How much do you believe someone should alter their career path or life choices to improve their 'SMV'?

absolutebeginners · 2016-03-02T01:06:11+00:00

Know what is attractive? Knowing what you want and going out to get it. What's not attractive is changing yourself (against your wants) in order to get laid. Going to be an ibanker when you don't want to be an ibanker is a recipe to make your life miserable.

So should guys without these careers just give up on seeking love? The fuck.

Do you really believe that? There are literally billions of men with jobs paying below average and billions of them have wives, so no, you don't have to give up.

Women have different wants and needs, just like men. Some men care if a woman has a college degree, some don't. Some women care if a man makes a ton of money, some don't. Do you want a girl who is going to expect you to spend a lot of money on her? If you don't, you don't have to have one. Get it out of your head that everyone wants the same thing; they don't.

Xemnas81 · 2016-03-01T03:11:24+00:00

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luridlurker · 2016-03-01T19:37:34+00:00

So should guys without these careers just give up on seeking love? The fuck.

Uh... I mean... if you want your whole world to revolve around an app that some people use and you've got nothing to offer in a relationship except for your career ambition, then sure, change careers... but Tinder is an app that's used by a self-selecting group. It's not a group representative of the population at large, nor any smaller microcosm that you may find yourself stuck in.

2016-03-02T13:42:47+00:00

Hyergamy isn't what you think it is. Its just that women often are more attracted to potential mates with more social status, money, or social dominance than them. It does not mean that women are inherently gold-digging sluts who will always cheat if they find someone more 'alpha'. The red pill appropriates and shoehorns real scientific ideas, distorting them and misconstruing them for their ideology, while giving their ideology the pretense of actually being scientific. Its like creationist 'science'.

You don't have to be a ripped and highly socially dominanant manipulative alpha to find a woman for a successful long term relationship. You just need to be improving yourself and not be a spineless orbiter who heaps gifts and attention on women while debasing himself.

Xemnas81 · 2016-03-01T04:18:43+00:00

You know what, I was going to rant about how military being last on this list was a hilarious difference from real life, but I'm actually going to focus on how tinder doesn't represent real life. In real life, EVERYONE knows that marine blues are possibly the number one panty-dropper in the US. If Tinder wants to have meaningless data, that's their (poor) business. Rant coming...

In real life, I'm a college student in a music department where we constantly talk about how none of us are ever really going to have careers. It's borderline orgy sometimes. Okay, so sure, maybe it's just the exception that proves the rule, but it's the most sensitive and nerdy men and women I know. WE HAVE A POKEMON LEAGUE. I think the current champion is in my fraternity. And you know what, the president of my fraternity is known for being one of the most sensitive, caring guys ever and he works at Hastings for something like 8.00$ an hour. Not particularly good-looking, and kind of a stocky body, and not unusually tall. He is KNOWN for getting laid. Like, that's his claim to fame.

He's basically the opposite of the Red Pill, and he's just the most noteworthy of about 15 other guys fitting the same profile. Red Pill's not worth your time worry about, bro. They're talking about hypergamy and how women are somehow both unable to think rationally and expert at manipulation and social strategy. Meanwhile, I'm having to choose between a bodybuilder 4 inches taller than me who sells houses in her spare time and a cute blonde who runs a youtube channel. Literally all I do with my life is play video games, wish I had the money and time to do airsoft/paintball, and work on being a baller violinist. Yeah, maybe my life is the exception, but the only thing that makes it the exception is that not everybody chooses it. Anyone could, and actually most people I know make much better life and health choices than me.

Anyway, I've always observed that women most like men who actually do something with their lives. Looks and money help, but there's no substitute for being really impressive. Why do you think artists and musicians are known for having wild, crazy lifestyles with too much sex and partying? There's a reason for stereotypes. As a cousin of mine once put it "You catch more flies with honey, but you catch way more honeys being fly." Like I said, don't stress about TRP, they're doing all this work and turning themselves into assholes just to get laid. It's actually fairly easy to get laid and be awesome at the same time.

Best of luck.

Xemnas81 · 2016-03-02T02:28:50+00:00

Your problem is not your career, or your height, or your looks even. It's the wave after wave of victimhood and desperation your posts waft of, here and on PurplePill.

Your view of women is flawed and rigid from your need to find truth in RP philosophy. Instead of opening your eyes and seeing all the possibilities in the world, you fixate on applying a RP filter over every interaction.

Xemnas81 · 2016-03-01T23:42:37+00:00

More deleted comments?

2016-03-02T13:36:52+00:00

Wait, what does SMV mean?

Title	How much do you believe someone should alter their career path or life choices to improve their 'SMV'?
Author	Xemnas81
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	March 1, 2016 2:34 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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