Been seeing a hot 24 year old for over a year now. I don't see her often, 4-7 times a month maybe. She ran into my friend at the bar last night and he was telling her what a nice guy I was and that she should treat me right and all that and she told me she likes how nice I am to her and how I treat her how she wants to be treated. Yet she told me months into the relationship that she likes assholes and she told her friend I'm too nice.
Now compare me to her ex. A guy she dated for 4 years. A guy who cheated on her multiple times, yet she got back together with him. A guy who hit her, calls her a cunt, bitch, whore, retard, stupid, all that. She said it was fun and hot dating an asshole when she was younger because it would keep her on her toes and she didn't want to fuck up. But now she's 24 and wants to be treated how she deserves to be treated.
Then there's me. The guy who somehow fills this nice guy role. I don't pay for her, we always split, we hardly argue, I put my work and gym before her, don't compliment her, yet she still views me as the nice guy. I don't get it. But I'm not the type to cheat or call her names.
I may not be redpilled yet, but I know that chicks dig jerks, love the emotional roller coaster that they put her through, all that shit. I just don't know where I went wrong. I don't want to be seen as the beta that she settles with.