What do you do with girls other than have sex.

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December 12, 2019

I really have no idea how to take them on dates and stuff.

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Title What do you do with girls other than have sex.
Author JMIE7
Upvotes 92
Comments 69
Date 12 December 2019 12:29 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/298873
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[–]Patches0wholahan209 points210 points  (5 children) | Copy

Make plans for yourself, something that you want to do and are going to do. Invite her to join you.

[–]jackandjill2221 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea, this is typical.

[–]TheRedPillRipper11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Conversely you could find/socialise with others who share common interests. For example my current and I both enjoy art. She used to model and I enjoy sketching/painting. We both take each other out to different experiences/exhibitions. Broadens horizons, builds and also maintains that particular commonality.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–]JMIE7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks great answer. Im gonna think of something

[–]kankouillotte2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I want to play assassin's creed something something.

[–]Patches0wholahan13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Go for it. Makes more available women for the rest of us.

[–][deleted]  (6 children) | Copy


[–]DownyGall22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

100%. When I shoot pool with the lads, I look like a jackass. With a lady, I'm good.

[–]PhaedrusHunt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol. I'm pretty good but my dad was a legit hustler, pro level back in the 60s and 70s. My wife thinks she's good. She's not. I've never met a woman that was more than just above average in pool lol

[–]Domebeers2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

And they all like to tell you how great they are. Use this to your advantage. I make sexy bets with the girl.

[–]OfficerWade1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

This guy sex

[–]sniper19051 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What did he say? He deleted his comment.

[–]ceilingsky9564 points65 points  (0 children) | Copy

Think of it this way. What do you do for fun that you're good at? Invite her. Shine. When you have fun and are confident they have no choice but to soak up the "energy".

[–]ApdoSenpai48 points49 points  (2 children) | Copy

Bring her along to an event or place you were going to go too. Have her involved in your life, she’ll love it.

Although, I try not to do this too often as it builds a lot of comfort. Meeting up to hang out and just have sex is ideal.

[–]sebastianconcept1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have you done this without escalating her from plate to girlfriend?

[–]YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Man this seems so radical to me lmao

[–]phisch1320 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do whatever sounds fun. I like getting food (no fancy dinners for a first date ever though), I like getting drinks, I like playing games like top golf and shit like that.

Literally just do whatever you want to do.

[–]ThinSpiritual23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy


You're doing something for YOURSELF because YOU enjoy it.

Don't worry about taking her on a date to please her, that's validation seeking behavior. If you do that and didn't get what you want (ie. no close/LMR/etc) you'll feel sour.

When I set up meetings with new girls or want to hang out with an existing fwb, I pick something that I enjoy doing -- "Hey, let's go eat some smoked bbq ribs, I've been craving them" or "I'm going to this bar at XXX time to watch a UFC fight, come join me I'll buy u some beer."

Don't worry about her interest conflicting with yours, when you embody all the positive vibe and happiness that you want/need, your dates will vibe it with ya.

[–]MasculineRP10 points11 points  (4 children) | Copy

Drinks usually. I'd do bowling or go to the arcade, anything that can involve touching is good imo. Coffee too

[–]dadfrombrad6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do whatever the fuck you want and she’ll join you

[–]ghosts_of_me6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Perform your hobbies with them to see if they excell.

[–]andrew_little134 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m taking a plate that’s leaving for a while on an “active” date tomorrow night. Do not go eat and talk. Let her do this with her girlfriends or betas. Do stuff that guys like to do. Rock climbing, top golf, tennis... I’m taking my plate bowling tomorrow night.

They have to earn this with good behavior though. Not something you do often if they are plate status.

[–]redpill_scientist927 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why I’m getting a supermoto and getting good at riding it

[–]Spaghetti17766 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Shit on her chest

[–]JMIE7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah haven’t tried that yet.

[–]OfficerWade4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thats really between you and the other person, her nature and the chemistry... i mean if you dont feel like doing anything with her, dont do anything with her. Keep it THAT simple.

[–]deathhandmachiavelli5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I see some people who portray women as "only good for sex."

There is nothing that is further from the truth.

A great female companion can do EVERYTHING with you.

This is what I do with my girl, we go hiking, we go camping, we go to concerts, I like boxing, so she goes with me to boxing matches. I play sports so we'll go play sports together. She gets into what ever I am into. We go to a lot of gatherings and parties, we go out to eat, we go to events. I get involved in her interests too. Her sisters are models so we go to modeling shows. Its even fun shopping with her and seeing her try on different outfits and looking hot. Basically, EVERYTHING.

A lot of life's best moments take place with a woman on your side. Anyone who says that women don't have any interests, can't engage in conversations, or anything of the sort, is doing something wrong.

[–]unamedasha0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I would like camping/hiking with a girl but I feel sex in a tent after a sweaty hike would be terrible. Do you just do day hikes or car camping?

[–]TheDero2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

The best thing to do my man, is to do something you actually would find fun. Too many guys out here trying to plan the perfect date for whatever reason ( don't want to fuck it up, don't want to look like a loser, foolproof plan leading up to the kiss, etc). If you like hiking and sitting by a creek listening to music on a portable speaker, do that shit. It will end up with a way more organic and relaxed experience.

[–]ApexAna0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

What if i mostly find solo activities fun?

[–]AldoTheeApache2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Then simply invite her to watch PornHub with you!

[–]silent_dominant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]TheDero0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What would you consider a "solo activity". Besides jerking off

[–]VigilantSmartbomb4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

See if they have friends who wanna have sex lol

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Lolol ur an absolute madlad! Hahhah rofl XD

[–]404ThotNotFound3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ah, it's skinny peen again!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wha-gwan bro

[–]I_LOVE_CHIPS1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My go to is bar trivia. It gives you the option to go with just her. Or go with my group of friends and invite her along. If you're an introvert or dealing with one, it's the easiest way to get someone to open up.

[–]flyinghorse11 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I love going for hiking and you'd be surprised at the number of women down for this.

In the winter its nice to cozy up with a film.

[–]silent_dominant2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

90% of the tinder girls in my area have hiking pictures.

[–]starlytbeam2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

LMAO is this a real question?

[–]Naveos1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My wife is my best friend, so... We do what best friends do. Just hang out doing whatever.

[–]ShoesDoctor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I didn't think there was anything else to do.?.

[–]IcyBear70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Send memes, shoot the shit. As long as u r truly in different to what she thinks of u while she finds u attractive it dont really matter

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Taking girls on dates is easy: it's like taking a kid to the park.... you do EVERYTHING, she tags along and if you're lucky she contributes financially.

In short, dating sucks.

Better to think in terms of doing fun things together (if she contributes ideas)....... alternatively think of it as dragging her along to something you want to do anyway.

[–]legend5030 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go to dinners with live music.

Watch a movie at home.



Road trips.

Depends on my relationship with the girl. I like doing stuff with people I like.

[–]hoopingblob0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I like to picnic and when I get the chance to I grab a girl with me. You can escalate pretty good while picnicking but don't turn it into a romantic picnic.

Romantic picnics are...meh. Mediocre at best.

[–]OfficerWade0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well, since I joined jui jitsu I naturally watch a lot of UFC and Houston has a show coming up. I was thinking of bringing a date with me by telling her to come with me. I never plan on asking a girl out, I think that gives a women(not any in particular) the power to choose. I’m simply going to tell her I got ya ticket to see Derrick Lewis in February. And that’s all you do.

[–]silent_dominant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


I've been practicing jiu jitsu for 10 years and haven't watched a single UFC event...

[–]teeekuuu0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Have oral sex

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[–]shark30k5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I would prefer not to have have them as friends.

[–]thiikn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't understand this.. I mean, we know dudes are more trustworthy and shit, but there's this girl I keep as a friend (she likes me, but I don't give her any chance) as she invites me to the craziest parties, thus introducing me to a bunch of new people.

Also, I always chat the same hotties everyday at the gym, is this "friendship"? Lol. I'm not interested in them right now, as I'm on a LTR, but I find that talking to attractive girls keeps my abundance mentality alive.

Any tips for me or is it all ok?

[–]genital-love-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

make fun of em, girls are fun lil toys

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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