Everyone's heard it. You're a simp. He's a simp. She's a simp. Maybe you get freaked out by hearing it "Holy shit, is everyone RP aware now? Wow!!!" nope. Simp is an interesting word, how its overused & misused by people is even more interesting.

99% of young people 17 & under completely misuse the term simp... and still even if you get into the young adult bracket of college and early 20s, I would say more than half of them misuse it, more than 90% when it comes to girls using it (new shaming tactic, the new YOU'RE NOT A REAL MAN!!! of the 1950s - 2010s) As always, ignore everything women say, only their actions/intentions/narratives matter.

A simp is a man who puts women on a pedestal. Simple enough? A simp is a man who will be really nice to a women expecting sex or some other types of favors in return, and be bitter or upset or angry if its never received.

However, to the mainstream norm the definition is: A simp is a man who will be really nice to a women

Being kind or friendly to a women, helping them just because it makes you feel good and you don't lose anything from it doesn't make you a simp. If you have 0 interest in getting sexual with them now or in the future why do so many people care if you're nice to her? Being a decent human being as opposed to selfish & cold to all women, especially those you don't have any sexual relationship with simply because they're women... doesn't make you a simp. In fact i'd argue we need a new term for the psychology of this age, because anyone who cares so much about women and views reality through this perspective - that they have to treat all women they interact with in life a certain way & avoid seeming nice at all cost, is indeed a simp. That's giving them too much power, too much importance, putting them on a pedestal... when they should have absolutely 0 power or influence in your decisions. An anti-simp? Yes I like that, just like an anti-hero, you're still a hero... just in another way.

All the people who call people simps irl? Are indeed... simps, and blue pill mindset. Thus proving TRP isn't mainstream. So now you see the truth, lets dig further... we now know most people who use the word simp have no idea of the true meaning or purpose behind the word. It's not to define a guy a label, its to define a mindset, a way of thinking that a guy has. Therefore you can't determine a man to be a simp through one or even 10 different actions, you have to closely examine the intent, agenda, purpose & motive behind the actions. Who is this guy really? How is his default operating system like?

Also it shouldn't be ignored, female simps exist too. But what do you mean!? Females get sex from the guy all the time & really easily, how can they be simps? They're not simps for sex, they're simps for commitment, LTRs, and ultimately marriage. The things high value men gate keep. Sadly the female simp is a lot more dangerous, because they're women they believe they have so much privilege & power that they can just force a guy to be truly in love with them, due to society they received so much validation for simply being a woman they believe as long as they're super nice to a guy & do everything they possibly can to make his life better... he will be in love with them. Unfortunately love doesn't work that way at all, in fact being a female simp demonstrates to the guy that he's much higher value, even if he's super beta in lifestyle & frame he knows he can find a much better women to LTR & marry than the female simp now. Attraction ruined forever, true love with that woman is forever dead with the man, and he wants to search for a better women who knows how to be sexy & generate love while still compromising her value, without simping. The female simp will feel entitled to you, the high value man, your time, your affection, your love, your money your status your quality lifestyle your friends your apartment/condo/house/car... your something. She will do all she can to keep what she has "earned" for fucking you or being so "friendly" to you, and lash out in a toxic manner if you deny her things. Or get upset about seemingly nothing, start arguments, conflict & tension from thin air.

This is furthered by the fact... women aren't told to improve themselves nearly as much as guys. They're told only to improve their outer beauty, their physical appearance. If they party, drink, love drama, tattoos, tinder, tik tik etc etc literally a million degenerate things they're unwilling to change?

For a guy, if a women doesn't like him initially or doesn't like something about him in the relationship he's just told the same thing again & again... improve, improve, improve. Most guys who have been consistently doing this for years eventually realize the truth - they're already good enough, in fact they're more than fucking good enough for 90%+ of non fat women in this western society. They're the prize. It's just a matter of staying in that cycle of growth, for confidence, power, to get to or more easily conquer the women they consider to be hb 8s, 9s, and god forbid---- 10s.

Its okay, a lot of newbie RP guys fall into this trap, our whole society is beginning to be built on putting women on pedestals with the dominance of social media, tik tok, dating apps. In frustration and despair, everyone will throw around "simp" ironically, or maybe unironically not knowing that they themselves are indeed simps... and value women above themselves.