The red pills taste pretty good... But I know I'm going down a terrible path.

wooshoofoo · 2020-01-02T03:39:00+00:00

Just remember: redpill feels good the same way throwing a tantrum and taking your toys home when you were a child feels good.

By choosing to stop throwing tantrums, you are choosing to be an adult and have adult relationships. Better to be a unhappy virgin than an unprincipled dick who contributes to the world’s misery like so many other toxic men.

WatchOutItsAFeminist · 2020-01-02T01:09:18+00:00

Unplug from the redpill communities you're reading- they're a toxic addiction once you start going to them. I think u/huyumseemmoja has a great point about living a purposeful life, but I might also suggest trying to meet people though your hobbies and become friends with them. Meet women who share interests with you, and spend time with them as friends, without the ulterior motive of sleeping with them. You should try to develop a sense of what women are like as people, rather than just as potential sexual partners.

huyumseemmoja · 2020-01-02T00:38:15+00:00

I found the only way to cure all this is to unplug yourself completely from TRP ideology and really living a PURPOSFUL life. You'll have to find that something you like doing and work towards it relentlessly. This has totally helped me 94% of the time, of course at times i find myself going back to some TRP ideology, like observing choosing signals, but that's it. At no point do i feel any dislike or hate at all towards women since i started this purposeful life. It's now been 6 months since i blocked TRP coming to my life and all i can say is I'm getting better each day as i work on my purpose, in this case my business. Not at once am i the same i can guarantee, just better, i know if i keep at it i will eventually wash off all the crap i was fed when i was in TRP. Thought i would share this to help a brother. I ask you do the same and observe big shift on how you see TRP. Hope this helps.

Half-Ice-Half-Fire · 2020-01-02T01:58:20+00:00

Stop now. I'm a female that closely followed the red pill/MGTOW subs out of curiosity for a long time. I've unsubscribed from all those subs now because although I wasn't participating in the discussions - seeing all the ridiculous toxic comments was affecting my mood. I only ever comment in this sub now to help others see the clear flaws in this irrational thinking.

Red Pill is extremely toxic especially to young men. It's a big circle jerk of sour guys who have been rejected many times by women. They woo you in promising unlimited amount of "pussy" but the sad reality is that it won't ever become a reality in most cases.

I would get really upset reading some of the crazy shit they post. Most of these posts are filled with so much pure hatred towards women which I wasn't understanding. If you want me to open up and share a very intimate moment with you then you can't treat me the way they want you to treat women. It's not going to work long term.

They're also not being realistic. There are many guys out there who just aren't that attractive and continue to try and score girls that might be out of their reach. By score I mean just sex, not actual relationship. Girls pick up on that very quickly and simply reject them. Example: friend of a friend who is 32 single and has a huge resentment and hatered towards women. He was also very overweight, he smelled of strong sweat odor and would often go out for drinks with friends but never buy any drinks unless someone else bought it for him (he was very well off financially btw). Imagine him taking a girl out on a date? And he didn't want just any girl, he wanted at least 7/10 and up type of girl... He's the one who told me about MGTOW. These are the type of dudes that spend so much time on all of these "red pill" type of subs.

Best way to find a partner is not treating them like piece of meat that is meant only for fucking. And if that's what you're interested in then you simply have to find other women who are open to explore their sexually and there are plenty of them out there. It's 2020 and you have plenty of ways to connect with them. You have it so much easier than dudes 10 years ago.

Best way to find dates: 1. Get in shape. 2. Dress neatly, get a flattering haircut 3. (Big One) Focus on your personal development: invest time in your hobbies, if you don't have any hobbies then find them. 4. Straighten out your life, do something of yourself. 5. Don't treat women the way they tell you to treat them. You won't find quality women that way. 6. (Most important) Be yourself, don't try to become someone else. Confidence is extremely sexy - real confidence not "I can get any bitch I want because I'm the shit" type of fake "confidence".

I was very attractive in my early 20s. For many years I have had a problem finding quality men, most just wanted to have sex and I started resenting men for this very reason. So I took a break from dating just to work on myself (2 years). I finished up a degree in STEM, got a great job, started working out and got in amazing shape. Guess what happened? I was finally being noticed by the type of men I was incredibly attracted to. So that's all I wanted to say.

KennethDeMenace · 2020-01-02T02:32:51+00:00

My best advice is get as close to as many women as you can ...platonically. control you sexual and romantic attraction, and you'll realise they're just people, they drooled, peed pooped their diapers just like you did.

GCWanderer · 2020-01-02T01:17:13+00:00

The irony about MGTOW is that very few of the men who turn up on those communities are genuinely going their own way. Most of them are there because they were sent on their way because they couldn't handle rejection from women who were probably out of their league anyway.

The way to handle it is not to retreat to some online woman-hating cult. It's to focus on bettering yourself. Decide the type of woman you want to meet or spend time with, then go to work on making yourself into the type of man she might be attracted to. Then (and only then) do you start worrying about whether or not you're going to find a woman.

Oh, and as far as your last sentence is concerned. None of us can save you. It's something you can only do for yourself by the action you take.

WeirdCanary · 2020-01-02T01:54:27+00:00

Im pretty much in the same place, like any useful knowledge I already got the rest is just woman hating. Okay fine they are flawed people like the rest of us, tend to be wild in their teens and twenties like a lot of guys are as well, don't trust them completely and take it slow fair enough. The rest is pretty garbage though.

brackenz · 2020-01-03T19:40:10+00:00

theres no "saving", if you're really that desperate for company then you might have to lower your standards for women

inb4 I already did

then go rock botton, date a deaf midget girl or an acid burn victim, no way those will reject you

or you could just not make such a big deal about this and simply live your life

RedPill_Dragon · 2020-01-03T06:48:47+00:00

Im a MGTOW monk. I say invest your time in yourself. After redpill, my salary is now greater than $300,000 without any threat from a woman. I don’t do random hookups. I have two cute dogs and I am about to buy a BMW I8 roadster. This would be impossible with a woman in my life.

You can still admire women, simply ensure that you are not used by one. Make sure she brings the same to the table as you do. Same salary, sexual history, education...etc.

I am very happy as MGTOW. You really don’t need a woman in your life. You are complete as you are.

2020-01-09T16:47:53+00:00

Been with both the red pill and MGTOW and i left as soon as i understood what i had to.

Learn from them but DON'T join them.Especially MGTOW, they behave like a damn cult sometimes.

The point of TRP is to open your eyes to how life actually works in place of the crap you were fed since childhood.

It's up to to you how you handle it.

Oh and yes women Aren't worth of your time. A single however, woman/man may be. Treat the blob as you like but judge the individual cautiously.

WeirdCanary · 2020-01-02T01:56:34+00:00

Hell I think my biggest problem is jealousy of their postion in society, but that's really just the hot ones. It's not like they don't have problems too either.

DitaVonCleese · 2020-01-01T22:39:26+00:00

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Title	The red pills taste pretty good... But I know I'm going down a terrible path.
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Date	January 1, 2020 9:53 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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