Does hooking up with low value women lowers my value?

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January 3, 2020
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I usually bang girls that are sluts, have their tits out on instagram, usually one or two per week I rotate them constantly as I lose interest after

But I dont unfollow them or anything cause i dont care

would it lower my smv when i only bang girls that are easy? they are usually average face with big ass/tits and are boring but they do their job well so i stick with that

should i try to bang some higher quality girls?

i have hobbies, i lift, i go out with my friends and fucking girls is just when i’m bored so should i even care about the quality of them


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Title Does hooking up with low value women lowers my value?
Author chuchurr
Upvotes 78
Comments 60
Date 03 January 2020 07:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/306350
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[–]JameisBong176 points177 points  (19 children) | Copy

No,just don't take them seriously. Sluts are for recreational use only.

[–]chuchurr[S] 37 points38 points  (18 children) | Copy

thats what i was thinking but i started thinking that maybe i could increase the quality of women i get because right now all of them have lower value than me

[–]JameisBong31 points32 points  (16 children) | Copy

That's technically true, you need to pursue better prospects,dont get too comfortable with easy pussy.

[–]dasani72 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I disagree. If u can get easy pussy then do so... Y would u wanna work hard for it

[–]JameisBong2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Always be improving game wise that is. Why keep gaming easy sluts? Complete waste of time.

[–]chuchurr[S] 2 points3 points  (13 children) | Copy

how and where to choose a better pussy? so far i only fuck girls from clubs, tinder or instagram so im not sure what to seek in a girl so she’s down to fuck but not that low

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

At the grocery store from 6 am - 9 am... not even joking

[–]JameisBong4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, I've done instacart on the side,high end grocery stores have the best 7's and 8's. Clubs have all the fatties and 9's with daddy issues.

[–]Diche_Bach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That sounds very accurate!

[–]JameisBong21 points22 points  (9 children) | Copy

No clubs or tinder, Instagram is actually fine. Try cold approaching in places like Starbucks, the gym,organic food markets like trader Joe's.

[–]chuchurr[S] 23 points24 points  (8 children) | Copy

isnt approaching in the gym kind of shitting where i eat? ill try to step up my game in the rest tho thanks man

[–]JameisBong17 points18 points  (6 children) | Copy

The gym is fine, if it doesn't work out so what? She can't interfere with your lifts. Work is the only place i would say no, everywhere else is fine. Also try picking up new hobbies like golf or tennis. The women who play the two are usually higher quality than your average woman.

[–]Domebeers8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy

ehh golf hoes are all careerist, stay away. A tennis hoe is usually trying to pick up a rich guy but at least she isn't a careerist.

[–]JameisBong9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

True,but OP wants quality. Tinder sluts and club sluts aren't doing it for him anymore.

[–]Domebeers6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

A thing I do is go to a professional building and go into a random office, pretend I'm lost or some shit, and spark up a conversation with the secretary. They are usually hot. I won't speak to 'quality' because YMMV

[–]Diche_Bach-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Laundromats in posh areas.

[–]GiraffeOnWheels0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m curious on what you mean by “quality“. Are you fucking ugly girls or do they suck in bed?

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. And people who don't care don't say they don't care and don't make reddit posts about it. You'll get away with occasionally fucking a girl you shouldn't have on a night out while drunk. But when you're habitually fucking low-value women it's because you're low-value as well.

If you'd be seeing high-quality women and doing other interesting things you honestly wouldn't even have the energy to text one of those girls...

If you can fuck a hot slut, do it. But nothing in your post tells me this is the case. Everything tells me you're fucking girls you don't really want to fuck because you can't get anything better. And you protect your ego by thinking you can get better simply because you ignore them and there is assumably a high quantity of these girls out there.

[–]Massap2437 points38 points  (4 children) | Copy

Over thinking this banging sluts is okay. Preselection applies when women see that other women want you, it makes them curious. Unless these sluts are like 3/10 it will only help you. If you find these sluts attractive bang them, any advice saying for you not to because of what a woman will think is beta af.

[–]chuchurr[S] 13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

they are easy and make me cum as many times as i want but after that im not attracted to them and i wouldnt want them again

i would say i like getting new girls cause its exciting and gives some validation but i wouldnt chase them too much

[–]TRPGaveMeLife0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What’s your technique to pull this off?

[–]PrettyBarbiePerson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ewwey lmao if there’s one thing I learned, if I’m disappointed after nut it’s because I’m ashamed.

Or if I don’t find her attractive at all after nut, oh the worst shame

[–]1jacques_cousteau00740 points41 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yes. It’s called preselection

If a girl walks into a bar you’re already in, and you’re chatting up everyone and holding court by the bar, she will assume you’re high SMV and desirable

If she finds your social media before your first tinder date, and sees pictures of you with your fat ugly ex, she will assume the opposite

[–]chuchurr[S] 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

what if she sees i follow a lot of girls (not fat ugly just average)? a lot of my interactions start from either tinder or instagram should i unfollow them or what should i do to attract higher value women

[–]second-last-mohican10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

As long as you are not in the photos it's all good.. chicks don't have enough spare time to scroll through your followers ffs

[–]febreze_air_freshner15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

I disagree, I've had a couple girls admit they went through my followers to see if the girls k followed looked like them.

[–]StephenHawkingsEars3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holding court. Gonna take that one :) thank you,

[–]sjswander942 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the right answer OP. Preselection is a real thing. If your surrounded by hot girls or have tons of pics with hot girls on your ig she will assume(whether it’s true or not) that you have higher value then the hotties which is why they’re always around you. If she sees you with fatties or uglies or thotties, it will certainly lower your perceived smv.

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy

If guys started shunning them they would have to be more desirable but I guess there is always some thirsty dude that will bang a skank.

Bleh.

I'd rather rub one out than deal with a low value woman.

[–]chuchurr[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

they are good at sex that’s all i wanted but now i wanna game some higher value women do u have any tips how to get out of this easy pussy trap?

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would think it would be like lifting. Does 20 reps of a feather do as much as 5 reps at max weight? More low value sex is wasted time...

If you are banging slutty 5/6s just stop. Be busy doing anything else. Learn something new, mentor someone, anything other than think about low value pussy. The use the sidebar for tips on approaching the higher value women.

You might be in the trap of needing validation through sex which is an inner struggle you need to focus on either through therapy or self help and trusted friends.

Good luck man.

[–]nexther0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah by approaching girls you find really attractive. Easy.

[–]kclanton8010 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

If you have to ask the question then you must feel your value is being lowered.....

Honestly it's not good for your esteem. Especially when you're banging chicks you don't even want to be seen with in public. Everybody has had some slumpbusters in their day.... But they should not be the norm. Pursue better!

You are going after the low-hanging fruit because you don't have confidence that you can get more high quality women. Otherwise there would be zero reason to do it

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Wow. It's my 24th today and I went home with some absolute pig. When I came I had no idea why I did it. GOod rule of thumb - no more pigs no matter how desperate.

This is why I love this forum. You pick up little tips and tricks which will ultimately make you lead your best life possible.

[–]kclanton804 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wise decision. Honestly.... I would rather jerk off then sleep with some fat pig. You're still risking STDs and pregnancy after all...

I try to only deal with women that if I found out they got pregnant ...I wouldn't be completely disappointed in them being forced to stay a part of my life(if the baby was kept etc). Can you imagine slipping up with one of these pigs and having to pay them child support for 18 years? Financials are also something I look at when sleeping with women these days. When I was younger I might consider picking up a cashier from Walmart.....Now I could be that chicks golden ticket to doing nothing for 18 years, and I take that into consideration.

trust.... every time you sleep with someone you risk them becoming a part of your life long term. Look for women who are attractive and who have something going for themselves. It's fine to not have constant access to sex, with multiple women. search for some quality ones that you might want to keep around for a couple months or a couple years.

My longest play was a gorgeous Latina who I slept with for about 4 years. I much rather take time finding that type of situation than to take anything that comes my way.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well the worst part about it is that she was in her late 40s... an old fat pig. So no chance of pregnancy. But yeah I know what you mean generally I think. By "not completely disappointed" do you mean women that you would be happy to be seen in public with? Or women you'd want your daughter to be like? (not slutty, educated, good job, keeps fit etc)

Quality over quantity now 110%.

[–]Cheeseydick696914 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

Be seen with desirable women.

I don't remember where I heard this but " fat chicks are like scooters, they're fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see you with one."

[–]2319Skew3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If they are hot then no.

If they are ugly, fat, old then yes.

[–]Zanford2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It only lowers your value if higher-value people find out about it, and/or it becomes a crutch that saps your desire to shoot higher

Or you get an STD

[–]MarvelousWhale2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Does hooking up with x make me x?

No it does not. Doubting your desires/goals does, however. Worrying about other people's opinions and gauging success based on their perspective and not your preferences and perspective will guarantee you second place at life, at best.

Don't set yourself up for failure by doubting the path you choose to take to success. You need to walk the path you instinctively feel you want to.

That being said, low quality vs high quality is subjective and varies greatly from man to man, almost all of my friends drool over big titted blondes where I can't stand their bimbo personalities, and prefer to go for the tattooed dyed hair goth or punk bitch that my buddies wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. I absolutely could not care less what they think, and you can bet your sweet ass that they've commented on it at every opportunity.

There is no right or wrong, only what YOU want vs what YOU don't want. Everything else is just noise of the matrix. If you feel you're going easy on yourself by going for the 3 because you're afraid of the hunt for a 7, you're cheating yourself. If you're afraid of your friends opinions that they look down on you for hooking up with a 3, but to YOU she's a 7, fuck their opinion. You do you.

[–]Davidfosford1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

yes, high-quality women will see you as not high quality, but also you are surrounding yourself with traumatized women with daddy issues. To attract those girls you have to dance around their trauma and lie and manipulate them to get sex

[–]EinsteinPicasso1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"You can't touch without being touched."

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, sperm is cheap. You don't lose value by giving it away.

[–]redmaxz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Only if you tell the whole world that girls are low value.

[–]johncillo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No, remember the power of pre-selection, according to Mystery Method they are your lever to achieve better looking girls, use them as your advantage, if they are your friends you can kind of use them as “wingmen”

[–]Thefreeman9110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's a ladder my friend, either stay on your step or start climbing.

[–]jenovajunkie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No, why would it.

[–]1MrTheFalcon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you're asking the question, then maybe there is a better use of your time. It could be time to set a goal and achieve it. You'll find sex along the way, but it will be more gratifying because it's secondary to your mission.

[–]mickenrorty0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Quality over quantity is advised for sex. 2 a week on rotation seems to tricky for me personally,

Sex is just like any drug... you don’t want to over do it

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, it does.

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You answered your own question in the title.

[–]TheeSakred0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I personally only go for high smv, and curve most average girls. Anyone can get low hanging fruit.

[–]RompeChocha0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Are you having fun? Shit, I've been banging some older not good lookin woman for 2 years now. Not a looker, but she knows how to ride my dick.

[–]Ghrev_2330 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

hooking up with low value women?

it does give you some confidence and some abundance mindset.

it lowers your value when you're seen around with them. preselection and DHV my dude.

[–]hopelesshotel0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yes

[–]Mr_Badass0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If the world was an RPG game you are like a Level 17 warrior killing Level 4 monsters. Yes you will get some experience from killing but it won't be as satisfying killing monsters your own level. If you want to improve fuck quality girls...if you just want to have fun go fuck 4/10s lol.



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