So, I've generally been lucky in that I'm apparently unnaturally practical for a woman and through simple practicality wound up in a well-fitted relationship. So TRP for me wasn't so much sexual theory applied as a collection of gender theories, general sexual theory and what not. However, all I've learned just goes to show that even being a "NAWALT unicorn" or a "NAMALT manicorn" (ie: pretty lucky in your decisions and their outcomes) you can learn something from TRP.

So I'd like to thank the guys at askTRP who helped me out when I was working on limiting accidental IOIs or easily misread behavioural patterns. I won't name names in case they wouldn't approve but you know who you are, and I'd just like to confirm that the advice (so far) works. I'm a lot more comfortable expanding my work now I know how to continue in a ladylike and polite manner without giving the wrong impression.

I'd like to thank everyone at TRP for illustrating to me how men and women work in terms of all sorts of interpersonal relationships, for showing me why certain types of women act in a certain way and why men and women are in so much conflict in the modern world. All this has cleared up so many points of confusion to me as well as given me material to work my own theories out and apply them, with varying success, to my life. The reduction in drama and stress simply from knowing when to cut someone out, when to push them and when to let them recover is astonishing.

And I'd like to thank the girls over at RPW for providing the harsh reminder that even girls who check off a lot of "unicorn boxes" are fallible and replaceable, that I am always a work in progress and that I do possess many negative feminine traits; as well as the gentle support I need when less traditional women and feminist individuals in my life start acting up and hamstering at me.

Overall, I have managed to cut out of my life those people who were a drain on me and those relationships that were negatively impacting both sides, to improve my relationship with my students and to reduce the stress of dealing with certain male or female behaviours that were confusing and frustrating to me. My life is so much more pleasant and easier now that all that mess is off my shoulders. I am grateful and look forward to learning more.