Years ago, I remember attending a Bible study dinner with my wife and a few other couples, and looking back at that night since I’ve taken the red pill, the blue pills were so numerous on that night that I am ashamed that I didn’t wake up sooner.

There was a man who we’ll call Jack. Jack was typical beta who orbited his wife like toilet paper swirling around the toilet bowl after it’s flushed. Jack loved to publicly loathe himself, and thinking back on it now, the levels he stooped to make me nauseous.

His wife joined in the pity party he would throw himself, and would constantly throw bones and sit back and enjoy as he ran to get them.

For example: “Jack, remember what I said to you when you forgot to take out the trash after I had only asked you three times?”

Jack smiled. “Oh yes, and you said if I forgot again there would be consequences, of which I most definitely would have deserved.”

Now, think about that exchange for a moment. These are people who have been raised in church and been fed the “Bible” blue pill mentality that men are sex craved animals who need to be controlled by women through religion.

But instead of hating on Jack, what could have Jack said that completely neutralized his wife’s verbal throw up?

Jack’s wife was being a b*tch, and she knew she was in the safety of her Christian friends who would look past anything any of them might do wrong at the chance to take a crap on the men in their lives.

But this is a public setting. So what do you do? Don’t defend yourself, don’t try to argue. Some simple A&A will suffice.

Women and wives say these things to illicit a defensive response. What Jack’s wife did was a classic shit test, but in public. She threw the bone and he jumped after it, confirming that she still had him under control and all the while losing attraction because of how disgusting he held himself.

Jack had no self respect for himself, and he just proved it to a room full of people.

Have some self respect. If you don’t respect yourself, then nobody else will either. The self-loathing will be felt a mile away, and the Christian Chads will come running because they know you won’t put up a fight for your wife when you won’t even defend yourself.