What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?

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December 12, 2019
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How do you guys usually handle girls who suck at sex? Ones that can't kiss properly or won't give blowjobs or give bad blowjobs or are unenthusiastic or lie like a starfish or she is focused on her pleasure only etc etc...

What do you do with such ladies? Do you teach them the ways? Do you communicate verbally with them? Give them an ultimatum? Tell her she's bad? Act like its no big deal? Pump and dump? Would like to know how you guys deal with this

Because I hate investing in a single pump and dump. Not worth the time or the efforts. But at the same time I do not want to plate a girl who is bad at sex. How do you guys deal with this?


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Title What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?
Author BareMinimumReddit
Upvotes 58
Comments 78
Date 12 December 2019 03:55 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Patches0wholahan103 points104 points  (32 children) | Copy

Depends on the girl.

If she isn’t experienced and doesn’t know what to do, maybe coach her. Tell her what she’s doing right, and to do it more.

If you’ve just met, maybe she hasn’t come out of her shell yet and is afraid you’ll judge her if she starts licking your balls with your dick down her throat.

If she’s a wild party girl and she’s not trying, maybe it’s not her that sucks in bed.

[–]BareMinimumReddit[S] 14 points15 points  (31 children) | Copy

If she isn’t experienced and doesn’t know what to do, maybe coach her. Tell her what she’s doing right, and to do it more.

I experienced two instances of this. Both of them were inexperienced. More than 'a doesn't know what to do', it was a case of 'does not want to do'. Maybe my SMV was low, maybe it was them being feminized, maybe it was them being inexperienced, I dont know the cause was but both were bad in bed, reluctant to give a blowjob at first and when they did give head, it was below par. Meanwhile my other plate, better looking than both these two and far more experienced is a champ in bed and is very submissive to my coaching and I would love to coach the other two as well but it seems they don't want to do it at all or do it very reluctantly. What do I do in such a situation?

[–]Patches0wholahan31 points32 points  (26 children) | Copy

If a girl isn’t into the same things as me, I don’t hook up with her anymore. Personally, I like blow jobs. If she doesn’t like giving them, the way I like them, then We aren’t compatible in bed.

Be polite and find a new girl.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler29 points30 points  (23 children) | Copy

There are plenty of ways to get a girl into what you're into.

Ever notice how the girls who love sucking dick think they're the best at it? It's because guys reinforce the fact that they're good so they do it more.

That's how I got an Asian international student to always swallow for me. The first time we banged she spat out my load in the sink and said she didn't like jizz in her mouth. Obviously that displeased me so the next time I got her to swallow while she was incredibly horny.

I said something along the lines of, "Wow you did amazing", and from that moment on she would beg me to visit her after my workouts so I could eat her traditional curry while she swallowed my loads.

The curry was absolutely spot on.

[–]Patches0wholahan20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she’s making good curry, it’s spit or swallow and I don’t care which.

[–]WalicKonia5 points6 points  (19 children) | Copy

Hard to be positive when you're dick is raw red and feels like its going through a cheese grater. I'm with a girl like this now and she won't suck me "cause I never cum".

[–]EvelynnSpoiler7 points8 points  (17 children) | Copy

Mate look on the bright side. My testosterone dropped so low that I lost all interest in sex and couldn't get even the slightest erection. Did nofap for 3 months and after that my sex drive vanished.

[–]WhatRemainsAfter4 points5 points  (16 children) | Copy

Vanished! For real?

[–]EvelynnSpoiler4 points5 points  (15 children) | Copy

There were a multitude of causes for it. One was that I screwed up my hormones a few years back with steroids. Another was that I was eating 100g of cashew nuts a day to make up for calories I simply couldn't fit in any other way. I thought I'd be getting a T boost from the high amount of Fats but it turns out Polyunsaturated Fats actually lower your Testosterone, hence why Vegans look puny. When I broke the 3 months of no-fap I was fucking shocked at how I nutted nothing more than a tear-drop.

I think no-fap still has potential for higher T levels, however I wouldn't advise going more than 2 weeks without nutting.

Funny thing is that I somehow managed to still hit the 1,000lb club despite having the T levels of a 75 year old.

[–]WhatRemainsAfter2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sucks. I generally keep on no-fap. It doesn't happens that way for me. I find my cum increases 2X nd orgasm feels 10X better. But to each his own.

Anyway, Have ashvangadha. It is a plant. Helps nourish the body with T in organic way.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can't say it was because of no-fap because of the other factors. All I know is that T levels peak 7 days in.

I'm on Ashwaghanda right now but you should cycle off it because it alters a dopamine pathway.

[–]NumerousImprovements0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Curious, which fats are meant to help with T? I’ll avoid polyunsaturated.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

All of them apart from trans fats and polyunsaturated fats

[–]smartfunction300 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

getting a T boost from the high amount of Fats but it turns out Polyunsaturated Fats actually lower your Testosterone

what?

[–]askmrcia1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

A girl I'm with currently used too much teeth. At first I let it slide with occasionally mentioning that she's using too much teeth. But the next few times it wasn't getting better. So I just stopped her, told her I wanted it and showed her where to put her hand and where to lick. It was awkward at first explaining it, but whatever.

Never had an issue after that

[–]smartfunction300 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What did you to get her to swallow while she was incredibly horny? It's not like they swallow when they're horny

[–]EvelynnSpoiler0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was very dominant with her. Most girls don't want to be submissive to a beta male which in-turn is the reason women look elsewhere. A submissive woman is a good woman.

[–]BareMinimumReddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Perfect. Thank you.

[–]smartfunction300 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Might you tell them this is the reason?

[–]Hamster_S_Thompson6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Two girls didn't want to blow you? Maybe I'm just dating hoes, but it literally never happens to me.

Any chance you have stink dick?

[–]HoedownInBrownTown1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Feminized"? They WERE girls weren't they?

[–]halkilmer951 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

🤣🤣 I thought the same thing at first, but I think he meant "Feminist-ized"... that's r really awkward... what would be a better way to phrase that? 🤣

[–]thrwy75479-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would love to coach the other two as well but it seems they don't want to do it at all or do it very reluctantly. What do I do in such a situation?

They may need professional therapy. If they don't even want to learn, let them go before you end up in jail.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper70 points71 points  (1 child) | Copy

If they lack skill, teach them. If they lack effort, next them.

[–]bradtwo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You said this best.

[–]Manny140033 points34 points  (5 children) | Copy

I had a very depressing experience in my 20s.

I somehow hit above my weight and landed an absolute beauty: girl wasn't hot--she was downright gorgeous, with a perfect little body, ice-blue eyes, raven hair, perfect skin and teeth. Easily a 9 if not a 10.

After a few dates I got her into bed, only to discover she was clueless in the sack. I figured that it was the first time for us, and it would get better. It didn't. She was unimaginative, wouldn't get into many positions (like a 69), and was low-energy. Didn't cum.

She later cheated on me with an ex, so who knows what was going on in her mind. I don't have a 9 inch tool and a 6 pack, but I always did pretty well in the sack, and my girls were more than happy. That chick? What a bore.

My advice is this: don't turn it into some big project where you take baby steps. Turn it up a notch by talking dirty to her, moving her into new positions, telling her what you want (and what you are going to do for her), etc. --and if she is reluctant, clueless, or hold back, next her.

[–]BareMinimumReddit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Noted. Thank you for sharing

[–]abomba247 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

This - no matter the looks the bedroom game is a whole other thing. If things don't improve quickly I've learned it's just best for both parties to move on

[–]askmrcia3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I had a very very very similar experience like this a couple of years ago. Beauty red head and it took every ounce of game to get her into bed. Like three dates over month and a half (schedules didn't line up the best).

The first time she had a lot of LMR. At first I thought she was playing hard to get, but she didn't say no and kept stroking me off and giving me head. But it was kind of getting annoying until we finally went all the way after she said "get inside me" and it was terrible. At first I thought it was a first time with us kind of thing so I let it slide.

Met up a couple of weeks later, she was crazy flirty throughout our date with her touching me a lot. Get home to my place she's giving me a handy for like 10mins as I kept trying to escalate more. She kept resisting saying things like "its too soon, we shouldn't because my sister will get mad (I was friends with her gay sister first), I haven't done this in almost a year" and other weird shit.

Then eventually I was damn near losing my erection because she kept saying weird shit like above. She had to stroke me off some more to maintain my erection, she gets on top and it was terrible again. Like she didn't know how to ride me so I flip her over and it wasn't getting better. Tried to get her to do doggy and she didn't want to so I had enough. She did spend the night, but yea as good looking as she was it was bad.

Never knew what truly happened. Maybe she missed her ex who cheated on her (prob had a good reason) or she had thoughts going through her mind because she got sucked into a MLM scheme or she just sucked at sex.

[–]Manny14003 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

and a redhead too!!! Talk about false advertising!

I've only been with a couple redheads, and they were both absolute demons in bed. One wanted to do things not even a pervert like me wanted to do! lol

[–]askmrcia3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea very disappointed. She was raised catholic and lived with her parents until she was 26. But even then she had her grandmother's old house and lived five mins away from her parents.

She wasn't the red head I was hoping for.

[–]Don_Draper2714 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

I met this girl from Bumble once and she was pretty okay to hang out with. I didn't have too many options at the time and I had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship so I valued the experience (and company) of gaming this chick.

The first night we met I fingered her in the back seat of my car. I didn't have a condom and my windows weren't tinted (we were in a public parking lot) so I didn't escalate further.

Another night we met up and she brought a friend and I invited my friend and we had a cool night out watching some live music and went to eat afterwards. (Again, at the time I didn't have any plates or many friends so being out was very rewarding for me).

One time though we did meet up and there were a ton of red flags. We drove up to a private spot in the canyons and were making out in the back seat. I was trying to escalate to sex but she was giving me LMR saying things like she's been in abusive relationships and that she's "not trying to do that anymore" so eventually I just got out the car to smoke a cigarette. She was asking me if I was mad but I didn't really care much as at this point I was spinning 2 other plates and again, I kinda just liked being out of the house.

We went to grab a drink after and after a few minutes she started crying. Saying that her dad passed away years ago and that she was sorry she was crying.

I should've ghosted here due to the obvious red flags and I was definitely pretty turned off her by her but a few weeks later she was hitting me up and I thought this was an easy enough opportunity to add a notch to the n-count and even if she gave LMR again I would hard next. I told her to come over which she did.

I didn't get any LMR this time but holy molly if this was not the worst sexual encounter I've ever had. To start off, she was really loose. The loosest I've ever been with. It was pretty hard for me to "feel" pleasure as there wasn't much grip during penetration. To top this off, she was the most starfish, boring, unenthusiastic, partner I've ever been with. I felt like her whole mentality during the encounter was, "yea yea, I know the drill." Almost as mundane as brushing your teeth. After like 3 different sex positions trying to get something out of it I got her off me without even coming close to cumming. I think I just said something like, "Let's just lay down for a bit." After a few minutes I told her that she should get going and that was the last time I saw her. Didn't talk much after that.

I don't think she was "bad" at sex but maybe she had gone through some extreme sexual experiences like DP, fisting, or maybe just being with a larger more aggressive size. And I'm not trying to hamster that I don't have a tiny dick. It's not porn-sized but I'm 6'3, 220 lbs so it's at least average (right!?)

Anyways, I got a few valuable lessons out of this:

  1. You're not going to be 100% compatible with every partner you have and that's okay. Sex is a connection and your energies should align in order to have a really wonderful experience. Don't blame the girl for being inexperienced or overly experienced. It is what it is and your goal should be to find plates that are easily compatible for you.
  2. As much as I genuinely did enjoy going out with this chick, it's important to try and f-close on the first or second date. A relationship with a bad sexual connection is junk. It'll never work. The better the sex, the better the attraction which unfolds a fruitful FWB relationship.
  3. If a girl brings up a toxic sexual past, has daddy issues, or is crying in front of you in the bar area of a bowling alley, you should run. Do not get this confused with natural LMR. Natural LMR is her saying things like, "We're moving too fast! We just met." or "I don't want you to think I'm easy." or saying she's on her period. Basically if she says anything that revolves around her seeming like a slut is a shit test. If she tells you toxic personal shit from her past it is a blood red flag and you should absolutely not interact with her any longer.

[–]Anotheridiotjeez1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn.. that sounded horrible

[–]silent_dominant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Big vagina syndrome sucks. You can tell them to do kegels, but still..

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

So one of my uni girlfriends had tried to give her first bf head (I was her second lover). Ofc, she was shit at it, like many first timers. He reacted to this by telling her she was terrible at it, which basically meant that was the first and last bj he ever got from her.

Unsurprisingly, she had developed something of a complex over this and was convinced that she would always be terrible at giving head.

Enter your Uncle Vasya, who was not so old and wise as he is now, but was certainly smart enough to know that, with some patience and encouragement, he would soon be enjoying to Grade A head.

And within a month's time or so, that's exactly what happened. She blossomed like a flower. I was soon getting road head, head in elevators, head "just because" head. A few times she turned up at my work to deliver some "I haven't sucked your cock today" head.

Yeah, so total win. You have to figure out who you're dealing with, and decide from there.

[–]okuli3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe they are just shy or something. I like to engage girls, tell them what to do, for example if she's starfishing on her back - tell her to bent her legs and hold knees to her chin. Ask if she likes that dick in her pussy. Most girls would be receptive and like to be led in bed.

I've seen a girl who insisted on sex under blanket with lights off initially, but after some time she would enjoy spanking, choking and rough sex during daylight.

If they show resistance or roll their eyes - then you know the answer, she is not into you.

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[–]Popeman7910 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Mostly true.

But there are girls who think they're hot enough that they shouldn't be bothered to suck their guy or make any effort. They've been adored their own life without having to lift a finger. Even some low smv girls are like that.

[–]menial_optimist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Starve an attention-whore of attention (while making sure your SMV is high) will have her eating out of your hands in no time.

[–]30dirtyfingers3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

nope, not my job.

As a guy, during sex, im doing 80% of the work. I have my orders. I know I need to bring a gun to a duel, i dont show up with no bullets (might be a terrible analogy, but whatever). Im not opposed to it, but its not my job. Its her job to keep you wanting sex and if shes bad at it, then she better be willing to put in extra practice to get good. Not my job to teach her a damn thing. Its her job to be good at it if she wants to keep me around. Too may girls out here for that.

[–]rememberthename_13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

" No girl is bad in the bedroom" - actually this is totally wrong.

There are women out there who have just a low libido and sex drive overall and for them sex is just something to get over with before proceeding to other tasks again.

They would rather prefer to cuddle and to watch movies than to even have sex. And of course, opposing to that, there are women who are so horny that they wake you up in the middle of a night with a blowjob.

You see the distinction I am trying to make? Even though 'bad' might be the wrong expression, there are a lot of women out there who are just plain boring in bed. If they like you they will most likely adapt to some extend but even then those kind of women will just play a role to satisfy you in order to stay with them. And well, for me thats a huge turn off as well.

[–]WhatRemainsAfter6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah. Everyone has a different libido and one should be respectful of this fact. Else it causes lot of unhappiness.

It always better to find people of similar drive.

[–]throwawaybpdnpd2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just show her what you want her to do.... don’t wait for her to lead, that’s YOUR job

[–]muricanwerewolf16 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

If she’s low energy or a “I don’t do that” girl, next. Life’s too short to tolerate someone who doesn’t care enough to try. If she’s enthusiastic but just bad, well that’s worth trying to coach along. Enthusiasm really is invaluable.

[–]BareMinimumReddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good point. Another thing that is coming to my mind as I go through all the replies is to account for how good or bad she is overall. If she's bad at everything, next. If she's fairly decent at most thing and has a good attitude but is bad at a thing or two, coach her.

[–]GeuseyBetel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

fuck em den dismiss em

[–]Cheeseydick69691 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

MUSIC!!

I agree with what op is saying. Some girls attack my dick with their throat and others just lay there. When I'm with a starfish I lead and take charge and they follow my command and get soaked but the enthusiasm on there part isn't there, could be that they're not into it or a lot of the time it's just insecurity, I recommend blasting fuck music. If they're still just existing in the moment and not experiencing the moment than it's a next from me.

[–]30dirtyfingers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i never thought of it that way. I guess the music can kinda immerse them in the moment if they arent already.

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If it's that bad, find other women. If they experience is still good overall, keep them.

[–]bradtwo1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Communication is always key for anyone to get what they need out of an intimate relationship.

Tell her (in the moment) what you want her to do for you or to you and how you want that to happen.

If she judges you or refuses, then you two aren't meant to be. Staying in a relationship like that will forever be disappointing.

But if she accepts and it and goes with it, you'll find someone who knows exactly what you want.

Not to be one sided, but also open up the communication on what SHE wants. As you know, not all females are the the same or want the same thing. Here is your opportunity to be a "fucking stud" for her, someone she won't shut up about when you're not around. Find her thing and give that to her.

Ask her: "what do you like?" or "What turns you on?" ... be honest and direct and non-judgmental. As her revealing a kink or fetish or just something she's into might be a bit of a risk from her part as she doesn't want to scare you away.

Again, it is very simple... Communication.

[–]30dirtyfingers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

not so simple with inexperienced girls. They cant tell you what they want to eat most of the time, telling you what they want in bed is like chopping wood with your forehead....TRUST ME. You kinda have to give them what you want to give them and gauge their response. Dont ask for permission, ask for forgiveness (maaaaybe) My LTR didnt know she liked her hair pulled until i did it. She mentioned the fact that I pulled her hair (didnt say not to do it, although I was prepared to apologize). Wasnt sure what that meant as she sucks at communication (didnt discover this until recently) so I just kept doing my research about it and did it again. Positive response this time. Been doing it ever since.

[–]BusyHearing3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is a modern conundrum that is here to stay. Inexperienced, low n count women make for much better LTR's for incredibly obvious and irrefutable reasons— but they also carry the byproducts of being inexperienced. Ie, they wont be chugging your dick any time soon, if ever.

[–]30dirtyfingers3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

thats not exactly true. They will. Alot of them are dying to find the "right" guy to do it for (of course, the right guy is the guy who MAKES her WANT to get on her knees). But they know they dont know what they are doing. They are gonna need alot of encouragement and patience on your part, IF you think its worth the trouble (I posted above about it not being your obligation.....plenty of people are bad at sex, WOMEN INCLUDED).

Of course, keep in mind that as she gets better, her ego will go up as well and then you will have to deal with sharper shit tests as a result of her new found ego.....the same one that got her sucking dick so much better. Just gotta find the balance.

[–]Hunter2isit3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

I say the following

I am going to use your body to make me cum

I then proceed to lube up a few fingers and work open her asshole.

Don't worry, you're doing great

A little encouragement for what is about to happen.

I then proceed to jackhammer her asshole, telling the girl to fuck me with her ass, make me cum.

I get mine.

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[–]Pelikahn5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

I never understood the allure of anal, fucked a few chicks asses to see what the big deal was. I was unimpressed every time, and often disgusted.

[–]30dirtyfingers1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

same here, dont really see the appeal.

That being said, I do anal to give the girl the feeling that she belongs to me when we are fucking. No part of her is off limits to me. Ass included. Its more of a mental and psychological fuck than a physical one.

[–]Pelikahn0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don’t want shit on my dick

[–]30dirtyfingers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. Thats y i ONLY do it IMMEDIATELY after we showered.

But i heard a story from a friend where that didnt make a difference. His dick smelled like shit for days he said.

[–]BusterVadge1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get them to buy me a bunch of stuff, string them along, use them for validation, and keep them thinking that I may be just within reach of them.....

Wait, no... That's what women do to beta men.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How do you guys usually handle girls who suck at sex?

Girl has low value to you, treat accordingly.

Do you teach them the ways?

If willing to learn. Or find better.

Do you communicate verbally with them?

only by giving orders

Give them an ultimatum? Tell her she's bad?

no no no. Doesn't work.

Because I hate investing in a single pump and dump. Not worth the time or the efforts. But at the same time I do not want to plate a girl who is bad at sex. How do you guys deal with this?

Expect to filter a lot of women out on the basis that they offer you little value.

[–]NolanKnowstheTruth1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dont underestimate the evils of the woman, some will lie there and act terrible just so you fuck them harder, and what's the worst thing that happens for them? You fuck them like an allstar tonight and they fuck someone else tomorrow night.

I honestly think that normal sex isn't what they are after anymore. I think they want to be choked out while you stuff a magnum dildo in their pussy all while you raw dog their ass...then again maybe I'm just a pessimist.

[–]Dimenzije90-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Youre not wrong, it just depends on an experience of the girl. If shes inexperienced youre not gonna get a wild pornstart for at least some time. Also depends on what country you are in. Some stuff you guys do in US(eating ass, bdsm..) arent so popular in for example east Europe.

[–]Lateralanouncer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Everything is about sex apart from sex. What is important is the desire the woman has for you. The more she wants you the better the sex. Some woman naturally don’t have much sexual desire, some older woman 30* are over being pump and dumped and cock is no longer exciting so they need more time to build up (1 cock per week and she is satisfied but not horny) The solution is time management. same goes for woman with loose pussys, or woman that are not into morning sex (no sleep overs). Put them in your time slots accordingly. When I used to spin plates I would place such a woman on my less important days. for me it was tue Wed Thursday. Which will let me spend my prime time fri sat. Hanging with my mates. finding a replacement or fucking a better plates.

[–]strainer1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bang them hard until they scream, women are like a white canvas in the bedroom, men are the painters.

[–]TheBunk_TB0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If they are bad, why dont you tell them politely?

[–]2319Skew0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she's willing to take direction then I'll teach her what I like. If she just refuses then I tell her we aren't compatible and wish her well. Normally that causes things that weren't on the table to suddenly become an option but if not then whatever. She's not my problem. I'm also not exclusive so if I don't get X from one girl but she's really good at Y then I'll enjoy Y with her while I have X with someone else and if I find a woman that can do both then she's off my rotation.

[–]mrrooftops0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If the girl is REALLY into you, she'll make sure she's pretty damn good (as I'm sure you'll try to be too). Even if she's inexpereinceed, she'll want you to guide and lead. If she's settling, or not that bothered then there's your experience OP.

[–]rickit3k0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In my brutally honest opinion: If she's hot, I don't care. If she's ugly I wouldn't even take her to the bedroom anyway

[–]PhaedrusHunt-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Train them. Go binge watch about ten seasons of the Dog Whisperer. Same concept

[–]LackToesToddlerAnts-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Up to you and how much you value the girl.

If the girls checks off the boxes you value and you think you see potential; you can invest time and mold her. Be wary of how much you invest and don't fall into the sunk cost fallacy. If after a certain point she doesn't try to get better you should drop her.

If you don't care much you could always just use her for pumping. Flip her over and do your thing and save your moves for other girls and have her as backup.

[–]cluelessguitarist-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

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[–]Shawnrivera21-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Man, never settle for less. Ever. If you've gotten better sex than with your current one, you're gonna feel depressed and deceived. Why do it yourself? If I were you, I wouldn't add her to my rotation of women to date. How's the chemistry between you and her? If it's not there then there's a highly good reason why the both of you are NOT compatible during sex. Chemistry is everything.

[–]ProFriendZoner-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Find another one.

Abundance.

[–]Domebeers-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she's a virgin you can put up with it

If she isn't a virgin you should next and find chicks who actually want to fuck you



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