I always try to keep it clean and focus on setting up a first date, well that’s my strategy now.

But before I used to over invest in a girl and be “nice” and take it slow but eventually they either mess me around or find some other guy or straight up ignore my messages

As soon as I become sexual through text and skip everything, they become more interested in meeting up and text back again, why is this?

Edit: I know it’s a hookup app, but because it’s mainstream people will be looking to date in there as well. I thought being sexual early on would look desperate or trashy but since I’ve kept all the sexual stuff as hidden and private as possible when texting (sending sexual snaps) all of a sudden they seem okay with it?