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A collection of amazing quotes I’ve gleaned from TRP posts and comments, in no particular order, and without exposition

by chomponthebit on /r/TheRedPill
27 December 2019 03:12 PM UTC

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Unfortunately, I didn’t save user names nor the provenance of the OPs they referred to. Most quotes are self-explanatory, but if you require clarification, I’m sure the old timers can help. I sift through them every few months, to add & delete.

Please contribute more amazing quotes! And thanks to everyone who participates in this forum!


A good girl is a bad girl who hasn’t been caught yet

(Woman) This upsets me but I’m too stupid to formulate a valid response

(Woman) If I said it, it’s true. If you disagree, you hate me and think I’m a bad person.

Women are the selectors of procreation. They essentially decide whether genes survive or not. They are ruthless by nature and care only for their own survival and the survival of their offspring. Men are simply the means to that end

Money is freedom. Prioritize it

Pareto Principle (Law of the Vital Few): 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes

She could have fucked Brad Pitt and you will forever be not quite good enough in her eyes because of what has been and what is theoretically available to her

Sex is like air. It’s only important when you aren’t getting any

N Counts: don’t ask, don’t tell. It’s never a happy statistic

The man at the top of the mountain didn’t fall there

Briffault’s Law: The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no association takes place

Nobody likes anything that causes them to have less power. Except, perhaps, in the sheets

Assume attraction unless signal is otherwise

Being alone is not the same as loneliness

The difference between those who fuck up and those who don’t is eliminating the “possibility of the event” entirely. If she’s entertaining the thought, she’s trash.

You only have to mateguard if you’re with a woman who gives you a reason to mateguard. Vet them better.

Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife

When people show you who they are, believe them. If you have to tell her not to be a whore, next her.

It’s not your job to police a slut’s desires or fix shitty character. Don’t be naive - as if she doesn’t know better. Just as you know when you’re at the traffic stop that you broke the law, she knows she broke the law.

(She should) Try to act above suspicion.

The intention (of cheating) itself shows a flaw in character that must be avoided.

I would never dump a girl for cheating. I’ll dump her for giving out her number in the first place

Men have to withhold attention the way women withhold sex

If she has a fucked sexual history you don’t date her, you plate her.

Don’t chase them, replace them

Your gut will tell you if she’s a complete dirty whore or not

It’s only pussy. Half the people on the planet have one. It’s not special

Lick my balls like they’re your candy-coated daddy issues

Women love to feel wanted, and hate to feel needed, by men

The point is never to find a good girl or a special girl and hold on to her. It is to enjoy your life. If she’s aiding in that goal, she can stay. If she’s impeding that, she must go.

You should treat women like children

If she wants to cheat, she will, and the only way you’ll know is if she tells you

You should not waste your time with someone unless you’re “fuck yes” about them and, more importantly, they are “Fuck Yes!” about you. It’s not worth your time nor emotions to invest in someone who’s not 100% into you.

Sex washes off. Love doesn’t

Don’t try to change other people’s behaviour. Don’t paint red flags green

Shen Jing Bing called and he wants his red flag back

Congratulations, now you get to overcome codependency

If I’m not saying “Hell, yeah!” to something, I say no

If you have to ask someone else if X, Y, & Z are normal behaviours, they aren’t

It takes 0 effort to be a slut It take lots of effort to be a player

Would the woman of your dreams do X, Y, Z? If not, you have your answer

You throw the net, a fish slips through. Do you pine over the fish or throw the net again?

Schrödinger's Pussy: she is both cheating and not cheating

Trust, but verify. Listen to what they say, but watch what they do, for the gossip amongst their enemies is often true

If she wants a second chance she must move heaven and earth

Basically all religious restrictions on women boil down to ensuring paternity.

It's been my experience that women are more prone to "magical thinking" than man. If not astrology, it's "positive thinking" or "karma" or whatever else mystical woo makes them feel less responsible for a) having to know how things actually work, or b) for the good or bad that happens in their life.

Hypergamy is part of mother natures plan to improve the species.

The problem aint that bitches aint loyal, but that we expect them to be

There was nothing to save from the very beginning. Saving a relationship is like trying to capture a beautiful moment. The harder you grip, the faster you lose it.

Tease her relentlessly about the new "loverboy" and remind her she can test the waters anytime and you will understand. You will be fucking other women by sunset but you don't wanna hold her back

If you saw Jackie Brown, Samuel L. Jackson's character says "You can't trust Melanie, but you can always trust Melanie to be Melanie."

We all know women could cheat at any time, that's the constant. But women want to know their men can cheat, but won't. Men know their women can cheat, but want to know they won't.

Men love through adoration. Women love through admiration

You have to find a way to make yourself whole without a woman (or a man) because no one wants to commit to a broken person

Women want the final product, not the work in progress

They want a winner. They don’t care which winner, they just wait at the finish line

If you don’t respect you, who will?

If you want me on my best behaviour, then you better be on your best behaviour.

Men age like wine. Women age like milk

If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Make her happy, make her angry, make her laugh, ANYTHING but bore her. That enemy, boredom, is back and women are looking for you to strike it down. Embrace your youth and live again for the first time

The less we love her when we woo her, the more we draw a woman in

  • Alexander Pushkin

Like playing red flag pinball. Ding ding fucking ding

You need quality marble to sculpt a masterpiece

She’s talking about him because she’s thinking about him which is just a few steps away from “and then I accidentally fell on his dick

(Women have) No concept of loyalty since “loyalty” depends on their current mood

Women make rules for Betas but break them for Alphas

This then is the basis of the Alpha Widow: A mental fixation on the man who made the most significant impact upon a woman as her Hypergamous ideal.

Five Minutes of Alpha Trumps Five Years of Beta.

Women simply wont police the worst aspects of their mating strategy and any interference, personal, political or social, that would prevent a woman from exercising her Hypergamous sexuality is viewed as misogynist, sexist repression.

When a woman has passed through her Epiphany Phase and become a never-married woman into her late 30s the mindset becomes one of self-justification. This is similar to the Kate Bolick effect whereby a woman has very little choice but to live with her past intimate decisions and convert necessities into virtues. She embraces a ready-made empowerment narrative wherein she convinces herself that her choices were the bold, unconventional ones she needed in order to grow

If you feel like playing Child Support Roulette, go ahead and cum inside her

My taste for romance was probably why none of my relationships had lasted very long; the romance always wore off in the end

Good sex can make up for a lot of flaws. Why do you think guys keep sticking their dick in crazy?

Promiscuity is the #1 least attractive trait for a woman to have. For men, it’s far lower on a woman’s list

I’ve had problems (ED) with some amazingly hot women. If there’s no chemistry, there’s no chemistry. Dick don’t lie

Maternity is assured and paternity is not. It’s biology

Men have more at stake when it comes to fidelity

Women are a lagging indicator of success

Does anyone actually appreciate the consolation prize? I came here to win, bish

Women have absolutely no clue what they’re attracted to. It’s so funny to watch it play out

A girl bounces when she feels like she’s found better options. She bounces back when she discovers it just ain’t so

Don’t take her seriously if:

  1. She’s been on the cc at all;
  2. Isn’t willing to give you more than she’s given anyone before you

Travel is a bad sign. Wanderlust = riding the global cc

DEER - defend, explain, excuse, rationalize. NEVER DEER

Biology makes women’s lives harder. Women make men’s lives harder

When the costs of her company outweighs the benefits of her pussy, next

The first fuck matters the most. After that, it’s nothing but diminishing returns

Who wants to be an extra wallet for used goods who gave their best selves to someone else?

The truth is going to hurt you. But it’ll hurt less if you’re used to hearing it all the time, and hurt more if you never hear it

Women are sex objects. Men are status objects

A girl bounces when she feels like she’s found better options. She bounces back when she discovers it just ain’t so

Post Information
Title A collection of amazing quotes I’ve gleaned from TRP posts and comments, in no particular order, and without exposition
Author chomponthebit
Upvotes 836
Comments 114
Date 27 December 2019 03:12 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/303206
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/egc9se/a_collection_of_amazing_quotes_ive_gleaned_from/
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138 upvotesPezotecom3 months ago

This is like TRP rewind. Gonna hit the gym harder today.

1 upvotesroughlyaverage3 months ago

u ever feel like passing out or throwing up in the gym? sometimes i get that after my second set if its a pretty good workout and then i just leave.

but could i call bs and do the third set anyway? do people really throwup from working out

17 upvotesbigkids3 months ago

Eat 2-3 hours before a workout or competition and most likely you won’t be throwing your food up

4 upvotesBrutal133 months ago

I do intermittent fasting and do weights/MMA in the morning after a 10 hours fast. And then I eat only after fasting more than 16 hours combined. Try it.

1 upvotesroughlyaverage3 months ago

basically, you're suggesting doing it on an empty stomach? I usu do it 2 hours after an oatmeal breakfast, but i'll be sure to try it with a skipped breakfast.

1 upvotesBrutal133 months ago

Yea try it. And tell me about the results.

4 upvotesi4mn303 months ago

I guess you just started out? In about a week you'll stop getting the same feeling.

1 upvotesroughlyaverage3 months ago

nah im jacked. but sometimes i take stimulants to get a better workout. idk whether to push it or not.

1 upvotesJames_Rustler_3 months ago

If it's your heart then it's the stimulants and you should stop those. Especially if combined with nicotine as it's a downer + upper mix.

1 upvotesroughlyaverage3 months ago

not nicotine. sometimes caffeine. im definitely very conscious about my heart during workouts because as you stated that's dangerous.

1 upvotesSumsar013 months ago

Try less caffeine and stop fasting. Would suggest cardio but it doesnt sound like a work capacity problem since you do mma.

3 upvotestheconcentrated3 months ago

That’s because you don’t eat

1 upvotesTheStoicTao3 months ago

I've thrown up from deadlifting heavy weights. It can happen but you just gotta push through it.

1 upvotesCompostable-Account3 months ago

If you’ve recently eaten (2 hours) yes you could puke from working out too hard.

142 upvotesTRP_Scepter3 months ago

I don't know where I found this quote, but it's easily one of my favorites.

"You can either love or understand women, but it's impossible to do both."

159 upvotesdzungmac3 months ago

"It takes 0 effort to be a slut, it takes lots of effort to be a player" wow

78 upvotesBlueMyLoad693 months ago

Great. I’ll be a slut then!

11 upvotesDimenzije903 months ago

Eazier to be a female slut than a male slut, thats the idea.

52 upvotesBlueMyLoad693 months ago

No I get it man. I get it.

32 upvoteshmsthinkingmeat3 months ago

That's along the lines of "a key that can open any lock is priceless. A lock that opens to any key is worthless".

1 upvotesfoomasters3 months ago

That's my current WhatsApp status. Seems innocuous at first, but has a deeper meaning to it.

33 upvotescantFindValidNam3 months ago

Women make rules for Betas but break them for Alphas

The red pill in a nutshell

11 upvotesArnoldT10003 months ago

Last girl I fucked told me she doesn’t fuck on the first date. We were at her house. I then fucked her 10 minutes later in her room. We’ve all heard this one before but the lesson remains the same.

You decide the rules. She follows your lead.

3 upvotesusernameagain23 months ago

Yes this is a great one. One of my past ncounts was making rules for me and I knew then she saw me as a beta; immediate next.

95 upvotes_do_not_read_this_3 months ago

and the survival of their offspring.

Clearly you've never met my mother.

The point is never to find a good girl or a special girl and hold on to her. It is to enjoy your life. If she’s aiding in that goal, she can stay. If she’s impeding that, she must go.

This is my current attitude, to the extent I make this point in a book I'm writing. You can go to a ballgame with (a) your buddies; (b) alone by your self; or (c) a woman. All will be fun. But a woman is only 1/3 of your possible options, not even a majority.

Good stuff, nice post. Up arrow for you!

21 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

My pleasure! And many thanks to the community for these gems!

3 upvotespapertowelfreethrow3 months ago

can we read an excerpt of the book youre writing?

15 upvotes_do_not_read_this_3 months ago

Nope. If I ever publish it, the text could be traced back to a post here and dox me.

3 upvotesCaptainWanWingLo3 months ago

Or you can just get a new account when you publish.

57 upvotesVasallo7G3 months ago

Women are like cats and men are like dogs. Give food to a dog and he goes: this guy gave me food he is a God!, Give food to a cat and she goes: this guy gave me food, I Am a God!

5 upvoteshmsthinkingmeat3 months ago

You give food to a cat and the fuckers will never leave - made that mistake with my neighbours cat - felt sorry for it one day and gave it some chicken - now it's round my legs as soon as I leave the house and the yard is full of cat shit.

Parallel complete.

23 upvoteshuey7643 months ago

"Women are born, men are made."

18 upvotesabhi_073 months ago

"Women don't care about your struggles, they hang out at the finish line and fuck the winner."

50 upvotesBorsao663 months ago


I made the list (sex is like air). LOL

-4 upvotes8380atgmaildotcom3 months ago

That was definitely Vasily.

Edit: sorry all forgive me for I have sinned

20 upvotesitiswr1tten3 months ago

Or fereallyred, or anyone else. Been said by many and predates TRP

-6 upvotesBorsao663 months ago

Dude I'm easily 25+ years older than him and I've used that for WAY longer.

1 upvotesiSwallowedTRP3 months ago

Nah bro, I definitely said it first

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

> It takes 0 effort to be a slut It take lots of effort to be a player

Effort or accomplishment are often cited as the reason why having a high n-count is a quality indicator for men but a non-quality indicator for women. This is not the real reason.

A high n-count for men indicates that the man has genes desirable to women and thus the male descendants of this man will likely have many mating opportunities and will continue to pass along their genes and thus the genes of their mothers. This is called the sexy son hypothesis. It is very well supported in our species and other tournament species.

A high n-count for women indicates a low degree of male parental confidence for any offspring. This is a deal killer in any species with even modest male paternal investment. As humans have high male paternal investment, it is an absolute deal killer for a woman to have a high n-count. If she does, it makes no mathematical sense for a man to commit to her or her offspring even if he thinks they might be his. This is evolution's way of defending the genes of males from cuckolding and oblivion.

The so-called double standard -- and it's not a double standard -- is the result of asymmetry in the needs of each sex.

9 upvotesBlueMyLoad693 months ago

Women are the gatekeeper of sex. A key that can open many locks is valuable, a lock that will open with any key is worthless. This is the quote that I won’t forget.

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

Yes, that's a good joke, but although it's true for locks, it's not the reason men get status for their sexual liaisons and women get penalized. Put simply, a woman who has slept around isn't going to provide the male paternal confidence required for a male paternal investment.

The opposite isn't true. As long as a man is willing to provide for a woman and her offspring, there is no disadvantage to his sexual past or even to him having sexual affairs after marriage as long as he doesn't fall in love with another woman. This is why when men get caught cheating on their wives, they say it was just sexual. If a man falls for another woman, his wife's interests are severely hurt. If he just sleeps around, they are not. However, if the wife sleeps around, her husbands interests are severely hurt. That's the asymmetry.

1 upvotesgracieIsNotGay3 months ago

Sorry, could you explain why exactly the wive's interests are not hurt by sleeping around but the husband's are? Why exactly do you believe it has a different impact?

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

Sure, no problem.

There are two kinds of concerns: practical and emotional. Let's first address the practical ones. Unless a man gets an STD or is forced by the state to pay child support for the result of an affair, there are no practical consequences for the wife if the husband cheats even extensively. As long as he stays loyal to her, provides her with his resources, and takes care of their children, then any affairs he has on the side are no different than him watching a television show. It's just a minor bit of time spent doing a leisure activity.

In contrast, if the wife has an affair, there is a very real possibility that the husband will end up raising another man's kid and he loses the opportunity to have a child of his own. This is a double whammy. It is also something that devastates the interests of his genes, whereas the wife's genes are not at all harmed by any number of affairs he has.

Now let's address the emotional concerns. Emotions are tools evolution uses to get animals to behave in specific ways in response to specific situations. Animals seek pleasure and avoid pain. Evolution selects a mapping of pleasure to things that propagate your genes, the quintessential example being sex. Evolution also selects a mapping of pain to things that prevent the propagation of your genes, the quintessential example being death say at the hands of a saber-toothed cat.

Men, in general, become enraged at the site of their wife having sex with another man precisely because that event directly threatens his genetic well-being. Millions of years of evolution has selected genes that wire his brain to be enraged at this threat. Women, for the same reason, are emotionally traumatized by rape as it is something that threatens the genetic quality of their offspring. Women are also emotionally harmed when her long-term mate (or husband) abandons her because the removal of a man's provisioning would have threatened the survival of a woman's offspring in the Stone Age.

The mappings of situations to emotions are based on what was beneficial or harmful to the continuation of your male and female ancestors. However, since which situations were harmful were gender specific, so is that mapping. Hence, the emotional needs of men and women differ.

1 upvotesblackpilledchristian3 months ago

"Men, in general, become enraged at the site of their wife having sex with another man precisely because that event directly threatens his genetic well-being"

Or you are not into evolution, here's the spiritual explanation:

34 For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

35 He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts.

Proverbs 6 King James Bible

5 upvotesOscar_Cc3 months ago

I don't think you are wrong but what the original quote does is to implicitly acknowledge that "players" are average-looking dudes who focus on getting laid, rather than simply "naturals" who do it effortlessly.

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

> A good girl is a bad girl who hasn’t been caught yet

True today. It was not true 70 years ago and throughout most of history. Environment matters. Human nature is adaptive, not static. Genes do not operate in a vacuum. How they are expressed is environment dependent.

14 upvotesp3n1x3 months ago

It was not true 70 years ago and throughout most of history.

Back this up, or you should be slapped with the bullshit dildo.

The quoted statement exists because females exist. Maybe the perception of it is a historical ebb and flow that is lost on some of you, but you said that like female behavior started 70 years ago. Understanding the core of a behavior is more important than the current status. Current affairs change and repeat themselves rapidly.

AWALT does not have a timeline. War has always existed and women have dealt with conquering soldiers as such.

The "good girl, bad girl" ratio can most likely be correlated to economic prosperity. Take the 1920's for example. 1945-1960 was fuck'a'palooza for the US.

Going back just 150 years, your father was the guy that fed you and kept you alive, the idea that he was the same guy that dropped off his seed in your mother is a roll of the dice.

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

Back this up, or you should be slapped with the bullshit dildo.

Are you seriously questioning if the n-count of women today is no higher than women from the 1950s and before? Do you really think that women are no more likely to lose their virginity before marriage to some other man today than before the oral contraceptive and the "sexual revolution"? Seriously? If you honestly believe that, then I doubt any evidence will change your mind, but you can easily find that evidence in sexual studies done throughout the 20th century by entities like Masters and Johnson.

How different are men in Saudi Arabia compared to men in America? Is their genetic code that different? No. It's culture. Culture makes such a huge difference that men in America will completely ignore religion whereas men in Saudi Arabia will literally fly airplanes into buildings killing themselves in the process for their religion. Similarly, men in the Middle Ages would whip themselves bloody for religion, but their descendants don't even go to church.

If men's behavior and worldview is so influenced by culture, then how much more so are women who are biologically programmed to be conformist? The sexual behavior of women is extremely determined by the culture in which they live.

AWALT does not have a timeline.

Everyone listen up. AWALT does not mean that all women act the same. AWALT means that all women react to the same environment with the same behavior.

When men are killed off in war, the women have to compete for the remaining men. All women follow this rule, so during and after a bloody war, women become more promiscuous. This happens across cultures and time. But this also means that women behave differently during such a war than they do during peacetime. The women in one environment are not like the women in another.

All women act the same in the same environment. Women in different environments act differently to each other. Women's behavior is adaptive just like men's behavior is. Evolution requires this for survival. A woman will be loyal to her hunter-gather husband as long as the tribe is safe. If her husband is killed by a rival tribe, she will be disloyal to him and sleep with the men who killed her husband. Environment controls her sexual fidelity.

Genes to not operate in a vacuum. The rules of human behavior are fixed, but they are also parameterized. The parameters make a huge difference in human behavior. It's not that female nature changes with time. It's that female nature causes different behavior in different situations. Culture matters. It is ridiculous to say that women's behavior has made them no less viable as wives over the past 70 years.

Riding the CC is something that your great grandmother couldn't afford to do. It is ubiquitous today. That is a huge difference.

3 upvotesp3n1x3 months ago

no higher than women from the 1950s and before

1920's, Romans, Vikings, Babylon has a reputation for a reason, Mesopotamian pornography is on point. Anal sex was a big deal for contraception (historically recorded). Romans and Greeks were well known for Pig and Goat intestine condoms. Condoms = promiscuity (historically recorded).

It is relative and "bad girls" were just as bad prior to 1950! Your are trying to represent some Unicorn horseshit prior to women's suffrage.

If "bad girls" didn't exist pre-1950, humanity wouldn't exist.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 months ago

Kind of unrelated, but what are your favourite books?

13 upvotesHorvathRed3 months ago

That's dumb bloop fantasy. Even in the Victorian era, women hoed around. Sure, it was more discreet and a lot more risky so maybe it happened a bit less and a lot more discreetly. Human nature has always been the same, AWALT.

14 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

You can’t deny that the pill + the encouragement of slut culture puts today’s woman in an entirely different class than Victorian age women. A slew of religious and secular laws existed to control women’s hypergamy and to help ensure paternity. We don’t have those now, and women’s hypergamy is run amok

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

That's dumb bloop fantasy. Even in the Victorian era, women hoed around.

See my response to p3n1x. Hoeing around in the Victorian era was far less common than it is today. A marriage market in which 99% of single women are virgins is very different from a marriage market in which 99% of women have slept with at least 10 other men. Promiscuity chemically affects women.

2 upvotesHorvathRed3 months ago

The point is that a man has ALWAYS benefitted from being Red Pill throughout history, even when working within the foundations of society. I don't see the use in pining for the old days when women perhaps cheated a bit less, they were still women and still nothing ensured they behaved as well as you assume. It's naive to think there hasn't always been cuckoldry. If you are truly red pill, you should be doing better sexually than any man in centuries past and glad about the current climate. There's never been a better time to be a player, enjoy the decline, et al.

4 upvotespatriot4513 months ago

You are fucking retarded.. AWALT no matter what fuckin century.

0 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

Well that brilliant analysis has persuaded me. Here I was looking at evidence and reasoning, but you're right. Baseless assertions are far more convincing.

1 upvotespatriot4513 months ago

Baseless assertions

Baseless? Just look at human history fucktard. Women were never "better" back in the day. They've always been children, looking out for their own interest and whatever dick interests them at the moment.

1 upvotestrueliberal13 months ago

They've always been children

Well, you have that in common with them. Only a child can't control his emotions and resorts to name calling strangers.

As for baseless, yes, your assertions are baseless. The evidence shows that women today have a far higher n-count and are far more likely to divorce than women from several generations ago or throughout history.

Divorce rate over time


n-count has increased dramatically over past few generations


n-count and divorce correlated


Cohabitation has risen dramatically


Cohabitation and divorce correlated


You are simply wrong. All evidence shows that women's behavior has changed over the past 70 years. Put simply, women like men respond to incentives and changing environments. No genetic change is necessary to facilitate behavioral change in response to a changing environment.

Furthermore, this all makes perfect sense from evolutionary psychology. The red pill is about using evolutionary psychology to understand the behavior of women. You have failed to do that with your black-pill nonsense. You need to read more and speak less.

0 upvotespatriot4513 months ago

Whatever you say you beta fuck. I disagree with your bullshit. And you even cited a source from the Washington Post which is a garbage peddler of fake news and emotional liberal feelings.

8 upvotesp3n1x3 months ago

If you have to ask someone else if X, Y, & Z are normal behaviours, they aren’t

I like this one, it is OK to ask questions. That is why men should develop a strong inner circle. There is nothing wrong with a self 'paranoia check' every once in a while. However, what man wants to be around a woman that makes him feel paranoid all the time?

7 upvotestrollreign3 months ago

Your gut tells you when something is off. There is no objective “normal”. If your gut gives you a bad feeling, then it’s not normal for you, and that’s all that really matters.

7 upvotesp3n1x3 months ago

Two or more guts are better than one sometimes.

7 upvotesbssftw3 months ago

"They want a winner. They don’t care which winner, they just wait at the finish line". This is so important. When I was in high school and my early years of college, I thought there would be that one girl out there that liked me for me, the reason I can't get laid isn't because I'm a loser, no, I just have to wait for my special girl who likes me for me. WRONG. WRONG. WRONG. Nature will let you die out before you get laid if you aren't "good" enough in the sexual marketplace. Girls/women don't give a fuck about men whatsoever, either you become high value enough to get laid, or die a virgin, they only want winners and they have plenty of winners to choose from.

1 upvotesblackpilledchristian3 months ago

I thought there would be that one girl out there that liked me for me

Just Got Lucky https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0c6tYOoyA7k

8 upvotesBalderdash793 months ago

You forgot one:

"Bitches ain't shit."

24 upvotesskxch3 months ago

A girl bounces when she feels like she’s found better options. She bounces back when she discovers it just ain’t so

3 months into breakup and no contact. Good to read that.

21 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

TRP generally suggests avoiding her even if she begs for your dick. Dumpster-diving just gets you dirty - especially when it comes to feels

16 upvotes_do_not_read_this_3 months ago

You should be three months into your next three relationships.

The best way to get over a woman is to get under another.

10 upvotesskxch3 months ago

Thanks. I am in indefinite no contact, have unfollowed her from IG/FB, deleted her number, removed pictures, items, everything you can think of.

I've slept with 3 girls since then, but still not really feeling that same spark that I ever did with her. Maybe because we first met a few years ago in my mid twenties, when I was in a different state of mind. Young and naive.

Whereas more battle hardended now and less quick to invest my emotions.

Funny thing is since we split up , I've had massive success in my career. Coincidence, or was she holding me back? Doesn't matter.

13 upvotes_do_not_read_this_3 months ago

Every now and then one gets through the armor. Happens to the best of us.

It's okay to reminisce, but not to pine of a broken heart. Guaranteed she moved on in about 12 hours, if that.

8 upvotesskxch3 months ago

She moved on while we were still dating. 2 yr relationship. She got relocated for her job. Then we broke up. Got back together weeks later. Did long distance for a year, was planning to live together and start a family (I was , not her obv lol) and then the attraction died over the end of summer after a year of long distance and that was it. She went out one night till 3 am and lied to me about it. And the next day I was like this isn’t working for us anymore. She never admitted what she did, but I knew it was done at that moment. I was done.

10 upvotes_do_not_read_this_3 months ago

LOL, it was "done" when she got relocated for her job, not a year later when she stayed out - no doubt for the very first time - until 3 a.m.

Live and learn, brother.

6 upvotesskxch3 months ago

Indeed. I sometimes wonder why we did long distance for so long, but when I stop wondering and admit It, it sucks but I was being used as an emotional crutch till she got comfortable in her new city and established her life. Live and learn indeed.

5 upvotesskxch3 months ago

This one did get through the armor and I think that’s why I haven’t even given other girls a chance other than to have sex. Eventually I want more than that from a female again, but can’t need it. TRP has helped a lot over the years. I used to be a pretty big beta let’s say 10 years ago, and have learned to value myself more and more. This was by far the highest status , best looking chick I had dated to that point. Better to come fellas , better to come.

4 upvotesArnoldT10003 months ago

If she broke up with you, either by cheating on you or just telling you it’s over, no way she’s coming back. That means you got it to the point where you were so beta with her and put up with so much of her BS, SHE had to leave YOUR ass because she couldn’t put up with your weak shit anymore.

Proactive, not reactive. Never break frame/enter her frame and don’t tolerate misbehavior. If she misbehaves, you remove attention. Don’t tolerate it and hamster it away.

7 upvotesGamingRebel293 months ago

Confidence buys what money can't

5 upvotes22oregon223 months ago

If it flies fucks or floats - RENT IT

6 upvotesRediand3 months ago

"When people show you who they are, believe them. If you have to tell her not to be a whore, next her."

Has a better version by Don Draper: - "People tell you who they are, but we ignore it. Because we want them to be who we want them to be."

4 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 months ago

Thanks for this post, really good collection OP.

1 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

You bet. Many thanks to everyone who contributed these gems!

4 upvotesjailbreaker0103 months ago

Why did you delete the post? It was pure gold!

2 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

The mods deleted it. Message them

3 upvotesDullWealth3 months ago

Did anyone happen to save the post before it was removed. I was only able to get through half of it

3 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

You’re one of a dozen that messaged me. I’ll throw them together and send them when I have an hour this week

4 upvotesp3n1x3 months ago

Don’t try to change other people’s behaviour. Don’t paint red flags green

I would adjust this one a bit - "Don't try to 'rationalize' others behavior".

The core point of that statement is not to bullshit yourself about red flags.

2 upvotesAriaRz223 months ago

The difference between those who fuck up and those who don’t is eliminating the “possibility of the event” entirely. If she’s entertaining the thought, she’s trash.

I didnt get the whole prase

3 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

Imagine a person has a substance-abuse issue, gambling addiction, etc. So long as they avoid potential triggers where they may encounter drugs, booze, and gambling, they avoid the problems, too.

Now imagine that women are addicted to dick. One in particular is dating you, but she constantly parties with her friends (placing herself in the midst of an event that might trigger her dick-thirst) while you’re at work... and you just found some Tyrone guy’s number in her jeans pocket last week...

2 upvotesnayvote3 months ago

Same. I'm guessing "fuck up" means cheating?

2 upvotesConartist963 months ago

One profound quotes that I found in this sub that hits me which is "Make Yourself That Desirable"

2 upvotesMaTArcher3 months ago

I've been collecting quotes too from here, rational male, chateau heartiste, woujo, other books and its really a good way to remember all the main points that hit home during your reading.

Good collection!

1 upvotesedge_lord_super_173 months ago

i know Rational Male is a red pill book, are the others red pill as well?

1 upvotesMaTArcher3 months ago

They absolutely are, visit their websites, they don't have books but online blogs.

2 upvotesRazberryice3 months ago

Amazing list! I've saved it, thanks man!

3 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

Glad I could be of service!

2 upvotesrizzyfromthe93 months ago

That sex is like air part is amazingly true damn

2 upvoteskrowitz3 months ago

Glad you picked up something, but a lot of these things require context. Having a collection like this and hammering these one liners down without the appropriate context is probably not what was intended by the original posters.

1 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

Which is why I warned they come without provenance, and why - if they require context - they ought to ask the folks that follow this sub religiously

2 upvotesVickVaseline3 months ago

A girl bounces when she feels like she’s found better options. She bounces back when she discovers it just ain’t so

You got this one listed twice, OP. Just wanted you to know that I'm paying attention. Haha

1 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

And here I tried so hard to eliminate redundancies

2 upvotesmeatrocket83 months ago

"The first fuck matters the most. After that, it’s nothing but diminishing returns"

Wtfuck lol. Btw that's what's literally said about your 1st opiate\opioid IV shot, after is a chase. And is partially true. I know it...

Go watch "Bitter Moon" by Roman Polanski. Then tell me about the "first fuck".

2 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

The mods deleted it. Message them

1 upvoteskrrisztian3 months ago

Great fucking post man, sidebar material.

3 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

Thanks, pal. Just cut & pastes from the awesome community here that have helped me time and again!

2 upvotesnevalutionary3 months ago

Schrodinger's pussy is absolutely hilarious.

-5 upvotesCainPrice3 months ago

Posts like this are kind of like a BuzzFeed list. And admirers of posts like this are kind of like BuzzFeed readers.

7 upvoteschomponthebit [OP]3 months ago

And comments like yours are kind of like a BuzzKill

5 upvotesRStonePT3 months ago

Cept he's 100% right. the buzzfeedification of this into pithy little facebook quotes is simply a shot of feelgoods into the brain

1 upvotesINNASKILLZ2K183 months ago

Exactly, platitudes and bromides.

They don't mean shit until a man goes out and experiences these conclusions for himself.

There is a time and a place for rewiring the brain a little bit with new information. But information and bromides don't mean shit without following real solutions.

2 upvotesMentORPHEUS3 months ago


1 upvotesINNASKILLZ2K183 months ago

Ah shit, thanks a lot. Terrible spelling right there.

0 upvotesTroufee3 months ago

Overcompensation best of, vol 1

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