Dear Diary,

OK, so been a minute. But this post has taken me some time to put together as it tends to be more specific, actionable things to do in the bedroom.

So, you are fucking her ass like the slut she is, and now you need to keep upping the ante. Well, here are some ideas to spice up your sexual adventures.

Maybe you are already doing all this, and hey that’s great. Why didn’t you take the fucking time to write this post then?

That’s what I thought.

Safewords and Safe Gestures

Fitchick and I have evolved to two sets of safe words. We have the standard Yellow/Red for non-rape fantasies. Then we have another set of words for rape/resisted sex play. The reason is, during the rape/resisted sex scenarios she needs to be able to say the words "No, you are hurting me, please stop" etc and you need both need to be safe in knowing these words are not real, right now. They are all actually really hot to hear, so go for it.

For this standard Yellow/Red do not apply so you need a second set of designated words. You also need "safe gestures" for you both in case she has her underwear in her mouth gagging her, or something else.

We have two safe gestures: Extreme, rapid eye blinking and/or finger snapping. In case of blindfold, you cant see eyes, so you do not restrain fingers. And vice-versa. This gives you visual clues. In the case of safe gestures, we consider then the same level of RED, so all actions stop immediately.

Level 1: Safe Words

  • Blindfold her.
  • Tying her hands behind her back.
  • Pinning her hands above her head while you are on top.
  • Biting her ears.
  • Biting/pulling/pinching her nipples.
  • Slap her ass when in doggy.
  • Life up her shirt to her face and use it as a gag and/or blindfold. Works well with hands above head.

Level 2: Safe Words

  • Order her to masturbate while you watch.
  • Order her to undress herself while you sit on the other side of the room to supervise.
  • Facefucking.
  • Facefucking with her hair in pony tails using them as rains.
  • Order her to her knees to perform oral in front of a full length mirror.
  • Grab the back of her neck during oral and force yourself deeper into her mouth.

Level 3: Safe Words

  • Finger her, then order her to taste herself off your finger. Bonus points for anal, ensure sanitary conditions.
  • Pull her hair with one hand, then two.
  • Grab to fist fulls of hair when you are on top, placing all your weight into the mattress and order her to maintain eye contact while you pound her.
  • During any sexual act, calling her your whore/slut.
  • Pin her against the wall face first and fuck her while standing up.

Level 4: Safe Gestures

  • Place a clothing hook over your door, handcuff her then put the cuffs over the hook. Use a leg spreader to open her legs, then fuck her from behind. Add in blindfolds and gags as desired.
  • In doggy, pull her hands behind her back forcing her face into the mattress. Order her to hold her own hands while you place your non-dominate hand on the back of her head pushing it harder and deeper into the mattress.
  • Tear off her underwear, and use them as a gag, in any of the previous scenarios.
  • Order her to her knees to perform oral. Tower over her, and while you face fuck her, order her to maintain eye contact with you. Verbal commands and sexual name calling is required.
  • Standing from behind, or in doggy reach around to her face and place your fingers in her mouth like a bit a horse chews on. Ensure lots of verbal cues are used "My dirty little slut."
  • Standing from behind or in doggy, reach around and grab her chin. Pull her face up to you, forcing her to over extend and hyper-extend her lower back. This will cause great pain/pleasure if done correctly for her. Kiss her cheek during this and ensure verbal cues are relayed.
  • Fuck her fully clothed. Pull her skirt/dress up, panties to the side and fuck her like that, standing, from behind.

Level 5: Safe Gestures

  • Cover her mouth during any sexual act.
  • Cover her mouth and pinch her nose closed.
  • Use a pillow case over her head.
  • Slap her across the face during sexual acts.
  • Slap her breasts during sexual acts.
  • Come in her, tell her to squat down and let it drip out of her onto the floor. Once some is on the floor, order her to get on all 4's and lick it up.

Scenario Based Sex:

  • When she gets home from work, spring out from a hidden area, cover her mouth, drag her to the bedroom, toss her on the bed and rip her clothes off.

  • She is your tenant and you are her landlord. She enters your "office" from the garage, bedroom, etc. She is unable to pay her rent for the month. You take her to the kitchen where you have pre-staged a dinner setting for two. Use plastic plates or paper. She is going to explain the situation, and it will escalate to you offering rent in exchange for sex. She will resist verbally. You will get to the point where you stand up and violently sweep all the place settings off the table. Ensure you do this in a safe direction, and make sure you use plastic so nothing breaks. Once the table is cleared you march over to her and lift her up, roughly slamming her down onto the freshly cleaned off kitchen table where you will force yourself onto her from behind to collect your rent money. You will remind her that moving forward she will give you sex in exchange for free rent. This can then be a running fantasy for you and your wife for the entire month. You can send her texts like, "Rent is past due again, I will be collecting tonight"

  • She is a runner running through the park. You spring out from behind a tree and execute a rape fantasy.

  • Public library. You require a large public library. You meet each other somewhere in the back of the stacks for a sexual encounter.

There is a longer list that I am still working on, maybe that will be Part 3.

Until then, try and get your dick wet this weekend.

Come back, and tell us which of these you did yourself.

And you will notice, DEERING, masturbating and arguing with your SO are not on this list.