I'm become paranoid that all men want is sex.
It's a fact that men can leave women at any time (and vise versa).
Men are more attracted to younger women. That's a fact.
A lot of men aren't interested in relationships. But they still want sex.
Put these facts together and I'm starting to see men in real life as people who are consistent with red pillers; I'm paranoid that I'm being used for sex with men reciprocating the lowest amount of effort that will still keep me around.
And as I age, a smaller portion of the dating pool is interested in their own age.
I don't know.
I've always been really open sexually. I've had 4 partners and I'm approaching 30. But when I started something with someone I don't like to hold back sexually.
I think it just makes logical sense to actually withhold sex from men I'm in a relationship with until I know it's more serious, so I can weed out the ones that are around just for sex.
But even then, I've had this problem of men not wanting to commit. One boyfriend last 8 years and left after we made plans to move in together. Another lasted 4 years, and the same thing happened. I'm with serious boyfriend number 3, and I just keep thinking:
Boyfriend/Girlfriend status is a way for men to get consistent sex without making a meaningful commitment and I can't trust men who call themselves my boyfriend to stick around once I want to escalate the relationship several years down the road.
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