Since I got jacked and changed my entire wardrobe and took care myself, I became muscular and good looking, I am having hard time finding male friends, it wasn’t like this before, when I didn’t used to lift and look like a shit and smoked weed, I had lot of male friends and keeping them around was no problem, but since I raised my smv I find it harder to find male friends that I enjoy of course, I am still in college and tried my best to be friends with guys but they all they do is make short conversations and avoid me, now it’s pretty obvious that’s it’s about the way I look, even in my student job a girl told me ‘’ I don’t know why men hate you’’ she finally said ‘’ it’s jealousy they are envious’ ( some guy probably told her that he hate me because she was the one to start this topic), Last time there was a party every other guy was invited but me, I never gave up but today I was really frustrated, so I tried again and started talking to this guy in my college , we really was connecting, but as soon he saw how ladies talk to me and how fit and well dressed I was, all his attitude changed towards me , fu** déjà vu, it really sucks not having close male friends, because there is lot of thing I don’t find myself comfortable telling to women who are really receptive to me. why some men have to be like this ? acting all insecure when I start to talk to them in front of their female friends or girlfriends, even this guy is the gym who I always initiate conversations with him and compliment him, as soon his girl come, avoid eye contact with me and even stopped talking to me, there is also this guy in work who stopped talking to me because I Talked to his ex, just talked I swear !! and countless of stories like this, it seems that they respect me more for looking more strong but damn I can feel the envy and the mate guarding. I am not an asshole when it come to male friends, when I am talking to a male in front of other girls I always try to compliment him and not to bring him down, but it’s like a dead end. guys see me now as thereat for the reproductions chances and not a potential male friend.
where to meet close male friends who accept the way you are ? and if you have one? how did you do it ?
I talking about close male friend, not a just a guy who you talk to the gym or work from time to time .
sorry for any grammer mistake, english is not my first language