So I’m 27M who has been out of the dating/plating world for the last 2 years by choice; ive had offers of casual hook ups but never took them. I’ve only relatively recently discovered the red pill and am working my way through the sidebar and recently started reading the rational male. My point is I’m super green. I have almost no experience in implementing red pill theory. Because of the red pill I have been working out and trying to get bigger (I’m a fairly skinny guy; I’m 180cm and weigh 67kg) and am focusing on my goals and aims. So i recently got tinder and bumble and have gone on a few dates with different women. I met a really interesting girl (i know there are no unicorns but i’m just enjoying her company for now) and we are going on our second date next week. However 2 days ago i went over to my neighbours house (a share house) and ended up closing with one of the women living there; she loved it. After the deed i left obviously. She asked me “do you want to see me again?” to which i said yes. I took her number texted her the next day saying i had a good time and we should do it again sometime soon. She responded in the affirmative. I’m not interested in dating this woman, only hooking up. Her english is not very good and her confidence in her english is far worse so it would be difficult to game her through text. Now I’m wondering a few things:

  1. How do i initiate contact and see if she wants to hook up again? We are literal neighbours and I and i don’t want to trigger her ASD.
  2. How do i gauge whether shes cool with our interaction being casual hook ups or if shes after more?
  3. How do i avoid misleading her about the nature of our interactions? I don’t want to give her the impression I’m after a relationship since im not. Should i be direct and talk to her? (I’ve read “the talk- how to talk back”)
  4. I know red pill is amoral. But my blue pill housemates (Females and males) are telling me that it’s wrong to become physically involved when going on dates with different women. Which i disagree with; this is the concept of spinning plates, no? You are not in a committed relationship, you are having a good time and theres nothing to stop you having a good time with others? I personally don’t see anything wrong with it.
  5. Also how do i pass the inevitable shit-test of being asked if i’m seeing other women/sleeping with other women? Is there a specific Redpill text regarding shit-testing that i can learn some basics? (currently reading “everything you need to know about shit testspost)
  6. A more general question: How can I learn to be funnier? Generally my instinct is to take things more literally/seriously than not and I’d like to become funnier. Any texts to learn from?

Thanks