Women like bad boys, or so the cliché goes. The Red Pill bases it's whole theory on the idea that Bad Boys or "Alphas" are the ultimate agents of sex appeal. They are powerful and confident, own gigantic shiny penises made of the best gems and riches (lol) and lead the superior glamurous lifestyle of beding multiple women, or so the legend says. And Indeed a 2014 study by swedish authors found that convicted inmates are more likely to father children and have more sexual partners than those who never commited a crime. So, obviously women are attracted to bad boys, right?

Wrong!

Well... Pheraps to a certain extent bad boy characteristics are attractive. Or pheraphs bad boys embody certain positive qualities like extraversion, assertiveness and confidence that women enjoy. For example, a study by Jauk et. al (2016) found that in real life situations (speed dating situations, to be exact) Machiavellian and Psychopathic people are not considered attractive. Narcisists (of both genders) are indeed considered attractive, but it may be due to narcisism overlaping with extraversion in men and physical beauty in women. (Note: For those who don't know, psychopaty in psychology doesn't correspond to being the mass murderer you see on the movies, rather it is a designation given to people who are impulsive, manipulative, thrill-seeking and lacking remorse)

Anyway, to say that bboys have multiple sex partners because they are attractive per se is ignoring the whole picture. Sure enough there may be some space for bboy success being due to their sexiness. But in this post i'm going to explain the main reasons why bboys get multiple women, reasons that guys at TRP often overlook and that are obvious.

  • Bad Boys are sexually exploitative - Sexual exploitation is the act of manipulating, deceiving, pressuring or even sexually assault women. Low agreebleness, promiscuous and psychopathic men are more likely to be sexually exploitative (Lewis, Easton, Goetz & Buss, 2012). The same bad boy that may appear superficially charming and charismatic is also the same selfish prick who will happly trick a woman into believing that he's in love with her just to have sex and bail. Manipulating and deceiving women just to get their dick wet it's what bad boys do. Bad boys also report to target specifically young naiive girls, promiscuous girls, sensation seeking girls and "unintelligent looking" girls because they find them easier to manipulate into a one night stand (Goetz, Easton, Lewis & Buss, 2011). What is TRP if not a collection of sexually exploitative tactics in most of it's part? If you're a TRPer and got laid with those teaching is not because of your new found "alfaness" as much as it is because you're a piece of shit employing dishonest tactics to advance your agenda on unsuspecting women.

  • Bad Boys have lower standards - Jonason, Valentin, Li and Haberson (2011) found that Dark Triad people (Machivallian, Psychopathic or Narcisistic people) have significatively lower standards than the average Joe, at least for short term mates. They also tend to dislike kind people, which leads authors to conclude that Dark Traids actually target "dramatic" people. Why? Because Dark Traids, in particular psychopaths, often need to feel emotionally stimulated and what is better than an unhealthy drama filled relationship to give these guys the thrill? Anyway, when you're willing to fuck anyone you naturally end up with lot's of partners in Curriculum...

  • Bad Boys are only interested in short term sex and have virtually no interest in commitment - Again this obviously results in a greater number of sexual partners because if you're always on the hunt and never on a relationship then you obviously end up having more sexual partners by default. To start with, Psychopathic men are more oriented towards uncommited sex (Jonason et al., 2009). In addition, extraversion, low agreebleness and low consciousness (which is the ability one has to exert self-control) all correlate with interest in short term sex and cheating (Schmitt & Schackleford, 2008). Guess who has all these traits? That's right! Bad Boys!

Conclusion - In my Red Pill years i've met hundreds of guys. Some of them had a lot of sex and looking back their tactics were all based on sexual explotation, fucking everything that moved regardless of beauty or personality and always being on the hunt. I've met sexually exploitative guys that faked their whole lifes (literally) telling women that they were consultants on a bussiness trip or renting a fancy car just to impress naiive women even though they were broke as fuck. I've met guys that would take advantage of every single sexual opportunity even if the girl looked like that Captain Ork at Lord of The Rings: Return of Kings. I remember this one time a 33 year old PUA seducing a 58 year old woman and bragging about it. Sure, a lot of times they would pick up decent looking and good looking women, but let's just say that most often than not they would not achieve the kind of results they expected. I've met guys that were always on the hunt, in fact, the best guys were going out 3 or 4 nights a week and travelling hundreds of kilometers just to go to a far away town if they sensed there was a girl who wanted to have sex with them there. One guy i used to hang out with used to bother to go to a neighboring country every month or so just to pick up girls at a college city famous for "easy pussy"...

There was absolutely nothing special about what these guys were doing. Anyone could be rich if they were willing to rob a bank. Anyone could be an athlete if they were willing to use illegal perform enhancing drugs. So what gives? These guys are cheating and manipulating to achieve their results. What is so special or cool about that?

Guys in TRP think that leading the "mack life" is something glamurous or superior. That TRP "lifestyle" is something close to a James Bond movie. It isn't. It's not glamurous, it's not cool. Quite the opposite, actually.

---------------------------------------------Scientific References ---------------------

D. P. Schmitt; T. Schackleford; (2008) Big Five Traits Related to Short-Term Mating: From Personality to Promiscuity across 46 Nations; Evolutionary Psychology -Volume 6(2). 2008 pp.246-282

Jonason P., Valentine K., Li N., Harbeson C. (2011) Mate-selection and the Dark Triad: Facilitating a short-term mating strategy and creating a volatile environment; Personality and Individual Differences Volume 51(6) pp. 759–763

Goetz, C; Easton J.; Lewis D. Buss D. (2011) Sexual exploitability: observable cues and their link to sexual attraction. Evolution and Human Behavior

Lewis D.; Easton J.; Goetz C; Buss D. (2012) Exploitative male mating strategies: Personality, mating orientation,and relationship status; Personality and Individual DIfferences, 52 (2012) 139-143

Jauk E; Alljouscha N; Marinturegger T; Pemp S; Sieber K; RauthmannJ. (2016) How Alluring Are Dark Personalities? The Dark Triad and Attractiveness in Speed Dating; European Journal of Personality.