Here are four books that I think all ex-redpillers should read. I believe that they will teach you how to become more attractive in a healthy way, as well as develop healthier attitudes toward women.

1 In Praise of Older Women

This autobiographical novel from the 1960s is about the sexual education of a Hungarian boy who sleeps with a lot of older women. In addition to being extremely good literature, the book is also very sex-positive in a healthy way. In choosing older women, he desires their wisdom and life experience, something that RP teaches not to value in women. Incredibly entertaining too, and a short read. From the book: "And although I hope this memoir will be instructive, I have to confess that it won't help you to make women more attracted to you than you are to them. If deep down you hate them, if you dream of humiliating them, if you enjoy ordering them around, then you are likely to be paid back in kind. They will want and love you just as much as you want and love them -- and praise be to their generosity."

2 Swoon: Great Seducers and Why Women Love Them

Written by Betsy Prioleau, a woman in her 70s, this book chronicles great ladies' men from history and dissects what makes them so charming. Red Pill often talks about "looks/money/status" as the secret ingredients for sex appeal. This book shatters that idea and shows that men who are successful with women don't have to be traditionally handsome, rich, or famous. From the back: "Great seducers are neither alpha studs nor big-money moguls. Instead, they radiate joie de vivre, intensity, and sex appeal; and above all, they adore women."

3 Love Can Be Found: A Guide to the Most Desired and Most Elusive Emotion

The first two books were still mostly about seducing women; that's all fine and well, but may not be the end goal for most Ex-Redpillers. This next book is about finding (probably monogamous) love. The brilliant psychiatrist Silvano Arieti writes a beautiful, philosophical essay on the existence of love, then shows us how we can go about finding it. The Red Pill teaches that love is a myth, but this book will change your mind. This book is mostly theoretical in nature, but it does have a few practical tips. (Note: this book is super rare. It seems like hardly anybody still reads it. That makes is special to me.)

4 Mate: Become the Man Women Want

I don't necessarily feel that this book belongs on this list, but it's actually the best basic self-improvement book I've read for men looking to do better with women. It is essentially all the useful self-improvement advice from Red Pill without the unnecessary misogyny. If a guy who was clueless and giving up with women wanted to read one book that would help him, this is probably the book I would first recommend. My favorite parts were the suggestion that men should try to seem -safe- before they seem -attractive,- as well as the suggestion that men should see a therapist if they think they have any emotional issues (probably anyone who ever believed RP).

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