My FWB who I was about to upgrade to LTR decided it was a good idea to get on the phone with another guy today while she was in my bed and act flirty with him.

I got visibly pissed, told her to get dressed and leave as soon as she hung up the phone, to which she said she’s sorry and won’t ever do it again. I told her I’m giving her a warning this once.

I asked her who the dude was and told her she needs to cut that dude out for the time being if she wants anything with me (she’s been “friends” with him for a while) and if she has a problem with that then she’s free to leave.

She agreed and that was that. I let her stay over after.

Should I have just kicked her out immediately without saying anything? Does this justify an immediate downgrade? I was thinking of soft nexting for a week just for the disrespect.