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Helping my Boys

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November 30, 2019
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I have several boys, a couple in college and a couple in high school. To this point, while I’ve provided a comfortable life for them, I’ve failed to teach them how to be men because of my own beta ways. In fact, the college boys were home for the holidays and I observed one is a definite beta-orbiter to a female.

I’ve read through previous posts and the prevailing advice is to STFU and just lead by example. I plan to lead by example going forward, although it’s easier with the high school kids since they’re living at home. It’s the college boys I’m worried about. Is it appropriate to “suggest” some reading to them in this case? I’ll be honest, part of me wants to give them that “nudge” to get started but I truly take STFU seriously. I’m conflicted and appreciate some feedback.


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Title Helping my Boys
Author oldmanmrp
Upvotes 15
Comments 11
Date 30 November 2019 06:53 PM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/297259
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/e41dww/helping_my_boys/
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[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando40 points41 points  (3 children) | Copy

You're a 50 year old Beta Bucks who pays for his wife to stay at home and do whatever SAHMs do for Beta Bucks.. spend money, complain, be disrespectful and give up just enough duty sex to keep the luxury handbags and jewellery coming in.

Your sons have seen this behaviour and presume that this is the norm. This is how kids learn. And they have learned how to be Blue Pill Betas. You have taught them this. You are a master at it.

Now, after discovering MRP a month ago, you want to 'guide' them towards the Red Pill. You are the quintessential drunken captain - who after being asleep in a drunken stupor for over a decade - suddenly wakes up and says, "I got this - I'm the Captain now.. everyone follow my lead."

Meanwhile your crew are standing there looking at you, thinking, "WTF?"

It doesn't work that way.

The only chance you possibly have of turning things around for them is to focus on yourself and do the work. Then - in a year or two - they might see a changed man, a man who could actually impart to them some Red Pill knowledge. It will take you at least that long to make the changes you need to make in order to be congruent with your words.

In the meantime, just Shut The Fuck Up.

Acta, Non Verba motherfucker.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

\thread

[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Show don't tell.

Be the guy their college girls crush on and say stuff like " omg you'd dad is so hot" or whatever

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your boys are in the Matrix. At any time they can be Agent Smith. They must follow the white rabbit upon their own volition. They must ask for help and need answers before you can begin to share and provide them. I feel the same conflict and have suffered because I was arrogant and spoke about fight club. The results can be disastrous. I have a whole post about it if you need a reminder. Godspeed with your boys.

[–]AlohaMaui8082 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Warning to the wise.

[–]athrowaway-90018 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Unfortunately if you to introduce TRP to them when they are still bluepilled, you will face some backlash.

The best thing you can do is lead by example and be there for your boys when they are down. Try to sprinkle nuggets of TRP here and there; they must come to TRP on their own accord and come in with an open mindset if they want to learn.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely STFU

Work out, lose weight. Get a life as advised in the sidebar.

Get your ass in gear and kick some ass in the gym. Consistency will show off your actions better then words

[–]RedPillGlasses2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

STFU and lead by example

They’re your sons, not your wife.

Make some improvements in your life, get your wife in line and then talk to them about how much better your life is now that you’re not a faggot.

[–]Captain_pants41 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s not a bad idea to drop a few nuggets of truth here and there but don’t deer it out



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