Hey guys,

Finished reading NMMNG this week. Trying to become an alpha. I am married and have had a lot of sex problems in my marriage.

My questions centers around this. In the book NMMNG it says to not accept bad sex. How does this apply to recovering marriage sex?

The other night I tried to initiate. She started down the dutiful path and said "I will do it if it will make you happy"

This has been a pattern though. The only time she desires it is when she is furtile, but that is at least in part due to my beta-ness.

Thoughts?

Also, wondering what to read next as well, MMSLP or WISNIFG. I need to deal with shit tests better and also improve in sex life. Let me know what you think.