I lived in the US, the asian girls are the hot ones whereas in asia, it’s the white girls that are more high value.

[–]basilisk_girth-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, but the quality of life is very high there, no one wants to leave or marry “for a better life”. That’s why those countries have strong passports, a person from Malaysia can go to a lot of ‘better’ countries without needing a visa.

[–]sehns1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed, it's such an ignorant westerner viewpoint that gets parroted by people who have never spent time in SEA. Whenever I hear it i just roll my eyes. I know so many thai people that have spent time in the west and have zero interest living there because all the things they love don't exist there (Som Tum, etc). Now if they'd said she wants a half farang kid without a long nose and a man who can help her send a bit of money each month to take care of grandma then yeah fair enough.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was there in Thailand in September. It’s a good time.

You’re American, probably white and tall there. It’s easy to game women there for those reasons. You don’t have to pay but it’s certainly easier if you do.

What I found was that about 9 out of 10 girls on Tinder want you to pay. This makes it difficult to sift through to find regular girls.

I’m not hung up on paying for it in foreign countries. It’s a different culture there and they think about it differently. Paying for it in America is no good imo.

Pay for a short time. If the girl offers to stay longer without asking for more money then that indicates she actually likes you. If she initiates sex that indicates she likes you. If she offers sex without a condom then that indicates she actually likes you(you still have to wear a condom but it’s nice if she offers). If you don’t have any indication that she likes you then try another girl.

Also, you can try just standing near some working girls and if one of them approaches you it probably mean she is at least somewhat interested in you besides for your money.

Also, I banged some American girls there because most of the guys there are interested in Asian girls so the American girls don’t have a lot of options. Also the American girls probably aren’t really interested in Asians.

Also, there are 1000s of women there and 100s of men. You have pick of the litter. If you have a specific type of girl that you are really attracted to then you can probably find her in Thailand.

[–]TheFowo26 points27 points  (12 children) | Copy

My GF is Vietnamese, according to her there's tons of white guys who come to live in Asia because of how crazy girls are on them. Funfuct that I'd never suspect before, perfect skin colour in 90% of Asia is white. When my ltr takes selfie she only likes ones on which she's looking white. If you're white and you go to club in China you get private lounge and bottle of vodka for free. Long story short, white guys have it easy in Asia

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

Had no clue about that in China. Shanghai?

[–]SerialATA_Killer4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Bro it's insane if you get into the nightclub party rotation in shanghai. They feed and give free booze to non-asian foreigners just to pack these chinese clubs. Gotta know a promoter to get in though.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well shit. Whens a good time to go?

[–]SerialATA_Killer4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

As far as I know it's year round. Just looked at my passport, I was there in November a few years ago. The rich Chinese 20 year old guys basically go out to different club parties every night of the week and get bottle service with ~10 HB8-10 "models." You just gotta find a person who can put you on the club lists; I got lucky meeting my connection.

I also had a pretty sweet edge out there, I studied Chinese in college and can speak Chinese almost fluently. I would talk with the rich assholes who would invite me up to drink and chat, and most nights one or more of the models would be asking me to go home with them (for free :] ).

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ah yeah. Learning the language certainly gives you a huge foot in the door. I had the same experience in Thailand.

[–]smgtn3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

f you're white and you go to club in China you get private lounge and bottle of vodka for free.

But doesn't china have massive shortage of women?

[–]TheFowo5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

If you're white you're instantly considered +4 (if not more) in scale. So even considering there's less woman in China, knowing how many of them people around 9-10 get it shouldn't be hard

[–]smgtn3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Interesting. That gives me all kinds of filthy ideas 😆

Chinese chicks have the smallest percentage of fatsos among them which is a good thing, but most of them have rather small tits. I get matches on Tinder from time to time and many of them are pretty like dolls. Another thing I also noticed that hardly any of them post bikini pictures whereas absolute majority of white chicks nowadays do. That also makes me wonder if it is more difficult to get them to fuck?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every chinese girl i’ve met on tinder in the usa fucked me on the first date. All but one has been batshit insane, though. Super clingy. Super abusive.

[–]TheFowo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Idk man didn't have problems with them so far but gotta mention most of them living in here (Poland) are rather looking for LTRs. I still always liked to fuck them over other races, tight thing is true as far as my experiences go so far

[–]reddick10 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's also that women there take better care of themselves - fashion, makeup, not fat, skin, etc. So when guys move there they are surprised at all these "hot" girls throwing themselves at them.

A "hot" Asian girl you see in a Western country is basically average or even below average in their country. For that reason they love coming to Western countries as well. Actual hot Asian girls never leave their country or bother learning English - they don't have to, they got rich guys giving them everything.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is true. The hottest Asian I've ever seen in my country is basically what every poor remote village girl in Thailand looks like and no one will ever even notice she exists there.

[–]450k_crackparty21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy

They will either be prostitutes or women looking for an arrangement that's similar to prostitution. Basically you pay for everything and they bang you. Not that there's anything wrong with this. Just be careful and don't catch the feels.

Staying is hostels is an easy way to bang other travelers. Guesthouses I find are more difficult since you have a private room and sometimes they don't have much of a common area. Meet someone at a hostel, then travel together for a day or 3 and have a good time. Rinse and repeat. Getting around is super easy there and there's heaps to do.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hostel fucking logistics are difficult if you have people in your room.

[–]450k_crackparty0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Forgot to respond. The hostel is more to meet women that are also solo travelling. You establish a rapport by hanging out for the day, often with a group of other solo travellers then go to the next travel destination together and get a guesthouse. Typically everyone is taking the same routes in SE Asia. I found it was pretty easy to meet someone then spend a couple days together then go separate ways.

[–]holyrasta1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This.

[–]MSotallyTober17 points18 points  (3 children) | Copy

[–]babybopp4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

i was going to say i saw this guy on a top five video of 90 day fiancee. his name was Eric and the girl was leida.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Caught

[–]cambucaz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Make bang bang good: currency exchange advice bad.

[–]OverEasyFetus7 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy

I've been to both.

Walking street in Thailand... holy shit man. Some people call it Disney Land for adults, I call it straight degeneracy. I literally almost took a bath in bleach afterwards. The things I did there man... But yeah, you could have a good time in Thailand, just make sure you don't go alone.

[–]user201806207 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Stories please. Some of us who were raised conservative don't have the imagination to fill in the blanks... And I'm drying of curiosity here! 😅

[–]OverEasyFetus1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well one, Bot, Thai currency, doesn't stack up well the dollar so 20 USD equals like 200 there. So you're basically rich even if you're not.

There are prostitutes everywhere basically. A lot of them are white and from places like Romania and shit like that, but the lady-boy thing isn't a myth either. You could be walking down the street and if they see you're American then these trucks called "bot trucks" will like pull up on the sidewalk, cut you off, and try to sell you one of the women that he has sitting in the bed of the truck.

It's basically a cess-pool of prostitution and degeneracy lol. I think a lot of it is sex slavery though so I didn't really like it. I don't want to give details about what I did lol but yeah, I felt like I needed to bathe in bleach when I got back to the hotel.

[–]user201806202 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

🤣... The way you handle that is to tell stories about your friends.

"My buddy Jimmy...." 🤦‍♂️lol

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

What’s the risk of going alone?

[–]OverEasyFetus0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You have a chance of being targeted by bad people. If you're white and American you'll already have a target on your head there.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Whelp guess I’ll convince a close friend to come.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy

Ah something I'm an expert on.

No, most girls are not looking for a green card... Maybe the dumb farmer girls, but most girls in BKK colleges are decently driven and providing good, feminine girlfriend experiences. Yes, if you are suggesting eating out at restaurants everyday, you are probably going to be paying, simply because their salaries are ass over there and food at foreign friendly places is more expensive.

On that point, never bring her back to the west. She will dump your ass for a hotter white guy. Happened to every guy I know that married a Thai chick and brought her back to America, even my rich friend that was about to buy their multi-million dollar house... lucky him the prenup stuck but still.

I lived in Thailand for about 10 years. It was during my blue pill years as a very young adult (I went there at 17 as an exchange student and said fuck my future to go to college there).

I learned the language, got very fluent, and despite being a shy guy with absolutely zero backbone or IRL game, found my way easily fucking car show models, one of the biggest Youtubers in the country and a top 10 chart singer/actress (a couple of them). It was a fucking blast. Learning the language helped a lot, because a lot of the hot model chicks just don't speak much English. My N-count increased by about 1 girl per week during my peak years there. If I went back now, I'd probably fuck a new girl every day or other day, simply because knowing the language, being in great shape, and being an average height decent looking white guy makes me a 7.5 - 8 (while I'd say I'm about a 5.5 - 6 in the USA)

I wish I went when I was red-pilled because I wouldn't have dated a girl for 5 years, given her my everything, became a fat, lazy PoS cunt, and been cheated on by everyone had I been better educated to these forums.

When I switch my Tinder location to Thailand, I easily get 100+ matches on a boost, maybe about 20% of them are fat/ugly/ladyboys, but the rest are decent and a few standout hotties that open to me. When I boost in LA, I get about 5 - 10 matches, and 80% of them are landwhales, the rest don't reply. It's night and day and depressing as far as online dating goes.

The problem is that you will get very complacent in SE Asia. You will stop working on yourself because girls come to you. You will stop gaming because girls come to you. You will stop working because it's so affordable there. You'll be drinking every fucking day because clubs are so cheap. When you come back to your home country, you'll be so fucking depressed because you won't be able to have any of the fun, easy girls and affordable lifestyle you had in Asia. It took me 2-3 years to dig myself out of that hole after coming back and I was so close to killing myself until I found TRP. Thank god for this place.

If you can avoid those pitfalls, move to SE Asia. Enjoy it. Wear a condom ALWAYS because these girls are getting played by every white guy and 70% of the white guys there are raw dogging hookers and ladyboys and gay guys. Learn the language (you can get easy 6 month visas for like $600 6-month language classes) for easier access - Thai is very, very simple compared to English.

Feel free to ask any questions or PM me.

[–]BerlinWallstreet1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Is it safe to visit alone for a week or two? And don't speak the language

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thailand is like, one of the most vacationed countries in the world. I think you'll die if you go, tbh.

[–]BerlinWallstreet0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Haha fair enough. Guess I'm thinking logistics, like I hear in South America if you meet a local girl, you don't go to her house because it's too risky. They have motels that rent by the hour specifically for this kind of stuff

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Its not like that at all. Its probably as safe as wherever you're from.

[–]LoLDamo4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Spent 6 months in the Philippines and 3 months in Thailand.

Both are super easy to get girls, Filipinas are better in bed and look better IMO but if you want to sleep with travelers Thailand is better.

Capital cities are the best place for local girls any beach destination for travelers although you can get locals there also just less to choose from.

[–]flyinghorse12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

A lot of women will chase you due to white worshipping, you'll at alpha the locals physically, and you'll be relatively rich to them.

I've been all over south east asia and not getting sex there is like not being able to get meat at a BBQ.

[–]smgtn10 points11 points  (7 children) | Copy

I am mildly curious about this. I guess it makes sense they're interested in white dudes, I mean at the very least we're taller than locals. But I think their ultimate goal is to find a guy who will get them out of there into the western world of abundance.

I'd be extra worried about banging them in terms of STDs too, condom doesn't protect from all of them and if it breaks you could be in a world of trouble.

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Coming from an asian

Its honestly the culture and their perspective of westerns

Westerns=rich, sophisticated and handsome

This comes from US movies and their perspectives passed down from WW2

So thats why white guys seem to find gaming super easy in asia

[–]smgtn3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

That makes sense, but probably it's more relevant to those guys who struggle to score in the west. I do reasonably well enough in west already, so wasting huge amounts of time and money just to get some pussy? Yeah, been there, done that and it's not worth it.

[–]SerialATA_Killer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Depending on the country, you don't even have to have game.

[–]basilisk_girth1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This has always been my belief as well, it’s not about money or green cards and all that other visa bullshit. It’s about her access to a large pool of high value men (which to them are white). She will come with you back to the West but I imagine the sex falls as her mission now is complete and she begun evaluating her options again.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yea those are some of my worries as well.

[–]babybopp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

go do it and bring back report.

are you not able to fuck hot milfs in your area?

[–]SerialATA_Killer1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Ooh, I actually just got back from 3 months of backpacking in the Philippines, so I can weigh in here. Manila, Angeles City, and most of the other major cities are all sex tourism hubs. It can be very difficult to find authentic experience there with non-prostitutes. If you go out to the provincial areas, you get far, far fewer hookers and way more normies.

Getting laid was too easy. My game in the US is pretty meh, but over there, it's hardly needed [caveat: I'm a pretty boy, which is likely why my game is ass]. The game plan was to either ask a girl to meet for drinks via tinder, or if I cold approached, ask them to be somewhat of a tour guide and take me to cool places and a drink. After that basically all I had to do was have a place to go, and invite them over for another drink, tea, hot dog, whatever. The ONLY girl I didn't sleep with after I had taken her out was one who had spent years in the US being an intern or some shit, and I accidentally let it slip that I was returning home in a few days.

I didn't once have to talk about anything pertaining to marriage or visa questions.

Also, I managed to snag several foreigners staying at the known party hostels. Everybody is out there to party, get tan, and get laid.

[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

What are some decent hostels you’ve stayed at?

[–]SerialATA_Killer2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Madmonkey is "the" party hostel chain around the philippines, I stayed there in Palawan and Boracay. Z-hostel is hands down best in Manila, and made that city somewhat sufferable. Outpost hostel was fun, don't know if it's a chain. Friendz was cool also and had a sweet rooftop pool and bar, as well as the most comfortable hostel beds I've ever slept in. BAMBAM in Coron was decent

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[–]SerialATA_Killer0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah that's the case in most hostels, so you're only able to really sleep with other guests. The only times I was able to get locals into my hostel room was if the place had a rooftop bar, and we would just go to the room at some point in the night and go back upstairs.

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[–]SerialATA_Killer0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I'm talking about hostels, not hotels. Hotels don't give a fuck. My last 4 nights in the philippines I stayed at a hotel, and every night I walked in a different girl (except one that had some stupid ass self respect), right past the same receptionist woman.

Hostels don't want people having sex and disturbing the life patterns of the other dormitory guests, so that makes sense. You gotta be sneaky.

[–]flatox1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Just remember to keep your wits about you and don't leave the rich quarters

[–]alittletoosmooth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This. Have fun, party, but more so than when you are back home don't even fuckin think about blacking out. Other guys might be able to tell you more about this but I avoided any and all drugs while I was out there too. Especially in the Philippines.

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[–]Whycantwealltwerk[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You’re a middle aged white guy I assume ?

[–]e39boy1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I have no desire to go to a third-world country. Like some have mentioned here, a bunch of them want a green card.

Ever hear of those stories in the military where the men get scammed? Don’t be one of them.

[–]pilot3330 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Traveling isn’t all about women.

[–]hatefulreason0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

they are not "into american guys" , they are into "western standard of living" ;)

if you're going to pattaya, check out sharky, maybe you'll learn something or at least he can recommend some good hookers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88Wb0nAkDS0

[–]masterpiece000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lady boys.

[–]prettyawsm0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Living here in TH for about 5 years. First of all pattaya is one hell of a shit hole. 95% are working girls as pattaya legit doesnt have good people. Try bangkok, chiang mai, phuket, same applies for visiting. Secondly you have to understand that trp works differently here (and in asia). If you're ripped asf, good girls will be backing off and you will attract even more working girls, hell I've seen plenty of HB dating chubby normies. Why cuz chubby guys are like cuddly bears being ripped asf means you're big by any means so they might get hurt. Finally yes games here us easy. Get your clothes sorted, your style, smile 99% of the times learn as many words as you can and you're nailing HB 7s asian wife materials in half a day. Need more info you're welcome to message me, 15+ countries, 12 years abroad here lol.

[–]smgtn0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

If you're ripped asf, good girls will be backing off and you will attract even more working girls, hell I've seen plenty of HB dating chubby normies. Why cuz chubby guys are like cuddly bears being ripped asf means you're big by any means so they might get hurt.

OK... what? This can't be serious. You have to be a fucking chubster to score hot girls? 😆

[–]tomacer2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's truth. When I was away I was in the 2nd best shape of my life, lean and just full abs and big well defined arms. I was in Thailand and Phillipines, having spent a lot more time in Phillipines. There, the girls are TINY. And hot (lips plump, asses round/juicy, usually nicer at least c cup or b cup tits) - and I cannot count the amount of tiny girls who get scared. I made some gay friends there who were very well versed and hooked up, and I heard from a lot of them that their tiny friends thought I was hot, but that they are terrified of getting their pussies ripped too hard.

Some fucking problem eh. With any degree, BEING IN SHAPE far outweighs being out of shape. Depending on what type of girls you are going for, having a different body type can play to your advantage. White chicks want ripped dudes. Tiny asians - most of em want ripped dudes, but some of the stupidly hot tiny good girls aren't used to that yet, and you won't be able to fuck them without a considerable amount of work/comfort put in first.

For me - for ASIAN girls - Phillipines wins hands down. If you want to bang white chicks/mixed - Thailand. If you have game, are cool, and in shape - BALI.

Thailand is easy, and for me the quality of girls there is far lower than Bali. Bali is sick, it's where all the russians/europeans go and overall the quality there is higher. There is also a ton of aussies, so you are competing with ripped/jacked dudes with tattoos and aggressive facial features, as well lots of money and fame comes through. I lived there for awhile and would take it in a heartbeat over Thailand. For fucking tiny hot asian girls though - Phillipines is unbelievable. Go to Cebu, rent an apartment and a scooter - and hit the malls and run daygame.

[–]prettyawsm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Doesn't mean you have to be fat. You can always be slim to fit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah. I was skinny-fat (not obese but basically no muscle) when I fucked some of the hottest girls I've ever met there. Went back last year in much better shape and had trouble getting the same quality.

[–]smgtn0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is just comical, I never realized that there are places in world where being in shape is a downside to getting laid 😆 What if I use a pillow to simulate a beer-belly? 😆

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dress like a schmuck I guess with sandals and socks and a baggy shirt. Man I am just fucking embarrassed when I look back at some of my photos from that year. I had no idea what fashion was.

It was wierd though. Hot Instagram model tier girl invites me over at 1am when I'm in embarrassing shape. Thought it was a scam or my kidneys were about to get taken by a gang. But no, she is just sick of all the 'muscle guys' and just wants to talk. Maybe cuddle. And fuck. For the whole weekend. If that's beta life in Thailand, I could probably handle earning $300 a week living there for a while.

[–]Kizzou0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I went to Manila last summer which was a horrible trip. Was there for 3 weeks but the weather was horrible and manila overall was just overcrowded and a pain in the ass to navigate. I would like to go back to the Phillippines but not manila.

As for thailand, I will be there in 3 weeks for a month. Never been before but my brother has told me it is insanely fun. He tells me Pattaya is a beach town full of bars and is very fun

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In on this thread. Traveling to PH next year. I'm surprised this sub doesnt have more threads like this. From what I've heard from people: Thailand is easy. Shoring is very possible. Apparently some of the chicks will try to get clingy and want to follow you around- although I only heard this from one guy in person who has been to Thailand extensively. In Philippines they speak english and Tinder is easy mode there. Pipeline a week or two out whichever place you choose.

Some good blogs: Happier abroad Swoop the World Masculine Profiles Relampago Furioso

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[–]BradyBrosef334 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

Not that tourism is a thing

[–]AlmostWardCunningham-1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy

There's plenty of other places to go to in SE Asia that don't have rampant sex trafficking problems. Bali, Singapore, Taiwan, Hong Kong, etc.

[–]anxietyriddledbuddah8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yup, I heard hong kong's nice this time of year!

[–]smgtn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Matched with a chinese chick today who said she lives in London, but "temporarily" in Hong Kong (most likely bullshit). She's a 9, possibly 10 (haven't seen a bikini picture). Not the first time too, there are some super hot chinese chicks out there.

[–]BradyBrosef331 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

thailand, as someone that has not been but would like to go has some very interesting places and amazing views and landscapes along with the others you have mentioned

[–]AlmostWardCunningham-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

So what? There's many other places to visit that DON'T have so many sex workers.

Edit: Holy shit, if you don't understand the difference between Amsterdam and Thailand, then it's not worth talking to you about. For fuck sake, holy shit.

[–]BradyBrosef331 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I went to Amsterdam and didn't smoke or do anything in the RLD. I was there for 2 weeks, I went because I wanted to explore the city and visit a lot of places because theres a lot to do and so much history behind it all.

Just because you go to Thailand doesn't mean you're a pedo or a perv, theres plenty of reasons to go there, honestly I think its shallow to assume that's all you would go for

[–]1ForeverNandrolone0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

So how did you like Thailand?

[–]AlmostWardCunningham-3 points-2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Lmao, fuck off 🤣🤣. I would never waste my time traveling there.

[–]1ForeverNandrolone1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

So you know nothing about it but have pretty strong opinions?

The SMP in America is fucked and heavily skewed in favor of women but you’re opposed to American men going to places where they have very slight advantages?

I didn’t see any pedophile stuff going on there. I generally banged girls in their early 20s though my favorite was 32yo.

It’s extremely easy to bang regular girls there because the sex industry has cheapened pussy.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah right

[–]EvelynnSpoiler-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

They're very submissive, especially the thai girls. One of my previous plates from last year was a thai girl who just moved to my city to study. She seemed like she was from a wealthy background and dressed modestly.

Absolutely destroyed her and made her swallow for the first time. She used to make me green thai curries and I'd show up after the gym just to eat and get sucked off.

She's dating some scrawny white guy now and I can guarantee she doesn't swallow for him.

Sometimes I go to a thai massage parlour and get the girls to suck me off

[–]Cinederose-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just search cinederose on YouTube and that's worth more then a thousand essays on Thailand , cheap plug for my ladyboy channel :) but I have been all over ;)



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