I sat down with my husband and we talked about the new baby. He’s concerned about wether we can handle 3 under 4. He's worried if we can afford another baby without assistance or me needing to go to work. And he’s worried about my health he doesn’t want me having babies back to back like our mothers did. I told him we’re going to get through this and we don’t have to have everything figured out.

He seemed happier after we talked and he said he wants another girl he said they’re easier.