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I have 12 hours worth of travel. Let's do it newbies. Ask your basic questions.

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January 3, 2020
28 upvotes

Fuck China. The country is a bunch of drones.

I stayed at the Park Hyatt Shanghai and the service there is unbelievably shit despite having 3 staff per every customers. At a 5 star place, you'd expect staff to be paying attention for non-verbal cues. Wrong. They spend their time autistically doing who knows what, but it sure as shit isn't responding correctly. Reminds me of another group of people...

Here's the last time I did this.

Also - the plan is to do a livestream of this weeks OYS posts on 1/4 @ 1PM Central, 8 PM France time when I'm in Lyon.

Edit : sorry guys. I fucked that up. No wifi on that A380 flight. I'll get to questions soon as I can.


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Title I have 12 hours worth of travel. Let's do it newbies. Ask your basic questions.
Author weakandsensitive
Upvotes 28
Comments 113
Date 03 January 2020 01:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/306400
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/ejfoor/i_have_12_hours_worth_of_travel_lets_do_it/
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[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret22 points23 points  (3 children) | Copy

[–]OptimusRP4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was fucking hilarious

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Meh. He thought of us as equals. I didn't think about him.

[–]RStonePT3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ha, he's your jack10

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do you eat ass on date 1?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're a freak.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

It’s a common observation on China / drones.

I’ve been reading “Decoding China”; one of the central points is how different non-verbal and basic structures of communication are so different. My point is they may just not understand your cues - but in a Western hotel in Shanghai- that’s some bullshit alright.

There bot mentality is apparently a huge problem in every industry. I’ve told my to-be partner that I’m not anywhere as sharp as I was 20 years ago when we last worked together. He basically said as far as innovations go I’m still 100x better than the average Chinese scientists/engineers. He says there super knowledgeable / but just can’t make the leaps.

Is this your first time to China? You’re Chinese if I remember right. Yes; I’ve never been to Ireland.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What China (Shanghai) has done is import a bunch of high end hoit culture thinking that having the brands is what is impressive. So you walk around the Shanghai IFC seeing Gucci with a red rope for an empty store. All the while, every single employee is heads down, fingerfucking on their phone.

What China has failed to realize is that those brands are valuable because of the attention to detail put into those brands, not the fact that those brands are well recognized. The end result is that they have high end stuff, sure, but it's completely devalued because China has missed the mark on the "why" and instead focused on the "what".

The what is always easier than the why. "Go to the gym. Lift some weights." Not "continually build yourself so you understand the limits of your capabilities."

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

If you ever make it to Ireland, give me a shout.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh, no wonder you're such a fuckhead! Cheers!

[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

What value do you still find in this for yourself.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Worst AMA ever.

[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's like he isn't trying

Oh. Wait

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Whoops.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's nice watching people grow. not often that you see a sociology experiment in real time.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

What's the best way to dispose of a body?

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is remarkably similar in character to most of the askMRP questions, oddly.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

My wife bumped up my life insurance and I found cut brake lines in my car, should I be worried?

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Worried about the car, sure.

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Finally someone asked. Following...

[–]PersaeusRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Knowing a pig farmer really well

[–]ImNotSlash0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

[–]cyclone19910 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Never have a heart attack, stoke or pass out in a hog pen. It never ends well, they will eat anything. Put me blindfolded in a pen of hogs and I can tell you if it filled with male or female pigs.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The cambodians were able to do it pretty well.

[–]ImNotSlash2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

How'd you end up in mrp?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

I don't really remember. It was around 2015 when TRP was blowing up big, but I thought TRP was a bunch of edgy twinks (still do) and someone pointed linked married red pill. It was a smaller community (3000 or so?) and it was more grounded.

I called some people retarded faggots like they deserved, and the community responded well. So, I stuck around. There've been a couple of communities where it didn't, so I didn't.

[–]JoeBuckYourslf10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

TRP has gone to shit. The sub is filled with garbage posts.

There is still value there but you have to dig a bit. MRP is leaps and bounds ahead of that place and it ain’t even close.

[–]mrpmonk7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

I always felt MRP has significantly more mature men and content than TRP. Is it because wives shit tests make men better, stronger and more resilient?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

you actually have to be able to fuck women when you talk about fucking women.

i assume that the men who are married have at least fucked and been in a committed relationship with 1 woman. can't guarantee or say the same about trp.

[–]mrpmonk2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

How can you be polygamous without cheating?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cheating is more of an issue because of the breach of trust than the actual act of fucking another person.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hit that one on the head.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ask your wife to open your marriage, that should go well.

Without too much op sec my wife and I have been banging young 20 somethings for a couple years now. Helps she is bisexual. Works for us but I can see how some of you would be playing with dynamite.

[–]2112311username2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Is MRP still a place to participate if you're separated, and unsure whether you want to get back, however still working a plan.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

MRP is the place to go if you have a low tolerance for bullshit and no desire to be coddled and no desire to be a victim. What your exact circumstances are don't really matter.

if you're separated, and unsure whether you want to get back,

Why would you want to go back?

[–]2112311username0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

So MRP is appropriate whether you're M or not?

Why go back? Because I came to this too late and am not able to prevent separation. If I could have I would have remained together while working the plan.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

She doesn't want you.

The problem for you is that there's no one else in the world that wants you either.

Fix the latter problem first.

[–]arm_candy1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're wallowing in your self-created pit of ambiguity. Do you want to fucking separate or not? If yes, then stop dragging your feet and just get it done. If not, then sit her down and tell her you think the idea of separating was rushed, and that you want to delay it to "work on your marriage" (work on you).

From what I can tell you really want more time, so just tell her that. Right now you still haven't told her that because you can't handle the ego bruising of just admitting that you were wrong. The top reply in your "oh, no, I've started separation proceedings" post told you specifically to put the separation on hold. You didn't respond to that (or any of the similar replies) despite replying to other comments with your plan to passive-aggressively force her through some relationship workshop as a pre-req for separation counseling. Put your ego aside and just tell her you changed your mind. She might say she doesn't care and that you can go fuck yourself. Or she might agree it's rushed and give you time. But at least then you'll know and also know that you at least tried.

Or you can keep doing your unattractive passive-aggressive thing until she forces the divorce and you can keep pretending that there was literally nothing you could do.

[–]2112311username0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't want more time. I think I was bargaining. I've made up my mind on the separation, as painful as it is. I want out, she wants out. Who knows what happens in the future but this is the right thing now.

[–]threekindsoflucky2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Whats the reoccurring theme you have personally observed in the majority of OYS posts over the years for those who have not been successful, and for those who have?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The ability to be introspective and then act on it. The acting part is hard. Sometimes it requires pushing the boundaries of comfort.

[–]redpillruminations1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've finally got the masts up and charting course on the USS PussyDestroyer. Do I actively discuss mission and help FO find her place? If so, how? Or wait until mini events / main event, when she comes asking, to share? Basically, how do you officially promote wife to FO and get to Phase 2 (true captain / FO).

I'm autistically creating a maze for her based on my vision but feel that I haven't spoken my vision into existence. She isn't bought in, and as such, isn't stepping up as my FO.

It may be that my SMV isn't high enough yet as a limiting factor, I'd still like to have this playbook on hand for when the time comes.

Thanks for any help and safe travels.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Do you need a FO or this FO?

[–]redpillruminations0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's a fair question at this point.

[–]OptimusRP1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I have recently realized my mission, however, I don't expect that my wife will get onboard because we are so different. My gut instinct tells me to carry out my mission regardless (alpha) but what beta skills/techniques would you recommend to help inspire her to join me?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're asking the wrong questions.

[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Whats your favorite hot sauce?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Can you go wrong with Franks?

[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Frank's? Geez...you're lucky I already respect you. I like to keep my hot sauce spicier than my woman.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I prefer not to have my ass violated on the back end.

I've learned this more than a few times in my life.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

Every time I try to flirt, I come off as super corny. How do I make it more serious?

Also, should I shave my chest hair?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 14 points15 points  (8 children) | Copy

Every time I try to flirt, I come off as super corny. How do I make it more serious?

What does this even mean?

Also, should I shave my chest hair?

Into the shape of a penis. Demonstrates virility.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

Into the shape of a penis. Demonstrates virility.

Grows that way naturally, guess I'm a true Alpha.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

And I'm guessing that your body language isn't serious in terms of intent.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Probably not. I know it's a dumb question, that's why I was sitting on it until you posted an ask noob questions thread.

I assume the old PUA threads are the go to for body language stuff?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Non-verbal communication is pretty key. I'd read about the psychology behind non-verbal communication as well. E.g. what's regarded as personal space vs not.

There was a twitter guy who just released a video series on it recently.

I know it's a dumb question,

You have to give me more details if you want more depth

[–]Bcomingr80 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Got the name or links for that?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Probably

[–]Bcomingr80 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

That would be cool to know more about the info from the guy on Twitter. Thanks

[–]HeckleandChide2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's an attraction issue.

Attractive guy flirts in a corny way. Woman thinks it's "cute" and "so nice that he's not Mr. Smooth like the players."

Average guy flirts in a corny way. Woman thinks it's boring and probably dismisses him offhand.

Unattractive guy flirts in a corny way. Woman thinks it's creepy and tells him to piss off before she calls the cops.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's probably it. I'm at a point where I don't think many women would call me unattractive, but I'm not hot either.

[–]so_woke_da_wookie0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

If you were a creative, technically minded and good with people. However you had always worked outside the mainstream (the arts/startups/freelancing). And were over 40 what would you do immediately to increase your cashflow and longterm options?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don't know. Never been in that position or thought about it.

Try pimping?

[–]so_woke_da_wookie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I haven’t kept my pimp hand strong, That’s why I’m here.

[–]go-RED-go0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Are you married / divorced? How much experience you have with LTR's? How old are you?

[–]ImNotSlash2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

I don't miss many fuckers around here but I've missed you! Still dodging frying pans?

[–]go-RED-go2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not anymore. It seems like the frying pan days are over. Who would have tought, when you focus on yourself, she stops being the problem and your own personal unfixed shit starts to emerge. And if you try to dodge your own shit without dealing with them, they come back again and hit you harder then a tousand fryng pans.

[–]ImNotSlash1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

she stops being the problem

Wait until the day you realize she never was the problem.

Hope the kid(s) are good. Happy New Year!

[–]go-RED-go0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yea, I know - she never was! Kid is amazing! Happy New Year!

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Married. 33. A few relationships and some friends.

[–]buckeyeboy19770 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

Best books on gaming the old wifey?

[–]arm_candy7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy

I would love to see this one answered. Everyone says to read Bang or Day Bang or similar but those are pickup books. The techniques you use for strangers are not all the same you use for close relations.

"Hey, is that the new iPhone Galaxy? What do you think about it?"

"What? You literally bought me this phone. Are you having a stroke?"

[–]ImNotSlash4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sex God Method is one.

[–]go-RED-go1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Practical female psychology + MMSLP + Bluepill Proffesors book on Dread for married man (I wish i've read this book before going Rambo...)

Those books were more useful to me then Bang for gaming my wife.

Allthough I see Bang being useful for later phases when you go out in the world, flirt with other woman and practice abundance mentality/ killing the oneitiss.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wrong approach. Game people.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Practical female psychology for the practical man. The OG text. First though you must realize your wife is a woman ; just like any other woman. Utterly disposable

[–]tap09885340 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Would you have ever predicted that you would be less of a beta bitch in LTR than Mystery?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I always thought wearing a boa was sad. I never bought into peacocking at that level.

[–]tap09885340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do you think a flashing green ELO mesh half-shirt is too much? Maybe I should wait til I get down to 40% bf?

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How do you cope with puppies being killed in front of your face to make your eggrolls?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bangkok is surprisingly developed.

[–]BarracudaRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The stream was great, I hope you'll consider doing it again.

[–]RStonePT0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How important do you find it to source your Chinese distributer in person vs doing your due diligence online (e.g. ordering moq samples)

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

If I read the books and follow all the rules on MRP, will I get friends and have sex often?

I hate to ask, but why do all of this if I don't get friends and get no sex.

Reading here I know I could do well. I can fix brakes lines and already know how to get rid body. I also happy to get sex from HB 3's and 4's. Can I join? Pleasy please.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No.

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OK.

What if I paid $20 $40?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes



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