I know a couple who have been married for 10 years and have a young child. from all outward appearances, they were very happy, and the husband is a stand-up guy who helps around the house, with the child, etc. They have a nice social life and do many things together. They were an "example" of good marriage to the rest of us

then I found out the wife cheated on him with one of their guy friends--numerous times over a period of months

so it got me thinking about other friends, and how their marriages have gone. One guy I know cheated on his wife, but I'm pretty sure she cheated first, and ultimately divorce-raped him. 4-5 other couples I know experienced female infidelity: some of it was pretty bad too, like blowing a guy at a hiking trip while the husband was 100 meters away, or going off with a dude a party. Several marriages have ended with the guy getting shafted by the legal system.

Now mind you, these are people from all walks of life and social classes, not simply one group. Only commonality is that they are all white. The whole thing is incredibly depressing and black-pilling. Of all my friends, at least 50% have been cheated on by their wives--and those are the ones I know about! (I have a lot of friends).

According to mate-switching hypothesis, women simply cannot be faithful over the long-term, because they are always seeking a "plan B" or replacement. This is in-part biological/evolutionary. It doesn't matter how good looking, attentive, or loving the husband is.

I am wondering if others here have seen similar things in their lives