Edit: Title:...pretty red and echoing TRP*

I made a thread on here yesterday about the book and most people said the book is blue-pilled but I had access to a free copy so decided to read it anyways.

What I felt after reading it is that the book is pretty red-pilled and almost throughout echoes the message of TRP

  1. Basically it tells women to not be a nagging bitch when men are in their 'cave', to give men their space, to not ask excessive questions and to not keep pestering or take the guy retreating to his own space as a sign of abandonment.

  2. At the same time, it tells men that women are emotional creatures, they go through their 'waves', to not fix her emotions, just give her empathy and space till she rides out her emotions, to not take anything she says personally or as a flaw in him and to just provide your frame to her without offering any fixes

The book goes in great length about the specifics of the above two things, how the two genders have different psychology and languages and how they communicate etc

Ofcourse everything else in TRP still applies but I feel this is a great tool for men to deal with their main plates/LTRs and is an in-depth echo of some of our core-red pilled perspectives

I personally found the book great. I can't understand the hate it gets. Can someone who has actually read the book explain me why it is considered so blue-pilled and looked down upon? Because I feel I am missing an important lesson in TRP here by failing to understand this