30M. I have a low n-count, 4. I am an engineer, and a bit nerdy. I also discovered that I don't quite enjoy sex outside of a committed relationship, i.e. when I don't care much for the girl.
I've been in 2 LTRs. First one had an n-count of 1 before me, and second one had n-count ~15. One of my 2 plates also had high n-count ~30.
The irony I experienced was that the girls with high n-count don't seem to care about sexually satisfying you. It makes you wonder how they racked up such high n-count if they don't seem that interested in sex. Plate with n-count of 30 was trying to get me to commit, so she wasn't too bad, but not great.
I discussed marriage with both LTRs, but LTR with n-count of 15 was quite horrible; won't initiate, doesn't like to give blowjobs, rejected my advances quite frequently at some point. In fact, I felt undesired and a bit depressed. She made me feel like a pervert who's always thinking of sex. Needless to say, I recently dumped her. LTR with n-count of 1 was awesome. Initiated ~30-50% of the time, had sex a lot, gave blowjobs, etc.
It's like high n-count women have seen better sex so can't be moved to feel excited, or are really giving action to the term "been there, done that".
Has this been any of you guy's experience, especially those who've been with a lot of women?