There are a lot of faggots on here that hamster about their BPD, NPD, depressed, anxious, bipolar, schizophrenic, etc wife. I know I’ve done it… a lot.

But…

She’s Probably Not Fucking Nuts

Very likely your wife is not nuts. There may be crazy things she does but that does not make her crazy. I used to think my wife had BPD or NPD… until about two months ago. I was told by lots of people – my family, some of her family, her ex-friends, my friends, hell my therapist, WebMd, etc. that she was.

I believe all women are capable of crazy things if not constrained by something. The more feminine the woman, the crazier the emotions – both good and bad. And you want this – you want a woman who is emotional and feminine, but you must be strong enough to handle these storms.

Because…

The Problem is You

You know what the problem was the whole fucking time? Me. I was the crazy one, for a long time. What a fucking faggot I was – at one point she had to barricade herself in our bedroom and I got a stick to try and knock to the side the chair that was blocking the door. Then I found MRP and went crazy Rambo and fucked up with overt dread and leaving a path of destruction behind. Then I refused to accept the nature of the feminine with emotion and tried to command her out of her moods (literally: “You stop being mad now”). Autistic as fuck.

If you think she’s a nutcase, first look in the mirror. Do you do crazy shit? Do you not understand that she’s going to live in constant emotion? You can guide that emotion, but you cannot command it.

My wife told me once “I’m a strong woman and need a strong man who can handle me” and she’s fucking right.

98% of the Time You’re the Problem, but even if she really has a mental issue…

We Don’t Fucking Care

So you have a diagnosis… what does this change for you and your MAP (you better have one)? Absolutely fucking nothing. Look at this series by /u/HornsOfApathy for proof.

All you’re doing when you write/think/say “my wife is nuts because of X” is making an excuse for not having the relationship you want. You’re saying “see guys, I’m fine, I’m high value. It’s my wife though, she’s crazy so it’s HER fault that I fail/can’t set boundaries/have no social life/go Rambo/cheated/can’t get divorced/am getting divorced/fucked the babysitter”.

It’s NEVER her fault, it’s ALWAYS yours.

YOU fail at setting boundaries.

YOU fail at being the oak

YOU fail because you’re the crazy one and project it on your wife

YOU fail because you’re a faggot

YOU fail because you didn’t vet properly

YOU fail because you didn’t eject sooner

YOU fail because you’re scared of her

At the end of the day, are you attractive? Are you high value? Are you owning your shit? Are you willing to burn everything to the ground to get what you want? Are you truly DNGAF?

If you can’t answer a definitive “yes” to all of these, then keep grinding, and don’t do stupid shit. It doesn’t matter if she’s crazy or not.

Caveat: Of course if she does something REALLY INSANE – pulls a gun/knife/tries to kill you, etc. then you need to call the fucking cops and exit immediately even if you’re a fat faggot who can’t lift the bar.

Next Time

Next time you think your wife is crazy – look inward at your actions.

Start owning your shit here and stop blaming your "crazy" wife. I've gone from 1-3 "crazy" things a week to 0... because I changed MY behavior. It's not what she's doing, it's what YOU'RE doing.