A few weeks ago I made a post about how I struggle to leave behind red pill and incel ideals. It got a lot of responses and I really tried to take the more construcitve ones to heart, but when it comes to male beauty standards and masculinity, I absolutely can't change my views.
When it comes to men and looks, the standards are absolutely insane. While there are a few female body types that are considered attravtive, there is only one for men: as tall as possible, as muscular as possible, as wide shouldered as possible. For naturally thin guys like me, the game is already over, how are you going to compete with physcally superior men?
Also, I have acne since I turned 13 and despite being on medication several times, I still get breakouts and as you might expect, my face is pretty much ruined by now. How could any woman look at that face and find it attractive? Especially since women have such a variety of men to easily choose from.
When it comes to masculinity, it is just as bad. Men need to be extroverted, they need to be confident at least, more preferably arrogant even, they need to never show signs of weakness. Any sign of negative emotions such as sadness, selfdoubt or inhibition makes a man immetiadely unattractive. How does an introverted and quiet guy like myself stand up to such an insane standard? It is absolutely impossible.
It just seems absolutely impossible for a guy like myself to ever have a woman attracted to him. I'm like the exact opposite of how a man should be and needs to be. Even if I had a girlfriend and she told me how much she loved me, I wouldn't believe her, infact I would think she is just trying to play me for a fool while cheating on me behind my back with actually attractive, masculine men. What am I supposed to do in such a situation except giving up and eventually dying alone or even killing myself?
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