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I fell in love with a Muslim girl. What now?

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October 10, 2019
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When she told me she used to be Christian but converted to Islam, I was taken aback. Upon further contemplation, I decided that since we worship the same God it's probably ok. How accurate would you say this decision is?


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Title I fell in love with a Muslim girl. What now?
Author spacemanu
Upvotes 0
Comments 26
Date 10 October 2019 11:22 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askRPC
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/304622
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/dg6cpw/i_fell_in_love_with_a_muslim_girl_what_now/
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[–]TheCelloLife11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's definitely not okay. She doesn't recognize Jesus as God, and therefore isn't saved.

[–]Praexology9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

You've posted several times about several blatantly confused Christian ideologies. Stop, read the sidebar, come back in a month.

Mods arrest him.

[–]rocknrollchuck3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

I admire your zeal here, but I think this is a perfectly appropriate place to come and ask questions like this. The guy is obviously confused, as we all once were. This is a great teaching opportunity if you choose to take advantage of it.

Proverbs 15:1-2 "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. 2 The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, but the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness."

[–]Praexology1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Based on his questions I really don't believe he's here for the reasons he says hes here.

He has a post about choosing two girls and which one to sleep with, then a post about dating an islamic girl.

1 week ago he posted about how his ex gf cheated. The guy is using the sub for . . . creative writing lessons maybe? I have a hard time believing all this has happened in a week - that said and I mean this 100% honestly, OP if it has I am genuinely sorry for being immediately combative. That said, I would bet my right hand he's making it up. Humoring his posts inadvertently suggests RPC will handhold someone through the basics of faith, and unless I'm totally off, I don't think thats the focus of this sub.

Now if he were to post the equivalent of this:

I'm a male student teacher in a highschool. If you held a gun to my head, I honestly couldn't tell you who was more childish, the students or the teachers. . . .

I stay out of the drama at all costs because this is what the male teachers do. Not blaming this completely on gender, but most of the male teachers are direct, straightforward with their intentions or opinions and rarely channel their aggression through indirect means. Any tips on how to navigate this environment would be appreciated. I plan to be a principal within 3 years so I'll be using this upcoming semester to learn how to play the game.

Then I would try offering more legitimate advice. However I firmly believe he is deliberately trying to hurt this subs integrity. So I choose to give him crap. At least he is wasting my time instead of someone who may be less concrete about their beliefs.

[–]spacemanu1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's disheartening to receive sarcasm and skepticism on a Christian sub of all places. You seem like you harbor a lot of animosity deep down for whatever reason. I have no reason to lie to you, like the other guy said, I should be able to ask questions to fellow Christians. The girl I'm talking about now is one of the two girls I described in the post from a week ago. All my posts have consistent information if you pay attention to the details. Also, no, this didn't all happen in one week. All of these questions have been in my head for several weeks.

[–]Praexology2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Noted. In response to u/rockandrollchuck 's comment I will be a little more palatable. He is an authority here and I will at least recognize that.

I will say that when you post stuff that is diametrically opposed to the life Christ has in mind for us.

Like this:

I'm not a "spinning plates" type of guy. I was dealt a --------- hand when it comes to the moralistic lottery: It upsets me to have sex with multiple girls at once.

On one hand I have a wild girl. High body count, unstable emotionally, weed smoker and dishonest. But I see her regularly and the sex is pretty ok. On the other hand, I have a girl with high values. Tried to have no sex till marriage (it didn't work). Her body count is 3. THREE including me. She's slim, sexy and caring. Drug free and honest, but I can only see her twice a week and she only does anal at the moment. ---------------

Help me decide, thanks.

At no point in this do I see anything recognizable as a life being lived through Christ's commands. It paints a picture of fruitlessness. Luke-warm Christians are spit out.

"Well I'm a new believer" you might say (if not, let's have a different conversation.)

Okay, well first you should read the Bible, I get it maybe you dont start with the whole thing. Start with the Gospels. Don't take advice from strangers on the internet. I might be the devil for all you know, if your faith is important you need to build your own solid base. This place should NOT be doing the basics for you.

As for your relationships, it sounds like you are trying to find the loophole to justify a relationship that would be in direct contrast to the expectations the word of God has for us. Stop doing that.

And for the love of all that is holy the mods here seem to be quite scripturally sound, so if you are trying to be contrarian to them, I would recommend biting your tongue unless you are genuinely looking for "where does it say this."

[–]rocknrollchuck1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a much more Christ-like answer. Well said brother!

[–]Deep_Strength8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Do not be yoked with unbelievers.

Use this opportunity to work on being consistent on quash your feelings and obey God's commands.

[–]spacemanu0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

When or where did God say that it was a sin to mingle with unbelievers if I may ask? Didn't Jesus command us to love everyone, even our enemies?

[–]Deep_Strength7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

When or where did God say that it was a sin to mingle with unbelievers if I may ask?

2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? 15 Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? 16 Or what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; just as God said, “I will dwell in them and walk among them; And I will be their God, and they shall be My people.

17 “Therefore, come out from their midst and be separate,” says the Lord. “And do not touch what is unclean; And I will welcome you. 18 “And I will be a father to you, And you shall be sons and daughters to Me,” Says the Lord Almighty.

Didn't Jesus command us to love everyone, even our enemies?

Yes in Matthew 5, but that doesn't mean marry them. It's to emulate God who loved us while we were still sinners and sent Christ to die for us, so God can use that example in their life to bring them to salvation.

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[–]_divi_filius2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

hahaha JLP is a legend.

BEYYYYTAAAA

[–]spacemanu-4 points-3 points  (7 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ is the son of our God. Allah is an arabic word that means God, therefore Christians and Muslims worship the same God. What are stats?

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[–]spacemanu-2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy

Jesus is the Son of God. Jesus didn't create the universe in 7 days, God did. God made Mary pregnant with Jesus. Are you telling me there are 2 Gods?

[–]Red-Curious4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

John 1:3 - "Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made."

No, there are not two gods, there is one triune God. If you deny the divinity of Jesus, you are not a Christian and you're free to date whoever you want. So, that's a simple answer to your question. If you are a Christian, then you may not marry someone of another faith, and therefore it's pretty pointless to date someone of another faith.

[–]TheChristianAlpha2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you believe that the Bible, Old Testament and New Testament, are the written word of God?

2nd Timothy 3:16 Says all scripture is god-breathed and profitable for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.

If then you do believe that the Bible is is the written word of God then you need to read the Gospel of John. John, especially the first chapter, is insanely clear in saying that Jesus is God and that he was the creator of all things.

John 1:1-3 says in the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God and without him was not anything made that was made.

Then John 1:14 says and the Word became flesh and dwelt among us. And we have seen his glory, glory has only Son from the Father full of grace and truth.

Honestly it sounds like you haven't read the Bible seriously or you don't believe in it.

[–]rocknrollchuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The trinity is mentioned in the Bible, if not by name. Here is a good article that goes into depth with a good, detailed explanation.

However, the easiest way I have found to explain one God manifested in 3 different forms at the same time is this:

Water, ice, and steam. All 3 are one substance (water) which can be manifested in 3 different forms at the same time - liquid, solid and gas. All 3 are completely and fully water, they just exist in different forms.

  • God the Father (water in its naturally existing state / God in His full, unrestrained glory in heaven)

  • God the Son (water in its solid state / God in human form)

  • God the Holy Spirit (water in its gaseous state / God in spirit form)

Obviously the analogy doesn't do justice to describing the complex nature of an eternal God, which is beyond human understanding. But hopefully a demonstration of the basic idea is helpful.

[–]OrlandoTheAxe4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The request for stats stems from rule 2 of the main sub (/r/rpchristians).

 

2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following:

Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious)

Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc.

Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP)

Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues

Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc.

 

All of these things play an important role in relationships, and it is difficult to give good advice when nobody knows what your current standing is.

AskRPC is a fairly new sub, so the sidebar is a bit underdeveloped. However, the same rules still apply.

[–]OrlandoTheAxe4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The Christian God is not the same god as Allah.

The God of Christianity is a triune being who manifests himself in three ways: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Muslims reject the concept of the trinity. They also do not believe in the deity of Christ. These are important core principles that cannot be glossed over.

This seems like an attempt to rationalize an obviously bad (and unbiblical) relationship. Don't reject or distort the truth over a woman.

 

EDIT: You seem new to the faith, or perhaps you haven't accepted Christ yet. Either way, I'd recommend reading this comment by one of the moderators at RPC. It breaks down the basics of the gospel fairly well, including what you should do to be saved. This is the comment that got me to start participating on this forum.

[–]GiftOfBlackKnighting4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, no.
Especially not for you, because when I look at your last posts you should stay away from anything that is even looking slightly female for months.

Take /u/helaughsinhidden advice in the other thread and go monk mode.

[–]redwall921 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Read this thread.

I think it would apply to your situation.

https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/dg1fxj/im_torn_between_two_women/

[–]Rifleshoot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s the same guy. I’m pretty sure this guy is a troll.

[–]Red-Curious1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The Muslim god is not the Christian God. The Christian God is triune: Father, Son, and Spirit. If they worship a non-triune god, it's not the same god. Cue the stereotypical, yet highly appropriate "don't be yoked together with unbelievers" verse.

Also, you don't "fall in love" with people. You get obsessive infatuations with them. This is called ONEitis. It is a psychological disease that is unhealthy. Why would you feed into it?

[–]rocknrollchuck1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

From the Quran:

Surah 4:157 - That they said (in boast), "We killed Christ Jesus the son of Mary, the Messenger of Allah";- but they killed him not, nor crucified him, but so it was made to appear to them, and those who differ therein are full of doubts, with no (certain) knowledge, but only conjecture to follow, for of a surety they killed him not.

Surah 4:171 - O People of the Book! Commit no excesses in your religion: Nor say of Allah aught but the truth. Christ Jesus the son of Mary was (no more than) a messenger of Allah, and His Word, which He bestowed on Mary, and a spirit proceeding from Him: so believe in Allah and His messengers. Say not "Trinity": desist: it will be better for you: for Allah is one Allah: Glory be to Him: (far exalted is He) above having a son. To Him belong all things in the heavens and on earth.

Surah 5:17 - In blasphemy indeed are those that say that Allah is Christ the son of Mary.

Surah 5:75 - Christ the son of Mary was no more than a messenger; many were the messengers that passed away before him. His mother was a woman of truth. They had both to eat their (daily) food.

Surah 9:31 - They take their priests and their anchorites to be their lords in derogation of Allah, and (they take as their Lord) Christ the son of Mary; yet they were commanded to worship but One Allah: there is no god but He. Praise and glory to Him: (Far is He) from having the partners they associate (with Him).


Clearly these "verses" from the Quran teach that Jesus was only a messenger, not the Son of God. But the Bible teaches that Jesus is the Son of God, equal to the Father. They are NOT the same God, their Jesus is different than the Jesus of the Bible, and all those who follow Islam instead of trusting in Christ and repenting of their sins will end up in the Lake of Fire. Make no mistake about that.

[–]Rifleshoot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she’s not a Christian, then it is not advised to date her.



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