For example I’ll be watching a movie with a girl but since I can’t think of a way to smoothly escalate I stop... I mean I’ll start making contact with her touching her hands/holding. But then if I see any mixed signals aka if I see something that tells me she might not like it I stop... idk why. And even when they do like it I have a lot of trouble transitioning to the kiss.

Another thing is what should I do with a passive girl? Like it’s like she just sits there. I wasn’t used to that so i kinda stopped escalating but she’s coming over again today and I just want to understand. Like she wasn’t saying no but her body language seemed very closed off but she was having a good time but her heart race on her watch was like crazy high probably in a good way?? But I just couldn’t tell. Her passiveness and lack of Like response kinda turned me away should I just push through and continue to escalate