Hello everyone, I'm not really much for posting on reddit and prefer to browse but I feel this is an excellent place to get some insight on something that has really been bothering me for a while. Being a young Christian man in his 20's while also recently discovering the redpill not too long ago.

In my opinion I feel that the present time we are at in western society and possibly the world as a whole is probably the most taxing time when it comes to a man keeping his faith and acting in a godly manner. The Redpill itself from what I know is it about sexual strategy first and foremost, and while I am not saying the Red Pill is wrong since there is truth to it, how can I actually use this knowledge for good?

It would be much easier for any man to use his new awareness for sin and to just sleep with as many women as possible. Rather than use it vet for a possible mate or wife and start a family, and even in this case the Red Pill seems to be incredibly be against marriage. Not including the fact that society is devaluing marriage as a whole and it is an incredible financial to get married aswell. While in the bible it says the only correct way to even have a sexual relationship with a woman is to be married, you see where I am going with this, right? In order to be married I will have to get married in a climate like the one we are in where the divorce rates are terrible and men are thrown into the ground and buried more often than not.

I have felt this conflict inside of myself for a long time now and it does eat away at me. Being a Christian is sacrifice I know that, but it just bothers me to have to task risks that other people don't have to because they have no religious affiliation. How can anyone tell someone to spin plates or run game on a woman with just the intention to have sex and nothing more, and be a godly man. In my opinion it's not possible. I want to do right, but it just seems to me that right is not only not respected, but isn't valued to any extent really whether it be women or anything else. How can I love any woman if I should be wary of her intentions or motivations? Basically the point I am saying is. How is it possible to follow the word of God as it is written, and ignore all the bad influences that are everywhere right now. That seem to be telling me if you just sin a bit more, you can have even more than what you have now and be more. I love being a Christian, but I just can't get over the feeling of missing out despite knowing what sin will cost me.