Should men who who find it difficult to fulfil their performative masculine roles and conform to narrow behaviours that women find attractive and indicative of a mans worthiness as a mate just go gay when scientists find a way to change someone’s sexuality? These men aren’t unattractive Incels, but they do find conforming to gender norms as repressive and psychologically taxing. Some of these men go their whole lives putting on a facade in order to succeed in relationships and in the workplace , but in the end, they feel repressed, miserable and worn down from a lifetime of conforming to their partners and societies expectations of what a man should be. Some of these men refuse to conform gendered behaviours or expectations, and so they embrace freedom at the cost of loneliness . Either way, the fate of non naturals is likely a life of constant anxiety/mental health problems/self repression or loneliness. The population of these men are probably far more higher than our initial impressions, considering most of these men have trained themselves for their whole lives in how to put on a face whilst they die inside. They know how to hide their true selves, and many have just forgotten the tiny voice in their heads that is the remnants of their authentic self.
Much of the purple pill accept the female sexual imperative, which means that most women, irrespective of any male liberation movement succeeding in the near or distant future won’t ever accept these men’s true selves because these mens true selves are simply repulsive to most women.
And unless they’re extremely attractive, they can’t rely on some intrinsic sexual value to fulfill their needs for human companionship and physical intimacy whilst refusing conform to masculine norms and the transactional nature of heterosexual relationships. These men can’t behave like certain women who don’t follow feminine norms yet still have quite fulfilling sexual lives and relationships because of their intrinsic sexual worth and hetero mens larger tolerance threshold for alternative forms of femininity.
. So what do we do with these men? Is some form of gay conversion therapy the best chance for these men, who can never find acceptance among most women as sexual partner if they behaved as they really wanted but they can get acceptance from gay men, who are far more tolerant of different expressions of masculinity? This could ease the psychological pressure of conforming to the rigid mould that society/women/patriarchy created for them. Or are there other alternatives?
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