Alternative to to the power to walk away

rrroqitsci · 2018-08-04T02:09:45+00:00

Funny, but that sounds something like hypergamy but for all aspects of your life. Always be trading up, right? Unless you’re a woman, in which case TRP will criticize and disparage you.

biscuitfeathers · 2018-08-04T00:48:51+00:00

I would say the power to identify your needs and communicate them. A lot of those scenarios wouldn't be necessary if you had the ability to confidently sit whoever down and say "Hey, I really like this relationship/friendship/job that we have. Sadly, it makes me feel X when you do Y, because I need Z. Is there something we can do to make this r/f/j more rewarding for both of us?"

cyranothe2nd · 2018-08-04T01:56:13+00:00

it's almost like it's a self-perpetuating philosophy that depressed men fall into and that makes men more depressed and lonely.

NeJin · 2018-08-04T06:06:16+00:00

There's a difference between cultivating and excercising it. Even if you can, you shouldn't necessarily dump people just because something isn't going right - but you should strive to be able to live independently, in my opinion.

[deleted] · 2018-08-04T16:29:29+00:00

Build up enough confidence and self esteem so you know when it’s healthy and in your best interests to walk away. People make mistakes, we’re human. But that doesn’t mean you should tell them to fuck off every time they do, it’s about knowing when it becomes a pattern and they don’t have your best interests in mind.

Yesm3can · 2018-08-04T07:12:42+00:00

I will say if anything, that is the best thing that one can get (if any) from TRP. Indeed that the price you will have to pay will be starting from scratch, but you will most likely start from a better and more experienced position than before.

This is not something people do to maintain a sense of alpha-ness. It is just something that normal, well-adjusted people do.

Walking away from decaying relationship? You left with a better sense of what you are looking for in a partner.

Leaving shitty boss or company? You'd leave with experience and better possibility for career advancement or better pay.

Leaving shitty friends? Well this one is no-brainer. Why have friends that add only to your stress. Better to be alone than in the company of assholes.

Can't believe that finally will come a day where I defend TRP teaching, damn. But this is perhaps the only positive thing you can get out of TRP.

The reason for the whole self-improvement thing is to prepare you for the whole walk away thing. You will be prepared to walk away if you know you'd get something better.

Fat, unhealthy, meek, lazy, petty, weak and stupid Albert will have a worse time leaving his shitty partner, boss and friends than fit, healthy, assertive, diligent, chill, strong and clever Joe. Don't be Albert.

Title	Alternative to to the power to walk away
Author	pizzalover24
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	August 4, 2018 12:00 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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