Since porn is talked about frequently here, I thought I might discuss it a bit. Quite frequently it is said that men who watch porn are low value, but I honestly think it's the other way around, that low value men have no other choice but to watch porn as it is incredibly hard for them to have a satisfying sex life.

I'm going to use anecdotal evidence.

I have been watching porn regularly since I was around 11 years old. When I was 18 years old, I realized I had an addiction, so I committed to stop watching porn and masturbating. I was actually quite successful for about four months, but because I stopped I had a really, really strong urge to talk to just about any woman I saw and have a conversation. After all, many guys my age at the time were having no problems getting dates and casual sex.

So sometime around the third month and over 50 rejections within a short amount of time (the most common reason given was that I was too short for them), I was wondering where I was going wrong. Then I realized that perhaps I'm just very low value and there's not much I can do to change that. Once I made that realization, I saw that porn was in fact a mercy, as it was the only way I could get any kind of sexual release. I'm 22 now and I haven't made any attempt at quitting porn again, knowing how important this soma is to numbing the pain of lacking intimate relationships.

I really believe that most men that women are seeing do not have porn problems. They are valuable enough that they can occasionally have date or casual sex, so to them porn has no meaning. By filtering out low value men, you are automatically filtering out porn addicts, because only low value men have to resort to it as a coping mechanism.