I got a random girl pregnant. I'm 28. Unlike most men who go through this though, I did this while traveling. I fucked the girl twice and left. A month later I get a message on Whatsapp saying her period is late, followed by a picture of a pregnancy test a few days later. She claims I'm the only man she's been with in this period. Either way, she only knows my first name, my Whatsapp number, and my nationality, which means I'm not on the hook for any child support or anything else.
I feel bad for the girl though. She's a couple years younger than me. Her life just turned upside down. She sent me a message asking about what baby names I liked. Even messaged me asking if I want to be her husband. I tried to gently say no.
But yeah, I'm making this post (this is asktrp after all) because I don't really know what to think or say or do. What are your thoughts on all this? Honestly, to me, it's crazy. One minute I'm living a normal life (ok, far from normal, but anyways) and the next I've made a baby. I'll be responsible for a new human being walking the planet. I'll have my own DNA walking around somewhere far away.
It's nice to write this though. God knows I absolutely won't tell anyone in real life about this. Not my grandma who's always badgering me for greatgrandkids, not my mom who doesn't bother me about it but deep down desperately wants grandkids (I'm an only child), not my dad who's the most stoic person on the planet. I wish I had a good friend I could really trust. To be honest, I do have good trustworthy friends, it's not their fault... I'm just not a very trustful person. But yeah, even if I can't truly get this off my chest, it's nice to be able to open up with you guys at the very least.