So I have been researching a lot on the red pill for the last year or so. I watch people such as Richard Cooper and Donovan Sharpe on Youtube.

I learned about oneitis through Richard Cooper and it instantly made me think of my father.

Him and my mother have been married since 1989. 9 days after I turned 18, my mother left him and moved 9 hours away to her home town. That was back in 2012. Since then, she has moved back in and left again probably 7 or 8 times. They have visited each other, he has spend MANY work bonus' on her: taking her to Vegas, cruise's, etc. He wholeheartedly thinks every time she comes back that she will "stay for good this time". It's a train wreck. He is an alcoholic, and in 2013 he really went off the deep-end.

She doesn't want to be with him, but she keeps stringing him along because "maybe her feelings will change"

They have consistently brought my sister and I into their issues for years. It used to effect me a lot more at 18-21. Now I just feel so over it. It's the same thing year after year. Next month will be 8 years since they separated.

If my mother wasn't so fucking selfish then my father could have used this time to get over her. But he can't do it. It's her or NO ONE. He refuses to try, he refuses to start over. I understand that every thing he has been through has really hurt him. But shouldn't there come a point where he should be focusing on moving on? He's really emotionally weak and I wish more than anything that he could be opened up to the red pill. But obviously it would be weird coming from his daughter, right?

I was thinking about maybe just leaving Rollo Tomassi's The Rational Male on his door step or something. Or do any of you have another book suggestion for someone with crazy oneitis?

I'm just not sure how to help, or if it's even my place to try to help.

Thanks everyone.