Ghosted my ex LTR of 5 years for the past three months and she's still reaching out.

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November 29, 2019

This chick thought she could keep controlling me... I will admit I was pretty whipped during our time together but all of a sudden one day I just snapped and stopped taking any BS. She always got jealous of me hanging out with my female friends and one day had given me an ultimatum "pick me or them" toxic type of bull shit. All I said was "well I'm gonna go hang out with them now, cya" stopped talking to her, and haven't looked back since.

She's been reaching out to my friends, even my lady friends who she hated while she was with me asking to "chill & get drinks" (LMFAO). A couple of weeks ago she tried sending me memes over Facebook messenger, I opened them & never responded. She even had the audacity to text my mother today and say "Happy Thanksgiving to You & Your Family" why won't this bitch just leave me the fuck alone πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ she's the one who broke up with me in the first damn place, and turned into a damn whore, started fucking a bunch of dudes to fill the hole in her pants and then goes crying to my friends about how much she misses me. Sure, I'm lonely as fuck, but I've been working on myself non stop and know that I'm way better off without her in my life...

I have been working out every day for the past three months and wake up in the best shape of my life every single day. Needless to say, I've done a complete 180 in my life thanks to you guys, but why the hell is she still reaching out?!?

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Title Ghosted my ex LTR of 5 years for the past three months and she's still reaching out.
Author Astro129129
Upvotes 89
Comments 85
Date 29 November 2019 02:04 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–][deleted] 83 points84 points  (13 children) | Copy

Wait. So yall dated exclusively for 5 years and then you literally just ghosted her? Thats savage af πŸ˜‚

[–]Astro12912951 points52 points  (8 children) | Copy

Yeah bro πŸ˜‚ I got y'all on here to thank for that one

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (1 child) | Copy

Fucking shits amazing bruh. Did the EXACT same shit of a 10yr ltr whos a hb5.

[–]Astro12912913 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Best feeling ever dude.

[–]volvostupidshit6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wish I had the balls like yours back when I needed em.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Youre deff red pill af. I aint never seen anything like that

[–]Astro1291296 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

The day that all went down it was like a switch in my brain flipped, since that day I have abstained from porn, masturbation, nicotine, I’ve worked out every day, eating much healthier, started to learn to bake since I’m already a very good cook. I actually have a morning and nightly routine now! I take time every day to groom myself whether it’s plucking a few extra eyebrow hairs or lining up my beard, etc. Even started building a new wardrobe so I can finally ditch the same clothes I’ve been wearing for the past 6 years.

Being alive has never felt this good man. I’ll admit I’m lonely at times but I know that if I keep working on myself at this rate I’ll be spinning 4-5 plates in no time.

Edit: Grammar

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ive got 4-5 plates but fuck do i miss my ex. It hurt my chest thinking about her fuckin some other dude right now thats probably gonna pump n dump and turn her into a bonafide slut. The worst part was that this girl was LTR material but i cheated twice and got caught twice. There’s no way in hell shes coming back so im onto something bigger and better now.

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Dude if you were cheating, that tells me she wasn't satisfying you enough.

Edit: P.S. ik it's hard but you gotta do this for you my man.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, i guess subconsciously. Its fucked up. LTR’s are TRP on hard mode.

[–]phisch1332 points33 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lmao she realized she fucked up. You’re probably better off without her, leave her on read.

The girl I was with the last few weeks was grinding on another dude at the bar. So I left her ass there, no explanation. She’s been hitting up my friends trying to hang out with us. She begged my roommate to let her pick us up to take us to the airport. She wanted to drive over an hour out of her way... to drive us 15 minutes to the airport.

Hoes do hoe shit and then when you hold frame, they want you even more. You beta’d around this girl, but sounds like you regained frame at the end. So right when you left her, you became that much more desirable to her.

Good for you lol.

[–]Astro12912912 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know for a fact I'm better off without her I've never been more productive in my life!! Good for you too man, sounds like you handled your situation pretty fricken well. I'm so glad we have a place of support like this.

[–]astonboi0165 points66 points  (4 children) | Copy

She wants you to validate her by letting her back into your life. Never go near deadwood.

[–]Astro12912917 points18 points  (3 children) | Copy

Lmaooo she lost her chance of ever having me in her life, staying away from the dead wood is right my friend. She's just annoying me more than anything at this point.

[–]babybopp9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is the point as a man where u find out what u are. Are u going to stay the line and not give a fuck or are u weak and going to fold and go back to lick her semen laden pussy? Ur pick

[–]bkjr12817 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

God damn. Lol

[–]Astro1291291 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gonna stay as far away as I can from her and her stank hole

[–]jakeyv12330 points31 points  (3 children) | Copy

Protip: block her on all forms of media. She’s taking up your valuable headspace king. Eliminate that shit.

[–]Astro12912921 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

The deed is done.

[–]BusterVadge2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good job. That takes some balls man... Closing the door completely.

[–]Astro1291291 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not talking to her for the last three months definitely made it an easy thing to do. I should've done it immediately tbh.

Like y'all are saying, I don't need her taking up my valuable headspace so the faster I cut it off completely, the faster I can move on and find a few other women who are actually worth my time and energy.

[–]CSauceHockey33 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy

Who cares you fuckin legend? Forget her sorry ass

[–]Astro12912910 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're right bro

[–]Flamethrowa2116 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Hell yeah man! Go you!

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[–]SerialATA_Killer2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just relish in the knowledge that her chasing you confirms that you are far higher value than she is, and can get way better than her.

[–]anxietyriddledbuddah3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is this the masculine 'you go girl! Slay!!!'

[–]hoopingblob5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep ignoring. She will eventually leave you alone. If she offers you sexy time. Refuse.

[–]sebastianconcept5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she misses controlling you. Probably couldn’t control any of the other guys she fucked. So she misses your past self and that makes your present self more attractive to her.

[–]Smuggler-Tuek8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

I know there’s a lot of opinions and you are going to catch shit from some and praise from others but I really feel the need to contribute here. Muscles rebuild during rest dude. Working out every day probably won’t produce the best results. Seriously consider spacing it out a little bit and adding rest days.

[–]BlackjointnerD4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy have to sleep and eat...when I take 3 day breaks I break my records exponentially every time

[–]Astro1291291 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

By resting do you mean I should give my whole body a rest? Or just give the muscle groups I was pushing a rest? I do high intensity days on MWF, but targeting different muscle groups each of those days. The other days I stick to some kind of cardio just to stay active since I work from home and sit down for most of the day. I’ve gotten pretty decent results in three months, cook my meals myself, and get at least 8 hours of sleep a night. What do you think?

[–]Smuggler-Tuek2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Whole body. Let it recover at least once a week. You will find the energy you bring to the following workout is much higher.

[–]Astro1291292 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man I'll give this a try :)

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[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I blocked her on everything :)

[–]LilLoserFreny2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lmao hoes are funny as hell huh?πŸ˜‚πŸ’€

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit's hilarious ☠️

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Cool, another one of those threads that is basically "listen to my rant that makes me feel good about myself and then I guess I'll throw a question onto the end so it fits into the sub"

[–]MOSFETBJT4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. Seriously. Wtf is this post?

OP's actions aren't "alpha," OP is just acting like a child.

I feel like this sub is becoming like "AmITheAsshole" where it's value system is extremely out of touch with reality.

We don't post for actual advice anymore. It's turned into "this girl was doing XYZ so I did this nuclear thing in response, look at how Alpha I am."

And then the people on this sub just up vote posts which are the most Jerry Springer-like.

[–]terpaway22001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Basically every other thread in this sub.

"look how shitty women are, why are they so stupid?"

[–]volvostupidshit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wants to win by being the one to ghost you. Never get attached if you are thinking about plating her because she is gonna do what you did to her.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Question: "why the hell is she still reaching out?!?"

Answer: "I have been working out every day for the past three months and wake up in the best shape of my life every single day. Needless to say, I've done a complete 180 in my life."

[–]Astro129129-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

She doesn't know any of that as I've been no contact

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I know. You demonstrated strength and resolve at the end of the LTR after slipping back into some BP habits, so my comment stands. Also, women talk a lot. She knows you’ve improved yourself even though you’ve been no contact.

[–]Domebeers1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you ghosted her, which doesn't happen a lot to women, it's a mind worm in her head. So that's part of it.

She also misses the comfort of you. Going out and getting smashed was fun for her until it wasn't. Now she finds being a ONS for guys isn't what the TV makes it out to be. So that's part of it.

If you take her back, OP, she will revert to her old ways. Only do it if you can maintain a strong mental frame, ie: she has to be a plate option for you, no girlfriend shit. Otherwise she will revert and you will too.

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're right, I'm just gonna cut my losses completely with this one bro, I don’t need sex from her. I’ll be looking elsewhere to satisfy my needs.

[–]iphone50001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

5 years is a long time, she'll be thinking about you for years to come.

[–]AWALT991 point2 points  (13 children) | Copy

Sorry for hijacking this post. I am new here and unable to post. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed.

I was kinda disgusted when she swallowed that quick but who cares I liked it. She made a comment that pissed me off, saying she doesn't like the taste of cum its too salty but mine isn't..I knew I was probably dealing with a slut but anyway. She didn't give it up that day since she had the period but eventually gave it up by the 3rd date.

We became official 3 months later, didn't live together or anything. She had too many red flags which made me wonder why I would commit to someone like that. Unstable personality which she tends to blame on her abusive ex.. Of course they never blame themselves.

We dated from December 2018 until September 2019. Things started deteriorating since May 2019, and I noticed she was pulling away being slightly cold, takes a lot of time responding to texts 8 hrs when she's at work and blaming in it on being busy..also withholding sexually.. I called her out on it - mistake.

Then I told her over the phone that I wanted to end it. She said she doesn't want to and she asked to come here so we can mend things etc of course typical female manipulation she came here and promised she will change etc and me like a good beta gave her a chance.. 3 weeks later didn't notice much improvement. Waited for her to come here gave me a blowjob and fucked her ass till I tore it up and came inside etc I was mad af.

After she left I told her it was over.. She said she knew I was gonna do that and asked if she can still come from time to time. I said yes but don't expect anything non-physical.

She came on August 8 and before entering the apartment she freaked out and wanted to leave and told me she wasn't sure what my intentions were and she was afraid i was planning something lol straight up psycho and she ran towards the elevator panicking and shaking, she said she just wants to sit down at the lobby.

We sat down for almost 3 hours complete waste of my time then she took an uber and went home. She never came again until begining of September. During that time all we were talking about is how she doesn't trust me and some horseshit, she is always projecting her abusive past onto me, which was something I noticed very early as a red flag but ignored.

During the 1 month+ period we didn't see each other she sometimes initiated contact during that period but we would go 2 or 3 days without contact. Finally she came begining of September and by that time I guess we were both checked out of the relationship, few days later on September 13 she calls me in the morning while I was at work and started telling me your tone is aggressive and you are rude rn etc then we hung up. THIS is the interesting part.

I sent her a text immediately telling her its over and I can't put up with her crap anymore. Then headed to a meeting shortly after. When I got out of the meeting there was still no response, I called her a few times- ask me why!! Then sent her other messages saying if u don't respond by 11am you are blocked and I don't wanna hear your voice again. Next thing I know is her blocking me on whatsapp lol.

Then I go ahead and send her text messages saying why would u block me? And told her am coming to your work to grab coffee and talk about things- she freaked out calling me and panicking and telling me she called the police blah blah then she said she will call me after work. So she calls me at 5pm and asks if we can meet. I told her where to come, so we meet at a coffee shop and she says how scared she is etc same old crap.

Then she went home and I went home. The next day she calls me asking if she can come to my house. So she comes and tells me the relationship is over, you eneded it yesterday and I agree I don't want a relationship with you after what you did yesterday. I said fine. I was calm af and didn't show any emotion. She then said she wants to be FWB ans asked if I wanted to fuck. I said no thanks maybe another time, it bruised her ego and she asked me are you sure? I said yes.

But I'll let you know when I want. She said Ok. Then she left. We talked at night and I had a few drinks then went all beta over the phone telling her I don't want that FWB shit. Then she tried to convince me, eventually told her I will see. Next day I told her I will only be Ok with it if we were exclusive, she said Ok and we left it at that.

At the point I was already in the gym for 2 weeks, lost 13lbs and continued focusing on my self, eating healthy, lifting, sleeping well etc then I took a week off work to go to California, before I left I texted her so we can meet up the Saturday after I came back, and asked her to confirm via text. She called me to wish me a good trip and said she will check her schedule at work and confirm. I said Ok.

4 days later, I had drunk called her at 5pm, she didn't answer, called again at 8pm she didn't answer as she was still at work. Alcohol tricked me into texting her saying why are u not answering all that crap and then told her forget about our fwb arrangement. She calls me shortly after and we talked for a bit then hung up. The next morning I send her a series of beta messages.

Including screenshots of texts between me and my female cousin, who asked about how my relationship was, I told her we are no longer together etc and that since my dad's diagnosis I haven't been the same person and treated my gf bad and I rarely cry but I am crying because I could lose my dad at any time etc some bullshif beta stuff that I still don't understand why I sent.

Anyway, she says are u sending me this to try and get back with me using your dad as an excuse. The drunk me said yes, from there we started an argument and she insults me and I insulted her back it was ugly, she then said I believe the screenshots were made up, u have free time in your hands and sitting there obsessing about me lol.. Anyway we end it there. Next day i call her and the same thing we get into an argument and she has a mental breakdown and gets her dad on the phone to ask me not to contact again.

She blocked my number the same day. I then relapsed into my old drinking habits and start calling/texting from different numbers. I called and texted over a period of weeks every time while under the influence. She eventually changed her number. A week later I call her office and she didn't wanna talk -obviously.

Now she's on that pedestal. I then threaten to call her family and tell them we had a sexual relationship. She comes from a religious family. So I call and spoke with her parents and told them. That same day they called my family and asked them to make me stop or they will go to the police. I stayed quite until two weeks later when I sent her an e-mail to her work e-mail.

I fucking hate alcohol man. Makes me do some dumb shit. Anyway while I was randomly looking to see if they filed anything against me, I went online and looked up my name and saw that they tried to file for a peace order against me the same day they called my family but it was denied due to lack of sufficient evidence.

Since then I cut the alcohol and just focusing on my self. It was quite an experience. This is not something that I would normally do, but this bitch has a way of making people act this way, what's funny is that her ex did the exact same thing but he took it a step further and went to her houss until her father and brother got involved.

I should have heeded the message from the very begining when she was paranoid at the begining of the relationship and telling me about all the stories about her ex.

What do you suggest now, going monk mode for a while and focus on myself, my job, and kicking addiction, staying in the gym etc and leave gaming women until I have stabilized a little bit and forgot this relationship. It seems I secretly developed onitis in the process without even noticing. Onitis is a bitch man. I have been very distracted at work and life in general, it seems that this hoe was taking a lot of my time and I somehow became a codependent bitch! Whats your advice in getting over this quickly and move on?

[–]Astro1291291 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy

Bro you gotta bounce ASAP, cut all contact from this woman. I don’t think you need monk mode rn I think you need to go out and fuck some chicks. Work on yourself in the meantime, and EVEN IF she shows up at your door REFUSE sex with her, tell her you have more than enough women to suck your dick better than she ever could. You’ve lost frame with this woman countless times and I guarantee she has no respect for you. HARD NEXT

[–]AWALT991 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Thank you for the advice my man. I really appreciate it bro. Am going to a house party in a few hours where lots of chicks will be there, my female cousin organized this only for me. She wants to see me get out of this dark place ASAP. She's inviting all of her hot 8 and 9 friends.

But I don't know if am ready to start gaming girls again. I know TRP endorses the FTOW as the best way to get over a breakup or onitis, but for some reason this bitch is stuck in my head bro.

Bro please tell me when did i break frame and how i could have handled it better? I somehow know i broke frame especially in the last few weeks prior to the breakup and then again 2 months after the breakup by sending all these beta nonesense texts, but I want to know so I don't repeat the same mistake with the next one!

When you said even if she comes back Don't take her back. Do you even think they come back after all what happened and after she got her family and police involved etc?

I've been no contact since then. Am sure she expected me to keep chasing but that's it. But I somehow feel like shit because 9 months out of 11 I held strong frame, always had things going on my my terms, but in the last month before the breakup my dad had cancer and I started becoming needy, relied on my gf for emotional support etc and that's when she left me! AWALT I guess. They only wanna be with you when you're at your best but they don't wanna stay wirh you when you're a little vulnerable.

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

The β€œif you don’t respond by 11 I’m blocking you” was a reeeeeaaaallly bad move bro, it’s showing that you’re borderline dependent on her and that you NEED her. I know times were tough then regarding things with your father but think of this as a mental war. In actual war would you ever tell your enemy your plan? HELL NO, and why? Because they’ll counter the absolute fuck out of you.

You showed your hand, instead keep shit like that to yourself, hard next, and live rent free in her head like I have been with my ex.

[–]AWALT991 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Thanks bro. That's a solid advice my man. You're right, I don't know what I was thinking when I said that. I regret saying that shit. What happened between you and your ex? If you don't mind sharing.

I was surprised at how easy it was for her to say we're done after that day, and then asks to be FWB the same day. Man she's weird. AWALT I guess right

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

She was just always jealous of the other women in my life and insecure about her own self image. She was much more physically attractive to me than any of my female friends which is why I decided to only fuck her for five years. But her lack of confidence in herself ultimately ruined what we had as she could never get over the fact that other women like being around me. She fucking calls me and gives me an ultimatum to choose between my friends or her and I just said fuck that, and told her that I was gonna go hang out with my friends right now, "cya". πŸ˜‚ Gonna have to be really careful to watch for those red flags next time.

[–]AWALT991 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I admit I wish I had your mentality bro. Thing is since moving to the States 3 years ago, I haven't had abundance. Didn't do cold approaches as much as I should have, unlike back home when I had at least 2 plates besides my gf, that's why I naturally had confidence and didn't even have to play games as it came naturally. But since coming here I've been focusing on my career etc and establishing myself here and was happy with having this chick only, didn't look beyond her or tried to develop plates. So as a consequence that reflected in my confidence and I started slowly becoming dependent on her, I managed to hide it for about 9 months but it eventually became apparent to her that I didn't have options and that's when she fucked me over.

I am in desperate need for your advice bro. You seem to have a very goood understanding of the dynamics and I could use your advice because am losing my mind.

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I'm at a place right now where I'm not even worrying about women, I know that chicks at bars and whatever won't satisfy me. I want to spin some HB9s at a consistent rate, but I know in order to get there I have a lot of work to do on my SMV.

Honestly stopping the porn and masturbation changed so much about my mentality and head space it was like I could finally just be me again. I can feel the energy difference in every day life, and I have more drive to work towards what I want to achieve. So Instead of wasting that energy on jacking off and instant gratification I work every day towards my career goals and body goals knowing that this is a long term investment. Nobody becomes the best over night but if you improve a little bit every single day and make a conscious effort to improve and keep improving then you'll notice a significant difference in the way others treat you, especially the women.

[–]AWALT991 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's a very good thing bro. I congratulate you on focusing on your mission and being determined about what you want. I agree about the masturbation part. It drains your energy if you allow it. I felt like a weak loser when I briefly masturbated on my ex's videos that we took together after the breakup. This shit is lame and does nothing but keep me in a miserable state.

I need to focus on my priorities independent of the women in my life. I will never again give a woman more space than my bed space. When you give them more control over you, it almost always end up the same way.

[–]AWALT990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol yeah the jealous type are the worst. A little jealousy can't hurt but excessive is toxic. 5 years is a long time, and you still had the courage to just walk away πŸ˜‚ you're savage bro

[–]AWALT990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah it's not paying attention to the red flags that end up biting us in the ass eventually. My ex had lots of them, I ignored them all, and in my head still "maintained" an image of her that didn't resemble who she really was. The brain is a powerful tool but it can also trick you if you mix logic with emotion like I did.

It's ironic bro that when I broke up with the previous ex who was a solid 8 and a doctor I didn't feel a damn thing, and let her chase me for 3 yrs after that. But with this one who is 6-6.5 I lost my mind and spiraled into depression for 2 months. Never thought it would mess me up like this

[–]AWALT990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No advice ever worked for me so far bro. I think I have a severe case of onitis, and even tho I haven't done something crazy since the last e-mail I sent the begining of the month, I cut all contact, but still I feel like a mess. Don't know how to proceed, it's like I lost my emotional compass and am just letting my irrational thoughts about my onitis wreak havoc in my mental state and it is spilling over to other areas of my life as well. Man I wish I never got involved with this woman.

[–]BusterVadge1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Admit it. You like the attention. Otherwise you would have just blocked her.

Edit: I see later on in the discussion that you actually blocked her.

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Appreciate you brother

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's all ego. She can't get over the frame of which the break-up occurred. In spirit YOU broke up with her. She's trying to get you back and then twist the scenario around last second. Only then can she get passed it.

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I thought she just wanted attention, but ego makes sense

[–]StellarMemez1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

In 2 months you're gonna hear about how you raped her 6 months ago

[–]gyunbie0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Do some experiment if you don't mind. I do it often and for me, it's really interesting to experience things you read here in real life.

Just validate her and you will see how things quickly change. It's like you press a button and it turns the other way instantly.

[–]Astro1291291 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't want to even give her the satisfaction of thinking she's won. I know for a fact that you're correct though.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Hey man just throwing it out there. Shes harassing you and your family exc. If she has any 7+ female family then slay em and plate em. Best shit ever hahhahahhahaha wtg proud of you

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh I know exactly who to hit up.

[–]kclanton80-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

Just talk to her. Ghosting is weak, not strength. A man could stand before her, and let her know that he doesn't want her anymore. That's why she is still reaching out.

Let her know it's done and she will stop.

[–]BusterVadge2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

He doesn't owe her a damn thing.

[–]kclanton800 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Didn't say he owed her anything. I sad it's more manly to face your issues that to tuck tail and run.

Had he done that, he wouldn't have the issue of trying to still get rid of her after all this time. If she is a whore, he can tell her so and tell her to beat it.

[–]RockSoy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah ghosting crushes her ego totally. Women hate being ignored by men they want more than they hate being insulted by men they want

[–]Astro1291290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't even owe her an explanation, if she wants to give me an ultimatum after being with me for five fucking years she can shove it so far up her ass that it comes out of her eye sockets...

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