I used to be a sucker for roms or rom coms.

I recently watched one the other night with my roommates (I live with a married couple) and then I tried watching one tonight.

I just realized the sympathetic parts for the women, where the woman who has been like fucking two different guys and then has to choose between them, or whatever it may be. And we have to feel empathy.

It could be that she finds this really great guy, but then her all-too-wrong-for-her ex shows up and wants her back so she fucking leaves the awesome guy who has taken care of her for the last few years for him.

I just don't give a shit anymore.

Go have a pity party, you want the guy who treated you like trash and the better man gets left? Or perhaps the "better man" was just a beta blue the whole time?

Either way there isn't any sympathy from me towards the woman in chick flicks anymore. Over it. thanks trp