The red pill/incel phenomenon shows that something is happening with men. There is clearly deep anger and resentment growing. Whether it is with high value men or low value men, both groups are angry. To me this so incredibly dangerous, because we're no longer talking about a small minority of weirdos or misfits but rather a not insignificant portion of the male population, including people who will eventually have real power. At some point, this bottled up anger will explode.

So why are we not talking about a solution that at least listens to these men and considers their 'lived experience'? Why is there continued gaslighting, telling men about toxic masculinity, telling them they are privileged, etc? While these are rhetorical questions and I know the answer to them (the whole thing is a continued feedback loop), it just seems rather foolish to me. You can only treat people like this for so long before there is a real impact. And given the intersectionalist's desire for mass immigration (which means importing actually violent misogynists from the third world) this whole thing seems like a lose-lose. We are creating a society of misogynistic men who will have absolutely 0 problem with acting selfishly because they will feel 100% justified.

So how can we listen to these men and their lived experiences and staving off radicalism, while also being respectful to women?