Seriously, why are so many crazy women so good in bed?

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December 13, 2019
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Still relatively new to TRP but have had a startling success rate since I focused on maintaining frame, nofap/porn and holding myself to a higher purpose. Been spinning 3 plates, one met on Tinder and two through mutual friends and social functions. But there’s one more I don’t count because she was a friend of mine a while back. Well we’ve reestablished contact and it’s been...explosive. Will call her J.

The other girls are just your average thots. Nothing really interesting about them, their girls that once I’m finished I just want to leave ASAP and do something more productive. The sex is kinda vanilla with me doing most of the work, but with J, she is absolutely wild. And this seems to be a trend in my life that these emotionally unstable girls are the best fucks and have a sexual “spell” on me like a succubus.

With J, I would cancel all plans with other plates if she sent me a pic of her in lingerie. She gained weight that all went to the right places, shes into shit like being tied up or giving me 30 min lap dances. And when we’re having sex, it’s incredibly passionate and almost becomes a power struggle between us. Can’t say the same for the other boring plates. But J is also on meds, she’s been through traumas and sees a therapist weekly, she’s very unhinged

So just give it to me straight. They say don’t put your dick in crazy, but why is that a stereotype that crazy girls are the best fucks? Why is my dick so attracted to this girl and why is the level of intensity SO MUCH higher with her above other girls? Should I dip out as fast as possible or just roll with it for awhile and maintain a distance?

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Title Seriously, why are so many crazy women so good in bed?
Author jubilantjack57
Upvotes 161
Comments 111
Date 13 December 2019 02:57 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/299149
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ea4zup/seriously_why_are_so_many_crazy_women_so_good_in/
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[–]W_O_M_B_A_T154 points155 points  (2 children) | Copy

Remember these are women whose sense of shame, guilt, and boundaries are severely fucked up.

[–]thrwy7547994 points95 points  (0 children) | Copy

these are women whose sense of shame, guilt, and boundaries are severely fucked up

And that's exactly why they're so good in bed.

[–]RedVelocitiy33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

You hit the traits right on the head

[–]Cheeseydick6969111 points112 points  (6 children) | Copy

19 y/o with pink hair always grab my attention. Ya they might burn your house down and fuck your Dad. But damn that pussy is good

[–]TFWnoLTR43 points44 points  (3 children) | Copy

Nothing wrong with dad getting some too.

[–]4Sammich14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

As a dad. I agree.

[–]RoccoPinkman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol

[–]Cheeseydick696911 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao

[–]fretty55537 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy

Username checks out

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten188 points189 points  (58 children) | Copy

Fucking crazy is for the advanced men, but candidly you should ride it out because you'll learn a lot about the sex you want and how to finagle girl crazy.

That said, there are a million reasons why she could be crazy. Can't tell you without meeting her. So let's re frame the question. What I CAN tell you is that someone else trained her to fuck like this.

That last sentence is important. Women don't learn to fuck like this by themselves. Neither do men - BUT - men lead the interacting, so the real question you should ask yourself is "what can I learn and implement in my next plate/fwb/LTR from smashing the crazy?"

By focusing on that after this is over, you'll gain the ability to create your own slut. That power is INCREDIBLY beneficial to you later on when your relationships are less temporary.

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[–]FreeSamplesAtCostco64 points65 points  (4 children) | Copy

It’s like build a bear workshop but with more options

[–]ArnoldT100091 points92 points  (3 children) | Copy

Build a bitch

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm making this the title of my next post.

[–]zboo1h12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Outstanding.

[–]The_other_bj0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is a common phrase in my area. Mostly with surgery though as opposed to mindset but it originated from straight pimpery

[–]Diche_Bach15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

The pinnacle is: find ideal wife material who hasn't been "trained," and create your own perma-slut.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Build a ho

[–]volvostupidshit3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Build a ho project.

[–]UnPawsed34 points35 points  (14 children) | Copy

Can’t believe that this comment is so controversial. That create your own slut part might be funny, but it’s one of the realest things on here, despite being kind of unrealistic. Any girl worth being with longer than temporarily is good looking, and good looking girls have definitely been taking dick for a good while before you’ll ever have the chance to meet them.

[–]Diche_Bach6 points7 points  (11 children) | Copy

Unless you get 'em YOUNG. I've had at least two sweet virgin things. They DO exist!

But yeah: out of ~57 only two sweet virgin things.

[–]dzmisrb433 points4 points  (10 children) | Copy

At what age did you get them? Are you sure they are virgins? I would love to have virgin girl but it seems impossible to find. By 18 they sometimes had more sex than i will ever have lol. How did you even find one?

And what age were they?

[–]PhaedrusHunt3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

I think the time to fuck virgins is when you're pretty young. If it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't.

I had three and a couple more that were close. First was 19. Really shy girl. Still came on to me really strong and asked for it.

Second was 18-- That one was super nice. I was like 20 and it was the first time I gamed a girl. It was just advice I'd gotten from friends talking stuff out trying to figure out what it worked and all I did was I sat and told her all about herself until it made her wet, I just got right down to the bottom of the things who she was her desires and then I know she's got this dark side that she's trying to hide from everyone but she really just wants to get laid. She was really religious and it worked like a charm. Red hair green eyes giant tits big ass plump sex goddess total crumb bum. That pussy felt like a bowl of warm honey.

Then there's one that was a half lol. Teeny little Japanese chick, 19 or 20. Probably 90 pounds. Hymen fully intact. Wasn't working just hurt her too much. This is also when I was just a kid didn't really know about women yet so I felt like I was going to break her heart and I just broke up with her instead. Should have smashed.

Then there was a real virgin, she also was 19 or 20 she didn't know anything but I trained her real good dated her for about 6 months

Last one was sort of a half virgin lol. She had had sex with one guy and her friends group one time but when I hit it she bled lol so I got like half a sack for that one

So three real virgins plus two half virgins equals four in my reckoning lol

[–]dzmisrb431 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Are you also old school guy or did this happen recently?

[–]PhaedrusHunt0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Long time ago man. About 99-2000

[–]dzmisrb432 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I understand yeah times changed imo.

Btw I always wondered you ofc don't have to answer if you don't like the topic how does a guy like you who was always good with girls in youth feel about ageing?

Why I'm trying to say someone like me who never was a slayer (or pimp whatever you call it) doesn't even notice lol.

I couldn't get 18 year old girls when is was 18 nor can I in 20s so it's same to me.I never got such highs and I feel like when I missed out on that that I'm already old anyway. So additional ageing is somewhat similar to me.

How is it for guy like you?Is it strange? Do you still like prime girls or if you smahsed them in your youth you aren't interested as much or does it always stay the same?

Also how is your view of life? Does being slayer make you think less about death? I imagine because then you are too preoccupied with getting girls you don't even contplate such things that much?

I ask because I always wondered how would I turn out if I got hot virgins in my youth. I wonder if sorce of my depression and obsseson with comes from missing out on that?

I sometimes feel if I'm being totally honest now physical pain because I missed out on so much when people talk about their youth and sex life in youth.

And you are obovoulsy right person to ask those questions due to different life expirences. You obviously don't feel regret but how do you feel and view other questions about life?

[–]PhaedrusHunt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wow man a lot to unpack there let me see what I can do. I'll try to hit your points.

First of all I would say that your life is unique to yourself there's only one you and you have to be happy with that. what I mean is there's no other person on earth that I would trade places with but I actually really feel that because I've had an interesting life. There are people with more money there are people with higher n counts there are people that have been more places but I've had an extremely rich life and it continues to get richer. Dating and sleeping with beautiful women is just part of what makes life plentiful but we tend to take so much affirmation from that that we get hung up on it. Just make your cake and worry about the icing later.

I'm 41 and I feel pretty good about aging, other than my knees from years of BJJ. I'll also say that as someone who's done martial arts since 13 It's really helped me to keep my mind and body sharp and I'm still in great shape, definitely a better martial artist/ fighter then when I was 20, and I have a lot more social woryj so my SMV is higher now than ever. Rollo says it peeks at 37 but mine continues to rise-- A lot of it has to do with doing well in business and creating a social circle of other high SMV alphas that are also doing business, and having another circle of friends that are also fighters, BJJ competitors, etc. Guys that put themselves in situations like that to be tested also tend to do a lot better in business and with women and have higher levels of happiness and overall life satisfaction.

I've got to run now but I'll hit this back later.

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What positions do you train?

[–]Diche_Bach0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I was 18+ and they were 18 :)

[–]dzmisrb430 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You sure they were virgins when 18?

[–]Diche_Bach2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes, they were both DEFINITELY virgins. I cannot recall now (this was . . . sheeze . . . 53 years ago now . . .) but there may have been more than those two. Back in those days, there were MANY virgins even into their 20s ;)

It was an easier age for the "red pill male;" but that says a lot about TRP.

I don't agree with all of it (some of it does border on irrational misogyny), but the basics of it are basically: a return to what I'd simply term a "Normal Male as Adventurer" ethos which was absolutely the norm prior to the last decade or so.

[–]dzmisrb433 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I understand. You than that makes total sense.

Now good luck finding 18 year old virgin that isn't ugly and unnatractive. All really attractive girls I know something about fucked when they were 12-15 and had huge numbers afterwards. By 18 it might sound harsh but to me they are used up goods sexually.

[–]Ill_mumble_that1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not true. I banged a few virgins that were hot af, but I was also 17 at the time.

I was also in a whack ultra conservative Christian cult and the girls were super sneakily all freaks in bed because they weren't even allowed to masturbate as part of the religion. The things I did with those girls... other than really nasty scat or bloodplay there isn't much we didn't do. Of course I initiated all of it.

It helped I got beat up and tossed out by 3 crazy girls in a row from highschool that I had huge crushes on. Damn I got rejected hardcore, one was even a chubby girl that was only unconventionally attractive. I was sick of being a loser that got rejected. Got new clothes, hit the gym everyday, started being aggressive, and the girls I knew all started to part their legs.

[–]1leftyguitarist2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

happy hannukah

[–]RedJourney237 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Reply

"create your own slut'

You should make a seperate post on this.

[–]pizza_on_ranch1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, that would be really interesting. Heard about this before but never seen a theory post on this

[–]wtfdoiaskfor19 points10 points  (15 children) | Copy

create your own slut

Yes, did with ex. Went from no-orgasms starfish to full blown crazy, having 4-5 orgasms min. and 10+ if we took it seriously, for hours on end, inhaling popper, getting stoned, even popping some dick pills when it's been a whole week of non stop fucking...

I can't recommend /u/itiswr1tten's advice enough.

[–]Russian_Bot_7370 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Are their legit dick pills out there? Asking for a friend

[–]Ill_mumble_that5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Viagra offbrand and alternatives, yes. They make you hard and stay hard even after ejaculating, but they don't make you bigger.

[–]Russian_Bot_737-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

What about amount of emission when ejaculating? Size isn’t an issue.

[–]wtfdoiaskfor12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Take zinc, L-arginine and lecithin. This has been discussed many times, just Google "cum holy grail".

[–]Ill_mumble_that2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Supplements help a little, like 20% increase maybe if your lucky.

Biggest thing for large emissions is drinking shit tons of water and also long periods of stimulation prior to ejaculation. Edge all day and then fuck, you'll cum buckets. Problem is you might not last long.

[–]Deeze_Rmuh_Nudds0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

How’d you do it if you don’t mind me asking?

[–]wtfdoiaskfor15 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well, I started easy. She didn't like dirty talk, or doggy, or anything fun.

While fucking her, I'd just ask "do you like it?" and she'd answer "yes". Next time, I'd ask "do you like it?" (again), and when she answers yes, I'd ask "do you like it when I fuck you?".

Move on from that to "do you like feeling my dick inside of you?" and to "do you like it when I fuck your pussy?", etc.

Slowly build your way up - don't go straight and ask a starfish if she's your little slut because she's not gonna respond well.

The point is, slowly work your way up. Ask something that's OBVIOUSLY a "yes". A "no" will break your strategy completely.

The objective is to make her feel like YOUR slut (not A slut, but YOUR slut, and you need to be VERY careful with your wording - assert dominance and possession of her body and her).

Girls love feeling dirty, but are scared at first, much like a kid would be scared from some activity at an amusement park.

[–]RedJourney231 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gonna use this. It’s basic escalation ladder eh. After you ramp your way up more doors will be open

[–]alpha_bravado0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Are you cut or uncut?

[–]wtfdoiaskfor12 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

As in... dick? Uncut, my dick is untouched.

[–]alpha_bravado0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Good to know or she be chafed to bits...

[–]wtfdoiaskfor10 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I'm confused, can you elaborate?

[–]alpha_bravado-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cut would chafe the womans vag as no gliding mechanism.

[–]wtfdoiaskfor10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ah, gotcha.

[–]krunchtimer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women don't learn to fuck like this by themselves.

Great point.

[–]The_other_bj0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This was amazing I need more

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[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy

responding to the edit I'm encouraging him to go do it, just with eyes wide open. It's still true that bull riding is better done by bullriders than your average guy, but dudes will probably walk away with a sizeable bruise their first few rides.


Haha. Half our audience ends up here because they got steamrolled by crazy. It's not for the faint of heart

I would say I'm whatever level that makes me awesome

You seem like you have your shit together so keep your posts constructive, these replies don't add value

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[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

These bitches are sneaky! It's all good

[–]PimPedOutGeese8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha. Half our audience ends up here because they got steamrolled by crazy. It's not for the faint of heart

Got absolutely pummeled by her! “A” was bat shit crazy and an absolute whore in bed.

She delivered me to RP in a picnic basket that was hand signed.

[–]fannyfire6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy

He’s an endorsed contributor you ignorant dumbass.

How about you read the fucking sidebar.

[–]FitFinancier2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think he’s saying he edited his own comment mate

[–]BloodSurgery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He commented 3 minutes after the guy replied, so we can assume he replied before the edit happened.

[–]fannyfire2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

His comment was edited after he was called out by me and the EC.

[–]GonadGravy0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Appeal To Authority

[–]fannyfire-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s called respect.

[–]Herdsengineers32 points33 points  (2 children) | Copy

They're crazy in bed because they are craving your approval. The crazy sex is something they know guys want, so they do it to meet that want get the approval. It's a hallmark of daddy issues, past traumas, abandonments, etc.

At some point, whatever you're actions and behaviors are won't be enough to make her feel approved. They're needs always grow and escalate, it will get to a point you can't meet it because nobody can. When that happens, she'll turn the crazy claws on you as punishment for not being able to fill that empty space in her where her soul should be.

I speak from experience here, don't get too close to her. Always be ready and able to walk out. And if you decide you want to end things before her neediness gets bad, do it by being boring. Have boring sex with her, don't be exciting. Make the interactions boring. She'll end it herself at that point because the excitement and stimulation she confuses with approval will be gone and she'll go looking for it somewhere else. If you dump her more outright, she'll get hit in her abandonment fears, and that's when she'll be stalking, keying cars, boiling bunnies, trash talking and making accusations, etc.

[–]poortrait1006 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Underrated comment. Excellent exit strategy.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler58 points59 points  (14 children) | Copy

To please the masculine figure they likely never had while growing up

[–]FatGirlsInPartyHats49 points50 points  (9 children) | Copy

This is incredibly accurate. If you want to know how crazy she is AND how good she is in bed just ask about her dad. If she explodes and calls him a piece of shit she's both incredibly fucked up and likely to do anal in a taco bell bathroom.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler15 points16 points  (6 children) | Copy

Women with good masculine role models tend to be more sexually conservative. My had a masculine father and was much more emotionally stable than anyone else I've been with

[–]FatGirlsInPartyHats24 points25 points  (5 children) | Copy

Every girl I've ever met that's remotely stable and not a complete coked out whore had a strong, masculine father in their life.

Every gross, drugged out ran through skank I ever met (tons) all either had no positive male role model at all or a very weak one.

[–]wtfdoiaskfor110 points11 points  (4 children) | Copy

What about the guys? A lot of them haven't had a masculine figure, and end up being wimps. What is the fix for that?

[–]FatGirlsInPartyHats4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Find a solid alpha broski who will show you how to be a man.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My father wasn't a masculine figure for me and I'm sure that's down to his father dying when he was young. I used to be quite flamboyant and was an asshole. My life was chaos without order because I never knew how badly I needed a father role model.

It's been incredibly hard because I've always been a big mommy's boy. I'd get bullied at school, go home and play video games, then get bullied by my drunk father who still denies the emotional damage he causes to the family. My ex's father became my father role model while we were together but I had a lot of issues back then.

There are role models out there if you look got them. The army is great for boys without role models, and there are online gurus like Elliott Hulse who preach the importance of masculinity.

Find an independent man who you respect and study him. Learn how he does what he does and why.

The biggest indicator of a weak or no masculine role models is victim mentality. Men are supposed to be stoic and have been humanity's bodyguard since the dawn on man.

[–]dssatas5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Suspiciously specific scenario

[–]FatGirlsInPartyHats2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm not sure what a gordita is but I know what it gets you with a coked out 22 year old.

[–]AlleyFrog962 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is interesting, what you said

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Wildest sex I ever had (cocaine fueled, had me cut her leg with a knife) came from a girl who no daddy in the picture. Mom was a hoe too, it ran in the family.

[–]EvelynnSpoiler0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When you grow up with a number of random men appearing out of no where then leaving, your idea of what a normal relationship should be, is greatly distorted

[–]Fulp_Piction39 points40 points  (7 children) | Copy

Practice, daddy issues and insecurity.

[–]Zero-Milk25 points26 points  (6 children) | Copy

Upvoted for accuracy.

A lot of the psychotic women we encounter center their entire identities around their own sexuality. Without it, they would have no sense of self at all.

I believe this is often due to unresolved daddy issues which cause a deep insecurity, which in turn causes them to seek out external validation. What's the most obvious and easy way for the ego to receive that validation? Sexual conquest. Hence, they receive a lot of practice.

Be warned: with the insecurity comes a host of unpredictable behaviors usually stemming from some manner of personality disorder. I can tell you from experience that these are problems that you do not want, so my best advice if you're going to keep spinning is to TREAD LIGHTLY.

[–]Fulp_Piction2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Insecurity, in my experience eventually boils out into psycho bitch syndrome.

Guys will throw money and attention around when they're insecure, girls will throw sex and attention.

[–]antariusz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

And just like not every 19 year old with pink hair is overcompensating for her issues, not every guy driving an f-250 to commute back and forth to work has a small penis or is 5’6”

I mean, it’s incredibly likely, just not guaranteed.

[–]Fulp_Piction0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thats what AWALT means.

[–]you_areso_goodlookin1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

agree wholeheartedly, but to be more accurate they aren't psycho (which is like people hearing voices, delusions the police are implanting tracking devices in their scalp, talking gibberish, etc.) These women are more on the borderline/histrionic personality disorder spectrum, with no sense of self, extreme abandonment fears, extreme emotional instability.

[–]Zero-Milk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Indeed. I use "psychotic" as more of a colloquialism or a catch-all, I guess, because if anyone else is like me, they won't have known much of BPD or any other narcissistic personality disorder until they actually encounter one and are forced to basically become psychologists themselves just to understand exactly how fucked up beyond fixing those types of people are. It just seems a more relatable term.

What's terrifying is that narcissistic-type personality disorders are exceedingly common, highly destructive, and nearly untreatable, even with psychotherapy. So no matter what your dealings are with these types of people, you're sure to wind up on the losing end because they're simply incapable of change.

[–]xxx69harambe69xxx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What are the more subtle daddy issues?

[–]beachbbqlover18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here's why:

They're usually the ones that someone has shown how incredibly overwhelmingly pleasurable sex can be, and then been alpha widowed. That leaves them on the hunt to find what they crave again, and almost like an addict, they have some emotional issues, shame, guilt, boundaries and the likes are all skewed. THEN they can't find what they're looking for, and shit gets weird.

But literally, if you give them what they need, they melt in your hand like chocolate.

[–]strainer12315 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Of course sex with a sub is hotter than with vanilla girls, she lets you do everything you want, the others are all "don't do this", "don't do that", "don't touch this", its like having the keys to the theme park versus having to stand in line.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bet you a million bucks “J” had been molested and has Daddy issues.

[–]SwoleyMoleyFrijoley4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Survival. They have to be complete sex machines to make up for their personality and bullshit. It's literally their biological strategy. Crazy women have crazy babies grow up in crazy families and turn into crazy women.

If we stopped fucking crazy women, they'd stop being crazy.

If women stopped fucking assholes, guys would cease to be assholes.

Fact is, we make bad decisions and so do they because the baby factories don't give a fuck how bad of an idea a partner is. Baby factories only care about reproducing with the best genetics. Full stop.

[–]vintageBiscuit2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What would one do to train his girls?

I am currently in to lots of readings that help develop myself. I haven’t checked sex god method yet. Is it THE book for it?

Will be having one unskilled chick in a while, need o get my training skill ready by then.

[–]Zanford6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Introduce some new sexual elements during each session, virtually every girl is extremely kinky (very curious about kinks even if she doesn't have experience) and she will be eager to try them when 1. she doesn't feel like you're judging her 2. she does feel like you know what you are doing. For example, give her a playful palm pat on the bum, say something funny like 'spank you very much', and then she will 'jokingly' beg you to actually spank her.

It's very similar to classic escalation, kino, and yes-ladders.

A good way to introduce the idea of anal is to generously slather your dick with lube (and drizzle a bit on her crack), then give her a hot-dog-along-the-bun rub for a bit without penetrating; and obviously be looking and listening for her mood and reactions during all this. If they're positive, keep going, and she'll definitely know what you're getting it, she may even verbally ask for it in the butt at that point, and/or push back against you at the right location and angle. Position yourself, and say something like 'ready?' or 'your ass looks damn fuckable' or 'this is gonna blow your mind' (sounds cheesy typed out on the internet, but all pillow talk does) and if she responds positively, use a gradual motion with a slight spiral to it to work your way in. Depth and speed should increase gradually and make sure the lube is doing its thing. Different angles are best for different girls; for some it's a lot better if their legs are doubled over under them, others prefer straight legs, some like to be standing and bent over something rather than lying down. You could also go to the route of a (lubed of course) butt plug before using your dick. After you've used it on her for a bit, say something like 'ready for the real thing?' Also, encouraging her to finger herself during all this is a good way to make anal enjoyable.

Blowjobs are one of the biggest and most important learning curves, but a girl will learn quickly if you reward things that feel good via subtle vocalizations and body language and tell her how hot she looks doing that, etc. Don't moan like a woman, but do things like low growls or deeper breaths, rubbing her hair and shoulders etc. as encouragement. If she does something bad like using teeth or not having a good seal, don't be scoldy or angry, but pause your positive feedback, and maybe make a subtle 'hmm', pull back slightly, or lead her in a different direction with a 'let's try...'

[–]liquorbaron2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It means she's had practice to get her skills that way. Her being crazy (whatever it stems from in her past or her brain being fucked up) can mean that she ends up with no inhibitions in the bedroom and has less qualms about getting into the sack with a guy hence why she has mastered fucking.

Should I dip out as fast as possible or just roll with it for awhile and maintain a distance?

All the "don't stick your dick in crazy" means is realize you're playing with fire and that you could get burned badly... or your dick chopped off Lorena Bobbitt style depending just how crazy she is. Think movie "Fatal Attraction".

[–]volvostupidshit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never sleep when she is around.

[–]anxiousdweller2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's partially in your head/heart. You are co-creating the situation. We have the causes in our actions for results we get.

[–]PhaedrusHunt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely block and delete.

Give me J's number and I'll call her to explain things and comfort her

[–]psychotropy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The absolute last thing you EVER want to do is to lock yourself in with a girl who's damaged goods for the rest of your life because one slips past the goalie...have your fun with her (hell, I fucked more than a few damaged girls, & you're right. They are WILD in the sack lol), but use condoms. If she says she on birth control, don't believe her. Use condoms. Whatever you do, DON'T SHOOT ANY LOADS IN that bitch!!!

[–]VigilantSmartbomb4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fingered her ass and had her suck my finger lmao,

Yay or nay

[–]ProFriendZoner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because they have no limits or boundaries

[–]batfish550 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn't say crazy is the best. I'd say the quiet that you can get to do crazy shit without feeling like a slut....that's the way to go. Crazy already don't feel slutty, that's why the do crazy shit. But if you can set loose the librarian's inner slut without her feeling slutty....you're In like Flynn. JMO

[–]legend5030 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They have nothing else to offer

[–]1leftyguitarist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

evolution.

[–]amphix3390 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

These kind of women are completely fine as long as you're solid as a man. You can't let her life rub off on you or your mission. If you're not advanced in game and as a man, then tje slightest fuck up will fuck you up.

If you even consider a probability of a LTR and trust me I've seen men go through the "I can fix her phase", then your life is completely down the drain

Fuck her back in and don't talk too much. That's what drives these women crazy

[–]Diche_Bach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I fucked crazy a few times, and had similar results. My one suggestion is: DO NOT become in ANYWAY emotionally attached. That will be your undoing.

Also, keep in mind that: a chick like that will probably fuck any decent prospect so don't be surprised if she either cheats on you, or hooks up with a basketball team for a pornhub career when you next.

[–]H2orocks30000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

your not incorrect that they feel that way. the BPD girl i was with that blew up because of us having opposite trauma responses. you need to be on your game like 100% and understand them better than they understand themselves. playing with fire can be very fun - theres also a push pull like effect that draws us in. the lack of connection kinda draws us in. and yes, sex for them fills a lot of the emptiness inside so why the hell not. i think you just got to expect and learn to manage their psyches the way you need.

[–]zboo1h0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Heroin feels really good, right? Same idea.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They are willing to let it all go and live in the moment. They're not crazy , your the one that's crazy.

[–]furcryingoutloud-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

nofap/porn <-- LOL



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