I met a girl recently who was very interested in me at first. She was proactive about messaging me and asked me out as well. I got infatuated and now I’m worried it’s all gone wrong. She stopped texting me as frequently last week and it began to seem like she lost interest. She did just start a class for her graduate program, but I’m worried it’s something else. During our second date, I noticed she got a text from a male coworker (name was male and she had “Work” written after the name”. Apparently she had told him about our date because he made a joke about letting me win the bowling game we were having. Idk how to interpret this. If he is texting her, then he most likely is interested in her. She’s interested enough in him to text him back and forth. Why would she tell him about our date? Well, now I’m worried that she’s not just busy and is actually getting ready to drop me. Im planning on meeting up with her tomorrow. How should I address the way I’m feeling without being direct? I don’t want to say “oh I’m just another guy and I’m your backup option” but I can’t help but feel that way. I’ve thought I’ll just ask her what she’s looking for. I just want to be honest with her and tell her that I’m looking for a relationship but a lot of girls seem to not really know what they want. Idk what to do.
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