Good evening gents. I have used machiavellianist charm to advance myself with friends and at work. It’s like magic and it’s fun!

But with women I find, being charming can come off the wrong way if attraction isn’t already established.

I prefer to use the quartet where I’m cold at first then am charming, then cold again, etc.

Is this right game style or am i overthinking and should just lift and increase smv?